Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

Left after 18 years for internet pal. (see related question from
Jeepster, me). Should hope be held out for eventual return.

2006-11-30 05:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by Jeepster 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it is best to wait untell you're through with school to get married? What is your age range ?

2006-11-30 05:25:09 · 15 answers · asked by Lordes D 3 in Singles & Dating

he told my friend when he broke up with his girlfriend he was gonna ask me out cause i had big boobs
is he trying to say like a botty call

2006-11-30 05:24:10 · 8 answers · asked by barbie* 1 in Singles & Dating

1of the first thing my boyfriend expressed to me when we met was that he thought cheating is wrong and he would never do that. but i was looking rfor him on myspace and i found someone with the same interests, apperence,and beliefs thats from the same city he is. but his title is i luv my baby amber(my name is SAMI). he goes on and says that he is madly in luv with her and there iz no one else for him. she gave him a comment using words like baby boy and luv yo wifey. and this is was recently.

i dont kno wat i should do should i go beat the ***** ambers *** or should i beat his ***. and wat if im wrong but he doesnt call me. and i tried to call him after i found all this but he wont pick up the phone. im 15 he is 16. im thinkng he doesnt kno who he is messin wit because i can a new boo like that(i got 2 that will do nething for me right now) so wat should i do? o yea this is my 1st bf and i thought he would be special.

2006-11-30 05:24:08 · 29 answers · asked by Sami M 2 in Singles & Dating

it happened alot with me like they wud come and ask "how r u?" and then they just become so silent...i wud be like "yes?"

2006-11-30 05:24:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but we still see each other its hard for us to let go neither one of us want to we make each other feel alive an we want to be togather every chance we get

2006-11-30 05:23:40 · 16 answers · asked by tykeriamala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had it. I love my wife but I cannot breath anymore. I am 33 married 7 years. I do everything for her & she appreciates nothing. I have always been 100% faithful and have never done anything to make her suspicious, but I can't go out with some coworker friends for the first time in more than FOUR YEARS without her worrying some female will get wasted and I will take advantage of her. I am just about the most reliable, trustworthy, friendly, caring, helpful, considerate and polite person you have ever met and I am tired of being told I am none of those things. I have a Doctorate & make great money which she blows and I have never complained about. I have kept myself in good shape while she gained 80 lb, & I have put myself through therapy to learn to deal with it? I am tired of dealing with it.

2006-11-30 05:23:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sagitarius is male, capricorn cusp, rising sign is gemini and lunar sign is scorpio. gemini is female, taurus cusp, rising sign is gemini and lunar sign is aries. any knowledge you can impart is helpful and appreciated.

2006-11-30 05:22:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 05:22:55 · 15 answers · asked by dugbuggy22 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl in Putnam,CT

2006-11-30 05:20:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a bf that i have been with for 3 yrs. we have broke up like 20 times but still trying to make it work. we have had so many problems. i really do love this guy and would marry him if he showed more potential. i do know he loves me but im tired of everthing being a problem. he lives with me and we have a problem about everthing. when he suppose to give me money on the bills he takes his time. we go days sometimes without sex. he use to be on time from work, now he has to work a few hrs late. he doesnt play with me ,like love play, he stares at other women, he goes to bed early every weekend but when he is out he stays up late. he has lied about things before. now i want to be with him but i need to be loved or experience a man in a intimate way whether its mental or physical. i feel like having an affair to get these things cuz im only human. what do i do? even if i just go out on a date. i want to feel special with a man. i feel special to myself but i want this with a man. help

2006-11-30 05:20:16 · 30 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I married my husband because i new he would take care of me financially and i loved him.My parents especially my mom taught me to do this from a young age always saying girls should marry up a class and not down. Now i fear i only fell in love with an image and not the real person.Its been 3 years and i hate myself for marrying to a certain extent for money why do people think it makes you happy?Its caused me nothing but misery for me?

2006-11-30 05:20:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Myself and my fiance are both 20 years old. We have been together for 3 years and have been living together for 2, however we have known each other for many many years. I am a university student and have completed 3 years of my 5.5 year program and I would like to wait until I graduate to get married so we can be more financially stable. Do you think it is ok to wait 3 years to get married? We are already living common law.

2006-11-30 05:19:15 · 26 answers · asked by Andrew 1 in Weddings

Without being a nuisance, while you are busy?

2006-11-30 05:18:15 · 17 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Singles & Dating

Men, honestly. . . what is your stand on this.
I'm a single mother and I feel like I'm
starting over with a whole new set of limitations on
who'lll even want to date me. . .where as before I didn't ever
feel there were limitations.

What do you think ???

2006-11-30 05:17:05 · 26 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Like, u no
do u just kiss their upper and lower lips

And for a snog
do u just kiss their upper and lower lips

I no this is a stupid question but how would i no!!

2006-11-30 05:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by Bonnie L 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well im in 9th grade and so is he. we both have liked eachother since 7th grade. See in in 7th grade we had one class together and we talked everyday then 8 grade no classes didnt really talk what so ever because we didnt see eachother like at all. Now in 9 grade he found me on myspace and i got his sn. we started talking and he told me that he still likes me and i told him that i still liked him. He also says all this stuff to me like how much he wants me and how sexy i am and basicly all this sexual **** and of course i say it back. But the problem is, is that at school if we pass eachother in the halls he wont look, talk or anything at me. We dont have any classes together so the only time i will see him is passing time between classes but why wont he do anything? He also likes alot of other girls and will talk to them so why wont he talk to me and all the other girls? and at school it doesnt seem hes interested in me because he doesnt do nething and thats y i dont go up to him

2006-11-30 05:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole S 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is the scenario: Could you do it and keep a straight face as little Rastas Buckwheat the "black monster with curly hair" is trying to figure out what you are saying, then when you say it again in a firmer voice - his little lip starts to quiver and tears run down the little "mugwamps" face as he cries..."momma, momma da white man u tryan to hurtz ma"......and THEN YOU REALIZE THAT IS THE CHILD OF ZAQUWEESHA THE BLACK COOK THAT YOU DATED A FEW YEARS AGO...AND NOW YOU REALIZE YOU HAVE A LITTLE "MIXED" RACIAL CHILD????

SO, WHAT DO YOU DO?

2006-11-30 05:14:04 · 16 answers · asked by Wallaforadolla 1 in Family

i've been thinking about it...and i want to know different opinions... if its why?, and if it isn't then what can you do to make things better?...

2006-11-30 05:13:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like the same thing my friend an i like to go out an have fun when our spouse like to run things we can tell each other anything but we cant talk to our spouse we enjoy each other an sneak to see each other an sneak an talk on the phone is that wrong

2006-11-30 05:13:46 · 14 answers · asked by tykeriamala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked how I can locate my Daughter, I got an answer I went with & now for the first time in 12 years, my daughter is calling me every few day's & writing me too....She had been looking for me for 2 year's....What a great Christmas present & I owe it all to the Answers people........THANK YOU.........I know this is not a question, but, please let other people see this

2006-11-30 05:13:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Neither myself or our daughter could swim. But you were a savy lifeguard and could only save one of us. One of us will die. We have no marriage problems and everythings hunky-dore. Who would you save and why?

2006-11-30 05:12:52 · 11 answers · asked by Reel Homme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for the past two year and have a seven months old baby. My husband loves his little girl but when I see he loves his 13 year old brother( from his aunt but he calls him brother) more than our little baby girl. He is just crazy for him ( I would say he is obsessed) and he buys him anything ( doesn't matter to him how expensive that thing is) whatever he asks for. when I was pregnant he used to go tosee him 3-4 times a week ( he has his pictures every where in a room but I told him that when we have our own baby he has to spend time with our baby now since we have a baby he doesn't get to see him as often as he used to do so he is paying him of for that buying expensive things now (eventhough he buys things for his own baby too) I didn't say anything but I asked him why he seems so crazy for him he said that he consider him as his first kid that means our baby is the second one for him ( this is very hurting to me) how can I make him understand that this is not righ

2006-11-30 05:12:36 · 11 answers · asked by hondolkk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it all started when my husband met this girl in a chat room.they had constant talks everyday thru phones and chat.my husband changed a lot towards me ..his personality change from good to bad..to the point he told me he doesnt like me anymore..weve been together for ten years and our relationship was really good and were so much in love with each other not until he got hooked with chatting and then met this girl.

they havent seen each other yet..because the girl lives in our home country.and we are here abroad working.but im sure when my husband goes home..hell find a way to meet this girl personally.

we were married for 6 years but started together when i was still 19 and hes 17.

im really having a hard time right now.and it reallly hurts a lot being rejected and soon to be abandoned.although sometimes he keeps on telling me that he loves me and want our marriage to be intact.
but he cant end his communication with the girl.the girl doesnt mind if hes married.

2006-11-30 05:12:33 · 17 answers · asked by bianca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does he mean its the best part?

whats so good about the chase?

2006-11-30 05:12:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A kid thinks that he or she is ready to date, but when shoild you say that it is ok ? How should you base you decision on grdes, behavior, attitude or maturity level? How do you tell if they are ready? Do I have "the Talk" with them?

2006-11-30 05:12:19 · 9 answers · asked by Lordes D 3 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is getting married at atlantis in april. A bunch of us want to stay at comfort suites because it is cheaper and it offers access to the atlantis resort. The people who are getting married are telling us that the resort told them that in order to attend their wedding we have to stay at the resort. Does anyone know if this is true?

2006-11-30 05:11:25 · 3 answers · asked by helen s 2 in Weddings

I was out of the country for two months when she told me after buying it. I was planning to move in with her in the near future (I didn't tell her this until after she bought the pup), but I don't think that I can live with a dog. I don't want the responsibility and dogs smell up the apartment. Most importantly, she didn't ask me first and it affects the dynamics of our entire relationship. I feel like she adopted a child without asking mne first.

2006-11-30 05:10:44 · 17 answers · asked by Scotch77 1 in Singles & Dating

My nephew is part of our daily lives, he and my son are very close now. My son enjoys his company. This incident happened about 10 years ago. My son is now 15 and nephew is 20. Our families are extremely close. My sister and nephew know nothing about CPS evaluating my son. They dont even know that I know this happened. This is extremely difficult because our families are so close. Please give me your input on this.

2006-11-30 05:10:39 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Family

i like this girl at chruch her name is jessica she is 15 i am 17. everytime i look at her she look back at me we dont smile. but she plays whit her hair alot when i look at her. what does that mean.

2006-11-30 05:09:47 · 6 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating