It was my first real girlfriend (at 19), the first person I cared about, I grew up with no emotional support at my home due to a divorce, I never had a father to show me certain things, and I hurt the love of my life with my own problems for about a year and 8 months. I am a difficult person, I understand, and I know why she left me, and it took me loosing her to realize what I had what I lost and what I know I am capable of and who I really am. She was the first person I ever opened up to emotionally to, I had no one else before, and I am so glad she came into my life and showed me how to open myself, how to love, how to enjoy life, but it was too late, i fell comfortable and didn't get her what she needed, I was selfish, but I realized it now that I lost her, I even asked her to marry me because I know she will be happy with me as I. She wants space but to see other people, WHY? - WHAT CAN I DO TO SHOW HER IM SORRY AND PROVE TO HER MY LOVE. I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER.
2006-11-30 06:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants space she asked for space to think until Christmas, which is a month away and I found out through a friend she was flirting with other guys and stuff to figure out if she wanted to be with me and that hurts me more than anything in the world. Too little to late i know, but what can I do to show her? i am 100% confident i now know who I am what im about and what I want in life and thats primarly to make her happy so that I can be happy as well and we can have a great life together. I have been on my knees for her the past 2 weeks and I have been confessing everything thats secret to me that I have never shared with anyone because I need to show her who I am, I don't know what else to do or say to her to show her how much I love her and that I don't want to have this mistake irrepairable later on becuase I know we are meant to be and she knows it too. She shows emotion and cries sometimes and sometimes shes hard and says hurtful things, I made her calloused..
2006-11-30 06:06:39 · update #1
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It sounds like she is hurting really bad. I would talk to her and tell her everything you said on here. Also prove to her that you want her, make her feel important, show her you love her, spend time with her, buy her a small gift. Goodluck hope this helps!!
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She is hurting and I hate myself for it, i really do and i have been honest with her with everything i have completely opened up to her and she thinks its me being selfish and i'm not im trying to meet her again, be her friend again so that I can show her how precious she is to me and how damn retarded I was. I have been getting her flowers leaving her notes telling her how sorry I am. and she has alot on her plate to worry about and I dont wanna be selfish i want to give her time, but i cant live with myself knowing i hurt her so much and her never truly knowing how sorry i am and how capable I am of change :((((((
2006-11-30 06:11:53 · update #2
It may be too late. Be content with a simple, heartfelt apology.
If she has already moved on with her life, you need to do the same.
To honor her and your newfound sense of direction, don't make the same mistakes next time.
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2006-11-30 06:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by John L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its Really bad that u had a break up with Your Girlfriend..ok i am telling you somethings which maybe useful...
First of All - Give her A Beautiful Big Card of I am Sorry and Bunch of Red or Yellow Flowers.
Get on Your Knees and Request her to Forgive you and Say that you really wont do that again.
Be More Romantic to her...when u meet her ask her to marry you and at that time show her the Wedding Ring.
Try this out and tell me...Best Of Luck...
2006-11-30 14:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ishan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and give her some time and space. The more you push up on her, eventually you're going to push her away. Give her sometime to think things over. If she wants to be with you again, then she'll let you know. BTW - You're still being selfish. You're not respecting her wishes right now.
2006-11-30 15:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to lost but might have, sometimes you can hurt a person so many times til you drive the love right out of them. Just Let her go and move on. She'll come around if she wants too.
2006-11-30 14:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by DOLLY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is hurting really bad. I would talk to her and tell her everything you said on here. Also prove to her that you want her, make her feel important, show her you love her, spend time with her, buy her a small gift. Goodluck hope this helps!!
2006-11-30 14:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you now? Give her the space she's asked for, but send a card on occasion, maybe some flowers, but span it out!!
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2006-11-30 14:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by mejicojohn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Forget her and goto a few strip clubs man.
2006-11-30 14:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is what you do:
Whip out your wheenie and slap her in the face with it.
2006-11-30 14:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
don't talk about those problems anymore.
2006-11-30 14:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by neyoneyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋