I have an ex-boyfriend that I was madly in love with when we dated. However I relationship ended because he was not ready for the type of relationship I wanted at that time (1996). Anyway, we remained friends. Years later (1998), my best friend invited some relatives to move in with us. Her two cousins moved in and all was great for a while. After some time, I moved out and into another apt bldg in the same complex. Shortly after I started dating a co-worker and things progressed until I moved back home in 2000. Four months after my ex called me to advise me that he was dating my ex roommate. My ex roommate called me upset and irrate becasue she felt like he was asking my permission to date her. Anyway, they got married two years ago and had a baby two months ago. I was the wedding decorator, and the hostess for the baby shower (at her request). She continue to be suspicious of our friendhsip, with no reason for concern. Why does she continue to invite me into her life events?
2006-11-30 06:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She is probably wondering if he still has feelings for you since he still had enough respect to tell you that he was dating her. Then again she may feel guilty because he is the one who came to you about their relationship and not her. She should know that you are over him if you help decorate for their wedding and help with the baby shower.
Like someone said she is probably trying to keep an eye on you.
2006-11-30 06:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by MISS 84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While she didnt actually do anything wrong dating him, as you had already broken up, she feels guilty. Your ex did the right thing telling you so that you didnt find out from somebody else. She is proving to him that you are ok with it. What is happening though means you should move on and tell her you feel if she is suspicious it is better not to have contact at all , wish them both well. Its too much to expect you to be that close knowing the history. You can try to keep the friendship but it wont work in the long run.
2016-05-23 05:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she feels guilty but is trying to be subtle
about it and is afraid to ask what your true
feelings are about the whole situation.
2006-11-30 06:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sound terribly insecure. Too bad for him. She probably is keeping you close so that she can keep an eye on you.
2006-11-30 06:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by MT Hammer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
burry the past.. live life the way u want babes... and life for urself.. dont worry about what others think about u.. ur relationships...
2006-11-30 07:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by The one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-11-30 06:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋