Do you think it is best to wait untell you're through with school to get married? What is your age range ?
2006-11-30 05:25:09 · 15 answers · asked by Lordes D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in skoo n im engaged, everyone is telling me to wait til i finish college, but i think is really up to u.
i am gettin married while still in skoo. i work and pay bills plus manage to do hwork so i dont think marriage will b something really new to me since i already have household responsibilities.
2006-11-30 05:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best time to get married is when both of you:
1. Can take care of yourselves emotionally and financially.
2. Are able to face up to, and deal with, the consequences of making poor decisions.
3. Have stable lives and can deal with life's ups and downs.
4. Understand why you're getting married and aren't doing it for other reasons (like not wanting to be lonely or because you feel no one else wants you)
5. You've lived on your own long enough to be able to take care of yourself.
If you've accomplished these things, you're probably ready. No matter what age you are (as long as you're legally of age).
2006-11-30 13:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the individual in question. Normally, it would be better to get through at least the standard education, before thinking about marriage. But providing it's legal, and you're with the right person, and you both feel that it's the right thing to do then I think that it would be alright to get married.
2006-11-30 14:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jonesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'am 18 and planning to get married after the first of the year I don't graduate until MAY! I think that it all depends some people say that its better to wait until your finished with school! But I disagree
2006-11-30 13:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Groover_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should wait till your all finished school, then you should think about getting married. I'll say between the age of 22-24.
2006-11-30 13:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by santy_kushwaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe you should get married when you are ready. age doesn't matter, and neither does the length of time you were together (i mean, as long as it's reasonable, not like a week).
and being ready does not mean when you know you love each other and all that. marriage is a commitment. you have to be financially, emotionally, physically, and mentally ready as well. it's a lot of work.
2006-11-30 13:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
research said that women are fully mature at the age of 26 and guys at the age of 28 but I say follow your heart if you think that you are mature enough to get married then go for it just remember it takes about 30,000 for a divorce
2006-11-30 13:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by erk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not an age thing, it's a maturity thing.
You should be able to communicate with your spouse on all matters, big and small, as well as be financially independent from your parents. Remember, once you get married, his debts become yours and yours become his.
2006-11-30 13:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is from 30 to 40.
2006-11-30 13:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 31, got married at 21. I was too young, now divorced. I would say when you feel ready
2006-11-30 13:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋