Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

My dad is insisting that I WRITE down a Life plan, and figure out ways of getting to where I want to be. I think its pretty stupid to write it down. I have my goals, and know what I need to get there. He wants all the details of acheieving a goal. I mean isnt that ridiculous, I might be dead tommorrow, things change all the time. Plans are just that plans, cant really do anything about the reality. Im really pissed off over this. he's threatening to kick me out the house, if dont have it soon. I dont really know where to begin, I dont have life experience, I am asking for his help in making one, but he refuses he says its my responsibility. How do people in their 20 figure out what they do in life? I want to do a lot!

2006-11-30 04:56:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I can't go home, theres some girl at the door. I can't go to school because i get mobbed by girls....

2006-11-30 04:56:31 · 14 answers · asked by Jaeer A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:55:31 · 20 answers · asked by tykeriamala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he never gives me anythin he never says hi , but i really like him. I haven't told my ex i have a new bf and he keeps calling me and i kno he likes me. What should i do

2006-11-30 04:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by Pink Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

She was flirting with me and when she push me to the wall I was leaning and she tried to walk by and she got trip up by my feet. And she called me a dick wad. It was an accident. Not on purpose.

2006-11-30 04:55:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually we were living in different location happily. they created disturbance in my office made me to left the job.when i enterd my native place they balmed for unemployment stated pushing me into anti social prestige scenario by insulting in major functionsof relatives. when i thought living lonely would solve problems . they create troubles legally financially to my money famil;y relations. now they r creating feelig oriented attacks by phone politically legally threatening indirectly uselessly. now3 i am deeply into emotionally trapped sothat i dont raise my voice against with them . please guide me . cosider me like your s sincerely

2006-11-30 04:55:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Keep it reall!!!!

2006-11-30 04:54:55 · 7 answers · asked by Ceramel 1 in Singles & Dating

12.5 INCHES FOR A VIRGINS FIRST TIME IS THAT TOO BIG

2006-11-30 04:54:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:54:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:53:45 · 25 answers · asked by jamie k 2 in Singles & Dating

In March of this year, my wife of ten years decided she didn't want to continue our relationship because she just didn't have feelings for me anymore. She said she wants to be on her own and not have the hassle of trying to be happy with me. We've known each other our entire lives and neither one of us has been married to any others. She told me that she has had these feelings for about 3 years, but did not voice them fully until this year. She says that her feelings for me are gone, and she wants to move on without me. I have told her many times that I want to work on our marriage and even go to counseling to fix our relationship. She refuses to do anything about it, other than end it. Have any other women on here had this issue, and is there any information that would be helpful to me in order to save our marriage? God bless.

2006-11-30 04:53:37 · 23 answers · asked by devoted dad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy says he will call you later or call you back and then doesn't is he not interested, or is he just forgetful??

2006-11-30 04:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by crackerz_in_bed 2 in Singles & Dating

Watching Tyra the other night, it seemed men like woman who have some thickness vs skinny. what do men prefer?

2006-11-30 04:53:17 · 21 answers · asked by Olga 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:53:14 · 25 answers · asked by tprincl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:53:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna move on and just not feel guilty all the time for breaking it off with him. i wanna enjoy my youth

2006-11-30 04:51:19 · 25 answers · asked by Kristin 1 in Singles & Dating

We're months away from getting married, and my fear is that our honeymoon will be spent in 2 seperate rooms!! :( Any suggestions?

2006-11-30 04:49:54 · 22 answers · asked by LOinVE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My elder sister met a guy on net. He said his wife was giving him trouble and he was going to divorce her in a years time. He had an affair with my sister and he promised to marry her after seeking divorce from his wife. Now he says he can't divorce his wife because his father is bed-ridden and has to be looked after which he and his wife is doing. He said though he is married with his wife he is only name sake married and is having no marital relations with her. He wants to continue with my sister. Should my sister breakup with him or continue?

2006-11-30 04:49:33 · 22 answers · asked by Naazneen D 1 in Singles & Dating

mix marriages like those americans,marrying african americans......and all other sorts..........

2006-11-30 04:49:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by Looking 4 Love 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out this morning that my husband has been checking the Yahoo personals every day as well as visiting teen hardcore porn sites. I don't think he is replying to anything and we have had a difficult first couple of years of marriage involving another man who used to be my best friend who aked me to marry him just after I got married to my husband. I though we were doing really well now, however and that was all over. I'm all over him every day and I'm usually lucky if I can even get him to make out with.me. I'm tall, thin and attractive. Why isn't he interested in making love to me? I've caught him checking the personals before and he said he felt bad and he thought I was going to leave him, since I'm so unhappy in this new town. I shrugged it off because it made sense in a weird way, but he is still checking them! EVERY DAY! Like I said, I don't think he is replying, but how should I feel about him checking them, even if he doesn't reply? Please, helpful answers only.

2006-11-30 04:48:47 · 10 answers · asked by Ophelia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a really good friend who just lost her husband last week. She has a daughter who still very much believes in Santa Claus but unfortuanetly christmas funds went for funeral expenses. I really want to help her but I cant because I am on the financial down slope and am out of work myself. Does anyone have any ideas how I can give christmas to this very special girl. I did try Salvation army but according to them there is a waiting list. I also called area cheurches but they are not memebers so I am getting no where...please help

2006-11-30 04:47:56 · 20 answers · asked by Jen B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a friend in Asia, I am an African and he is European,our friendship grows to intimately. We spent nights together playing and doing all bed rolling. He started asking me what kind of boyfriend I need, I did not answer precisely because the answer is- him. He has 80% of what my dream man must be. now we stay in close cities in europe. He respected the fact that I do not wanted to have sex with him for a long time, when I calls he answers, when I need him he is there, he teaches me lot of things. We have been to holidays together, we had and still having best times together. He is mad about my culture more than I am with his culture. I am learning his mother tongue and he has started to learn mine. Not so long I will be vising him at his place and he wants to visit my place also. What he is not doing is to declare his love which I believe he does and sometimes enjoys to be off line. What might be the reason? I feel frustrated because I love him.

2006-11-30 04:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by ALS 3 in Singles & Dating

We can't afford a big bash, So we were thinking about 12 people, for a sunset wedding in Mexico .. has anybody had such a small wedding before? Any tips?

2006-11-30 04:47:38 · 13 answers · asked by LOinVE 1 in Weddings

I'm a girl moved into a new town this year, and In June I met a friend #2 through a friend #1, and we all became very close. Friend #1 moved away, so I kept in contact with #2 and we called each other from time to time. In August, I got in a major car accident, so friend #2 called to see if I was ok and If I ever needed anything, that I should let her know. I told her no problem, but thanks for the offer (I didnt wanna take advantage of her), and we talked on the phone every week after that. In September, I called her to see maybe if she wanted to hang out sometime (she knew I didnt have a car yet: I was still shopping around) and she said oh I'll call you. My birthday was 9-26 and she knew that also and didnt call me. Recently, she decided to call me (11-17-06) and left a message. I guess I dont need friends like that so I didnt call her back. Then she called again 11-29-06. Should I swallow my pride and just call her, or should I continue to avoid her and just move on?

2006-11-30 04:47:26 · 3 answers · asked by Its me again 5 in Friends

Who was nice, assertive, funny, made alot of money, but was butt ugly?

2006-11-30 04:47:24 · 5 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:46:56 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should you still ask them out?

what would you do???

advice is helpful!

thanks!!!!!!!!!!

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2006-11-30 04:46:29 · 12 answers · asked by bosstastic<3 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl is like, oh meet up next week, but come next week, she's like oh, I'm busy, oh she's like oh let's work on this project together, then when I try to set up an appt she's like, oh I'm going away for the weekend...the list never ends...

2006-11-30 04:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating