Are there still men out there that could love a woman with a baby?

Question

I am 20 and I have a 1 year old daughter. I've been married to a dead beat macho man for 2 years now... will I ever be able to find a REAL Man to help and be with me

Answer 1

Yes! My good friend, Drew has been dating this girl for 9 months through her whole pregnancy. She moved into his house and he wants to take care of her and her new son. (and yes, hes VERY cute♥)

Answer 2

Hunny let me tell you. I know how you feel almost to well. To answer you question....YES, YES, YES!!!! When i left my daughters father she was1 (she is now 4) and i went in and out of relationships with guys who loved me but didn't want her or wanted us both but just weren't right. Then I had my son last year with a guy I wasn't even with (my son is now 8 mths old). I just knew I'd never find someone who would want to be with a woman with two children; one which was a baby. Hunny...... I was so wrong....I was so wrong!!!! I'm married now and to "the most wonderful man I have EVER met"... My hubby never even thought twice about whether he loved my children or not, he accepted them right away and wasn't afraid to be a good father to them..(and he is WONDERFUL with them both) he even used to get up in the middle of the night with my son when he was a newborn to feed him and care for him so I could sleep. He says these are his kids and I tel you no one better tell him differently. Yes there are men out there who want family and don't mind stepping in and loving one that already exists...believe me... I'm an example. I've never been so happy!!!

Answer 3

Sure you will, If i got to know you, and you have a nice personality, I would help you with your baby and be with you. Im 20 too, I'm a very loving person, i have a good sence of humor, and I'm a good listener and provider. I'm caring. Im sure if im like this there are plenty of men that will also care for you. You just aren't going to the right places. Try going to the park, Take a walk with your baby, go to coffee shop (starbucks for example), or at the mall window shopping (walking around). HOpe this information is helpful.

Answer 4

I am a 19 year old father of a 4 year old little girl that I Adore. I would never do anything to hurt that little girl or anyone. Sometimes it takes time but you will find someone that will come and take care of you and your kid so don't worry and keep you head up because dreams do come true trust me I know. When my daughters mother died we was AL alone now we are living a dream come true. Trust me it will be OK

Answer 5

Of course there are Men who would. One thing that guys are afraid of though is the emotional baggage that the woman brings from one relationship to the new one. Maybe dump the deadbeat guy and stay single for a while, then go looking for a new beau ! Goodluck !

Answer 6

Absolutely! Many men love being dads. However, finding an ideal mate is another matter entirely. I, for one, would be open to marrying a lady who already has a kid, but I'm 55 and can't get anyone to look at me. Good luck!

Answer 7

Of course there are some around that could do that. Its only natural to have a child. No one should ever hold that agianst you. I dont have a child myself but if I ever met the right person for me that had a child than that woudnt change a thing.

Answer 8

there are alot of jerks out there and it is very hard to find decent men; however the same could be said about women...but that's not the issue now...
men find it harder to be with women who have a baby since its not theirs they find it harder to show love and appreciation, those who do accept you for having a child will be very loving in the long run, but you have to remember that in the new relationship, if it does happen, that it is a new relationship and as much as you have a child you also need to consider your new partner the same as you would if u didn't have the child, otherwise he is going to struggle to show you the same love and affection back if your always with your child.
hope that helps :)

Answer 9

yes it can happen. first, you need to get out of your current relationship. then, you need to establish some sort of argeement with your ex that won't freak your new guy out.

there are a few main things that turn guys off from dating single moms:

1. if you are a ***** with your ex, they will think you will be a ***** to them. as hard as it might be, be reasonable with your ex and don't ride his a$$ too hard. it will be tough, but you will have to let some ish go.

2. get a sitter! unless your potential date also has kids, you will need to make some arrangement to have yours taken care of so you can go out. it will ruin the mood quickly if everytime he asks if you want to go out/come over/etc. you say "i don't have anyone to watch jr". to the best of your ability, you will need to be able to go out on short notice.

3. don't expect any new guy to be a dad to your kid or fall instantly in love with you or the kid. they will run so fast you'll see smoke! try to let them get to know you first with out even meeting your kid. i'm not saying hide the fact that you have one! by all means let it be known. just let them get to know you first before you introduce the kid to them.

oh yeah, it'll be way easier for you if you try to date single dads or dads that are in a similar situation...but are not dead beats! :)

Answer 10

yes there are plenty good men out there but dont just jump in head first be sure that he is the man you need in your life an espeacially your child life dont go by looks an material things look at there heart