Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

It was my first real girlfriend (at 19), the first person I cared about, I grew up with no emotional support at my home due to a divorce, I never had a father to show me certain things, and I hurt the love of my life with my own problems for about a year and 8 months. I am a difficult person, I understand, and I know why she left me, and it took me loosing her to realize what I had what I lost and what I know I am capable of and who I really am. She was the first person I ever opened up to emotionally to, I had no one else before, and I am so glad she came into my life and showed me how to open myself, how to love, how to enjoy life, but it was too late, i fell comfortable and didn't get her what she needed, I was selfish, but I realized it now that I lost her, I even asked her to marry me because I know she will be happy with me as I. She wants space but to see other people, WHY? - WHAT CAN I DO TO SHOW HER IM SORRY AND PROVE TO HER MY LOVE. I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER.

2006-11-30 06:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an ex-boyfriend that I was madly in love with when we dated. However I relationship ended because he was not ready for the type of relationship I wanted at that time (1996). Anyway, we remained friends. Years later (1998), my best friend invited some relatives to move in with us. Her two cousins moved in and all was great for a while. After some time, I moved out and into another apt bldg in the same complex. Shortly after I started dating a co-worker and things progressed until I moved back home in 2000. Four months after my ex called me to advise me that he was dating my ex roommate. My ex roommate called me upset and irrate becasue she felt like he was asking my permission to date her. Anyway, they got married two years ago and had a baby two months ago. I was the wedding decorator, and the hostess for the baby shower (at her request). She continue to be suspicious of our friendhsip, with no reason for concern. Why does she continue to invite me into her life events?

2006-11-30 06:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Weddings

I say spanish since antonio banderas is lighter than italians
they are dark and not arian

2006-11-30 06:02:14 · 7 answers · asked by SPANISHMANRETURNS 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 06:02:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going on a little vacation in February. I am plannign it for just myself but if I do end up inviting a friend of mine would it be wrong of me to ask her to pay for half of the room?
She will have to pay for all the rest of her stuff, food, entertainment, alcohol, etc.....

2006-11-30 06:01:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well how do I know if the guy is calling me over to his place for a booty call or he is calling because he wants to get to know me better. we meet in an online dating website and had 1st date went well , now he calls me over to his place.

2006-11-30 06:01:42 · 7 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Singles & Dating

This is so backwards, but she doesn't want anything too serious (or so she says, at least not yet) b/c she figures I am too good for her. Now I know what you all think, and I have thought the same thing, but I am now convinced she is the first persin to ever say that and mean it. I am as sure as I can be. So, any suggestions for getting her over this? It's ridiculous, really, but I want her to realize how much I want HER w/out overdoing it. How do I convince/help her let go of this BS idea she has?

2006-11-30 06:01:41 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 06:01:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 06:00:33 · 15 answers · asked by Henrriette S 2 in Singles & Dating

My dude acts like a dirty old man and he is my age ,like he just has this thing of oh honey Ive neglected u ! ect...and he does his own thing like flirting with woman and its just the whole package .Like they know how to please every woman ect.Have u ever met a guy like that?how do they get like that?Weird!

2006-11-30 06:00:32 · 2 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Singles & Dating

Could you guys be so kind to go in my pofile and look at my last question, same name.. i need a few other opinions and it's kinda long so i didnt retype it.. thanks

2006-11-30 06:00:28 · 2 answers · asked by smokingstonersweetheart 4 in Family

There's this girl I'm totally infatuated with. I haven't really seen her in over a month and a half. I ran into her last night. Running over dumb pleasantries she asked me if I wanted to hang out with her today. I said I'd call her. But I don't think she thinks of me in that way. She either just likes my company or really likes teasing and tormenting me. Not sure which. All I know is that I'm usually ruined for four or five days after seeing her. Should I call her. Or should I just stay away. And if I call her should I make a move and force her to reject me. Yeah, I know I should grow a pair. And I usually do except when it comes to this girl.

2006-11-30 05:59:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question has been on my mind for a few years off and on entering my thoughts. I live here down in the south of TN and am Military. I've seen plenty of interracial couples, matter of fact I'm married to someone outside my own race. I've seen asian women with white man, and even a few asian men with white females, but I've never seen an asian man with a black sista? What's the deal. Thanks for veiwing my very first question. : )

2006-11-30 05:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by mysticdancer47 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 05:58:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there was a time in my life when i new what i wanted and needed, for many months now i've lived in confusion, he seems to love me only if i shut up about certain subjects, for me i can't or refuse to live like that. To my way of thinking, to get married is to be open and honest about everything, hence the recipe for a strong lasting foundation for love..which nothing and no one can break...didn't work out that way...now i need to move on somehow.
''Anger your dark, with words you hurt, no trust, no faith, no want or worth''like ice with spice the cold you slice, an art that comes with ease, your words inflict, blame, correct...for now you have no one to put down.^*^

2006-11-30 05:58:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i just started dating this guy but i met someone else who is way better than him what do i do who do i choose?

2006-11-30 05:57:57 · 13 answers · asked by jasmine s 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, i had dated this guy for like a week, and honestly i liked the thought of being single. and to a point i still do, but i am really falling for this guy in one of my classes....He always flirting with me and talking to me, and making me smile... But i dont know if i should go for it, or if he only views me as a sister.

2006-11-30 05:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by Nikki M 1 in Singles & Dating

that she can know where is the limits in the relations as general ... and do not do silly things like most of the girls are .. silly talks and silly interests or she is considered too serious ..

2006-11-30 05:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by doctora didi 2 in Singles & Dating

she took sleepin pills and wrote a goodbye letter. she´s awake now again, we made her throw it up but how to support her?

2006-11-30 05:55:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently got married.I dont understand where my jelousy came from.When I was with my ex he used to be the jelous one.I used to be a very cool girlfriend.I didnt care if he wanted to go out with his friends.I would push him to have fun in the club and to look at porn if he wanted to but he wasnt into that.Now Im with this guy (my hubby) and I became the REALLY jelous girl and he is the cool laidback guy just like I was.I feel like I have turned into a Pornophobic person.He says he only watches porn with me which is ok and he doesnt hide anything from me. I know where all his porn is (which is not much) and he tells everything.I like the way I am and I know he would never cheat on me but I feel like jelousy is taking over and I feel like its taking away yars of my life.I want to be the way I used to be.I loved it and Im sure he would appreciate it too but I cant.hes gone to 2 stipclubs.i was there with him once.i cant handle it.he tries to help me but its hard.why do i feel this?

2006-11-30 05:55:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That's what I do, too, and I'm not sure why because it always gets me in trouble. I'm not sure if I can change but just wondering why is it this way?

2006-11-30 05:55:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 05:55:15 · 4 answers · asked by Diego Rivera 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 05:55:15 · 2 answers · asked by Dana 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30. Dad died 8 mos ago. I quit job,left my home + moved n with mother to help.She's unable to work-health (illnesses r not life threatening) I'm not complaining that she can't work.(she gets disability)I'm unable to work because she had a lot of appointments. No one would offer me set hours of employment. So, all i've done's take care of her, who's able to take care of herself. She is unable to drive. Thats the worst of her illness. I take her everywhere. We r together 24/7!The only escape is taking a shower. She won't let me go off with ONLY FRIEND I HAVE LEFT! shs wants me with her. I thought it was a fear of being alone, but it is beyond that now. I cook,clean,do yard,drive,etc. I do everyhting for her except bathe+wipe her. NOw i'm clinically depressed + i cant take it anymore.We argue everyday.Just finished fussing. She+friend wanted to go shop, i did not.she demanded i go. I nicely said i would rather stay home and relax. NO! I LOVE HER SO MUCH! I CANT LEAVE HER-CANT STAY!

2006-11-30 05:55:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I had a dream about my ex and in this dream I got pregnat by him, but we broke-up 3 or 4 months ago. I wonder do I still have feelings for him or am I just crazy?

2006-11-30 05:54:44 · 17 answers · asked by frosty_gurl2010 1 in Singles & Dating

i has a gf...she likes me and i like her..and she is in a boarding hostel while im day but we are in the same sckool...we only see at recess and we aint in the same class...i only tell ha wats up and hug ha...so can u tell me wat else i can tell ha...topics of things to talk bout...plz help...wat are the things to do...wat can i do to get closer to her..i really like her...maybe its dat im a little shy...but apart from wats up wat shud i say

2006-11-30 05:53:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello,
My sister was in amy wedding party and she did not have me a gift or at least a card. It's been 2 months since the wedding. She is the only one who we didn't receive anything from. Should I send her a thank you note for coming to the wedding with her husband and kids or should I not because I already have her a gift and thank you at the rehearsal dinner. I have to say I am very hurt by this.

2006-11-30 05:53:10 · 16 answers · asked by MichS 1 in Weddings

Is it the same?, I know it depends on you, but must of th people think the other person is staying for sure and they don't need to do stuff to keep the other person interested, comeon guys, I know you want more space and time with your friends, right? Is sex the same, do you do it more often, less, ???

2006-11-30 05:52:45 · 9 answers · asked by NONONO 2 in Singles & Dating

after 6 months she told her husband about me and for the following 18 months we have been together off and on,she keeps telling me she wants to be alone and we dont see each other for a while and then it seems she falls in love with me again and its all back on!when we see each other its fantastic we enjoy each other so much,but the problem is her husband, he lies uses her family and sends her on guilt trips over the kids he also visits her every night and is very good at making her believe she wants her old life back basically he dont leave her alone. She says she dont want to live with him, go anywhere with him and most certainly doesnt want to sleep with him and loves him like a brother and as the father of her kids.i know she loves me and when we are together it seems so right she says the same.Currently she feels as if she knows what she wants but he and her family are dragging her back. she isnt a lier and i know she loves me but she is finding it hard to move on can anyone help

2006-11-30 05:52:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have a young employee who is leaving our firm to join the military. All his family is back east and we are here in California. He seems a little home-sick and lonely sometimes. We want to give him some kind of care package before he leaves to go to boot-camp. Any ideas?

2006-11-30 05:52:21 · 3 answers · asked by mellygirl 2 in Friends