Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

I'm getting married in April. For people who are single friends of ours, we're inviting them individually, since our numbers are limited, and they will know lots of people anyway.

My friend, however, just informed me that she's bringing a date. Shouldn't she understand that her invite didn't say "and guest" and get the hint?

How can I break it to her gently, or should I just tell her to stick it?

2006-11-30 04:36:32 · 20 answers · asked by ndtaya 6 in Weddings

Y do some men find it a turn on when women use "toys" (thank god mine does!!) but others are offended? Men please state ur take on this!

2006-11-30 04:36:10 · 14 answers · asked by [un]bro/ken 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me b/c of his parents. They are scared that he will do "stuff". I already told him that I still like him. How do I ask him to be with me and just not tell his parents? I know it is his choice but I like him soooo much. PLEASE HELP!

2006-11-30 04:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by bananayell 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going together for about 7 months. But latley he been acting like he dont want to be in this relationship with me. He dont call me any more and when I call him he say i'M GOING TO CALL YOU BACK.I met this other guy at the movies. He is so nice to me and he love talking to me that's somethig that don't happen now in the relationship i am in right now. He really do want to go with me but im still in a relationship right now and I still do love him. I just don't no want to do.

2006-11-30 04:35:26 · 12 answers · asked by lilhaze1 1 in Singles & Dating

I love and race sports cars and bikes...I also fix them at my Dad's Shop ( we are recently working on a "Project Car" for our 2007 10th Annual LeMans Race..)
I also have been a very competitive Martial Artist, and I still continue to be it!
I Still play Soccer, Basketball, and Volleyball.
I Love Skateboarding (tricks, up) Snowboarding, and SURFING!
I LOVE the thrill of an adrenaline rush, so water sports are in my blood, and any other sport....
GUY Friends of mine, say that its cool, cuz my "body" is very girly as in "curvy"....um okay, whatever...what do you think?

2006-11-30 04:34:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is that when i was younger n i had my 1st boyf i told my mum n dad about him but then they asked so many questions especially my dad that now i just don't tell them about my other boyfriends. whenever i go out with guy friends he's always asking me which one is my boyfriend and i just roll my eyes n go none of them. today i told my mum n dad im going out tomorrow with my friends (guys and girls) and again he asked which one is your boyfriend and again i said none of them, then he rudely said to me 'well its about time you had a boyfriend'. im 16 its not like i want a serious relationship y is my dad such a git. hes said mean stuff to me before too. even if i ever took a guy to meet my mum n dad he'd probably be all intrusive and protective. does anyone have these kinda problems.

2006-11-30 04:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by just a girl 3 in Family

i have a sis, 5 years my senior. Sh'es been dating this dude for 5 months now, but "nothing serious" in her words. All of a sudden she's making plans to get married cuz he told her he hasn't had sex in 2 years, because he was waiting for the "perfect" woman to com ( my lil'sis)!?!? I've been her father figure since our fahter died 11 years ago, and i'd sure hate it if this punk is telling her lies just to sweep her off her feet. 2 years w/o sex? Should i believe this crap and let her marry him?

2006-11-30 04:34:02 · 13 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 20 and I have a 1 year old daughter. I've been married to a dead beat macho man for 2 years now... will I ever be able to find a REAL Man to help and be with me

2006-11-30 04:33:04 · 26 answers · asked by lloroensilencio 1 in Singles & Dating

is it just a guy thing w/ PDA? the guy that I was talking about in my last question was sitting outside of my work waiting for me to get off, and we talked for almost two hours. Then last nght, I called him to see if he would coem to church and do the sound stuff, and he came, but it was too late...he gave me a hug, then left.He called later and apologized, and told me to wait for him at my job, b/c he needed to explain some things about his personality that might make everything okay. Is that good or bad?

2006-11-30 04:32:57 · 5 answers · asked by Awesomest 1 in Singles & Dating

here is the thing,

i sent my friend an email telling her that my boyfriend and i had broken up. i am a complete mess about it. the break up was a surpise. the only reason why i emailed her instead of calling to be honest is because i couldn't stop crying. she didn't return my email at all about my break up news, but she did send me forwards. i emailed her again about a week and a half later and asked if everything was okay, and i asked her why she didn't respond to my email. she responded by saying that she didn't know what to say.

now don't get me wrong, i am thirty years old and i know that whatever she said wouldn't make the pain go away but i just wanted my friend there. when she and her boyfriend broke up, i was there for her. it be honest her failure to respond really hurt my feelings. at this point i am ready to cut her off. she used to complain that alot of her friends aren't her friends anymore, maybe they have a point. what do you guys think?

2006-11-30 04:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so my mom is dating this guy hes nice but i think hes to ol d for my mom and well hes annoying and gets on my nerves i know it isnt any of my buisness what my mom does but its always been the two of us and i want her to be happy and get married again but not with this guy so how do i get rid of him???

2006-11-30 04:32:23 · 3 answers · asked by °~°sØccer_GÏrl°~° 1 in Singles & Dating

i am very poor self respected straight forward talkative fliritng jolly oriented person. unfortunally i have married to person with political background. they listed out all my friends relatives neighbours. created disputes out of emotional differences. slowly i became lnely person. now they r provoking anger fear internally. my wife cannot find out this. whenever i shout she blames me for my outburst. my children dont have any idea why do i shout, how to deal with them. without doing any mistake i have fallen into difficult siotuation. they make meto sit idle create troubles when i earn money. it is quite common to face many unidenfiable insults doubts result in excessive internal pain and suffering tension. socially out casted to push me into the situation of guilty other options. so carefully planning to get out of the situation . please guide if any one can empathise with my problem?

2006-11-30 04:32:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf got mad at me. because i had dated my brothers bf in highschool. for two weeks. and failed to tell him. my bro best friend is part of the family. and lived at my home while in hs. and about a year and a half a go i slept with my brothers best friend . just once. and he comes here for the holidays cus his family abandond him. and he stays at our house on the couch. and ive been dateing my bf for 5 months and he got pissed off . when my brother told him about me dating his best friend and i told him it shouldnt matter . and its like he is my best friend and not my x.

2006-11-30 04:32:08 · 26 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres these 2 girls who are friends with my best friend. These two girls keep posting comment on my best friends myspace saying how im a *** (which is rubbish) and much more. For the past 2 years i have been putting up with them and i have had enough, the problem is, my best friend doesnt stick up for me and i feel angry that they write stuff about me on her space like they think she doesnt care, but she does she just doesnt have the guts to tell them because they are intimidating and bitchy.

What i want is for my best friend to stop being friends with the two horrible girls that hate me. Is this rude? I know for a fact she doesnt really like them both but is kind of just being their friends because she doesnt have the guts to risk being hated by them.

I dont know what to do anymore, me and my best friend are really good friends and i want the other two to go to hell, i do nothing to them but every single day they make my life hell because i am friends with the other girl. help?

2006-11-30 04:32:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-30 04:31:21 · 1 answers · asked by rachybear89 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:31:17 · 27 answers · asked by nashvillekat 6 in Family

If yes How does anyone ever find out if the woman fancies you

2006-11-30 04:31:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a person to want their now ex husband's relationship with the woman he had an affair with to fail? A part of me will always love my ex and the life we had together. However, I will never forget the way he decided to end our marriage - with lies, deception and pain. I have forgiven him - we have a son and we need to at least be civil. Although I will never bad mouth my ex or the other woman to my son I will never be able to forget the pain and anger they caused me and my son. Is it normal for me to feel this way? I am actually a very forgiving person but I cannot forgive her or them together (if that makes sense). I had to forgive my ex but not her. I want nothing to do with either of them or their new life together. Will this change in time or will I always feel this way?

2006-11-30 04:31:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 04:29:38 · 11 answers · asked by Blackrain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-30 04:29:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every time I ask my husband about a young woman at work he goes bright red. He never goes out and is always home, so I don't think he's having an 'affair'. She is about 25 years his junior and has been married for about one year. I do ask about other people but I don't get the same reaction. What do you think?

2006-11-30 04:29:21 · 13 answers · asked by Curious39 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I like my mom but she is Over protective I wan't to go to move out but she wan'ts me go stay home I want to fo to college but she wan' me to stay home and do an online class or go to a college in town what to I do Ohhh ya im 18 :-)

2006-11-30 04:28:42 · 11 answers · asked by *Pooka* 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I usually go for about 45 minutes or less. And thats like straight f*cking. How long do you go for? How long do you like to go for?

2006-11-30 04:28:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's really sweet, and we were friends before he asked me out. I don't wanna make it totally awkward, and i like his friendship, but he's pretty sensitive... HELP!!!

2006-11-30 04:27:07 · 17 answers · asked by drakeluver 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 04:26:49 · 43 answers · asked by jamie k 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately i find that my love life, of 4 yrs, has become boring.
He makes an appointment for sex. Talking to him is not working, anyway, we haaardly ever talk to each other. He is always busy.

2006-11-30 04:26:16 · 18 answers · asked by Officelady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well yesterday I talked to my boyfriends x who just moved back to flordia, she asked me if I was going out with him, I said yes, she got really mad and stormed off, later I found out from my boyfriend that she had called and asked him to go back out with her he said no!!!! ( thats why shes mad) well it turns out he still has mixed emothions about his x and would probably go back out with her!!!! I dont want to get hert even wores! I dont know if I can trust him not to mess around with her!!! what should I do?

2006-11-30 04:26:01 · 14 answers · asked by beproud_playloud 1 in Singles & Dating

im almost 16 and i just wanted to know if there was anyone on here somewhere close to my age?

2006-11-30 04:25:24 · 22 answers · asked by whitwhit ♥ u!!! 1 in Friends

My best friend for years lives in Georgia and I live in Florida, every time she has money problems she asks me. I have already giving her over $200 dollars which she hasnt paid back. She again asked me for $400 for a court fee, how do i tell her, in a nice way, that I will no longer give her money?

2006-11-30 04:25:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1. How do you knew when somebody likes you.
2. what do you do when you come to knew some guy likes you
3. if you have a bf and some guy(He doesnot knew you have a bf) likes you what do you do.

2006-11-30 04:25:14 · 5 answers · asked by Kewl guy 3 in Singles & Dating