I am going on a little vacation in February. I am plannign it for just myself but if I do end up inviting a friend of mine would it be wrong of me to ask her to pay for half of the room?
She will have to pay for all the rest of her stuff, food, entertainment, alcohol, etc.....
2006-11-30 06:01:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2006-11-30 06:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by psycho 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Invitations are usually thought of as expenses paid for, unless specifically stated otherwise. Unless you tell her upfront you want ther to cover her part of the trip I say don't ask her. As a woman being invited on a trip with a guy, I wouldn't go unless he paid for the trip...unless our relationship is strictly platonic. Still an invitation is an invitation. When my best friend-girl invites me to dinner I expect her to pay and vice versa, so go figure!
2006-11-30 06:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is JUST a friend, you might ask her what she thinks. She may expect to pay half. But if she going to go to bed with you, it's the LEAST you can do to pay for the room.
2006-11-30 06:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Angel L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that it is a good idea, there wouldn't be any ties, nothing will be expected from either of you and you would still have fun which every you perfer. I think you are to a good idea because it is only fair in this respect.....And if you are only there to have sex then I would do the same thing...Smart choice young man!
2006-12-01 04:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, there is nothing wrong with that. it will be more expensive. why not have her help you pay for the room. Unless the room is the same price without her then you should pay the whole thing. be the man.
2006-11-30 06:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it would not be if you do not any plans of dating her. If this is just pure friendship then it's ok, but if you think you'd like to date her, you may want to pick up some of her tabs.
Also, before you ask her, be sure to clarify that she will be responsible for her share of the tabs, so there is not any confusion...goodluck
2006-11-30 06:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Joni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with telling her up front that you would like her company, but that she needs to pay her own way. Have a great vacation.
2006-11-30 06:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well no because it`s only fair for your friend to pay her way but if you want to be a gentleman then you should pay for the drinks at least and maybe the food but other than that it sounds fair
2006-11-30 06:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong just as long as she's your friend. However, you must know that if you like her she'll never go out with you after this vacation.
2006-11-30 06:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing at all wrong in letting her know it's not a free trip. When you ask her if she's interested in going, let her know right then about what it'll cost her so she doesn't assume right off that she's your guest.
2006-11-30 06:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you invited her you should pay for the room. if you plan on doing things together you should split the cost.
2006-11-30 06:06:01 · answer #11 · answered by rebi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋