he never gives me anythin he never says hi , but i really like him. I haven't told my ex i have a new bf and he keeps calling me and i kno he likes me. What should i do
2006-11-30 04:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by Pink Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, you need to decide who you want to be with. It sounds like you want your current, and if that is the case, you need to tell your ex to leave you alone, because current bf's and ex's do NOT mix. You wouldn't want your new guy talking to his ex would you? Secondly, you can't compare a new guy to any of your ex's. It isn't fair for you to be thinking of another guy and wishing your bf would be like him. If you like romanticism, then talk to him about it. Tell him what you like and what you want. He isn't a mind reader, and it could just be in his nature to not be romantic. Talk it out with him and see if he goes the extra steps to make you happy.
2006-11-30 05:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf that you like to be pampered and treated like a princess. And no, you can't change him. Or you can buy him Flowers and treat him the way you want to be treated. It might just get him to think that is how he should treat you.
To the other q? where is your heart? are you just remembering the good times with your ex and want him back because of that? -- we all idealize our past relationships and forget the bad. If there was no bad, really think about why you two broke up in the first place and who you could c yourself with the longest and why. Then make your choice.
Best of luck
2006-11-30 05:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend is not your ex and would never be. It is a big no no to compare people in relationship. Everyone is unique in itself and have different but wonderful qualities. Let go of your old relatioship, open your eyes to this new relationship and you would see wonderful qualities of your new man.
2006-11-30 05:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be overly romantic around your new bf so he gets the hint. do u ever buy him anything??? find out the kind of gum he likes or somethin and just buy him somethin little like that. if you buy him stuff, then he will think that you want him to buy something for you even if you don't tell him, i hope i helped you out. Good luck!!!
2006-11-30 04:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you give him something why dont you tell him hi more tell him how you feel. that your ex keeps calling you. be straight up with him. I dont think hes good enough 4 u but thats my opinion tho.
2006-11-30 05:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyfriends aren't little toys that give you stuff..
if you measure how much a bf likes you by the stuff he gives you.. or never going to be happy in a relationship
2006-11-30 04:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your question, if you don't want to dump him than don't. Tell your ex to go away.
2006-11-30 04:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest hold nothing back to the new guy. tell the old guy he head his chance now kick rocks and keep it moving
2006-11-30 04:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Train him.
2006-11-30 04:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋