I can't tell you what to do!!! But I do know this, it's always bliss of the first couple of months and if everytime that say "i am gonna call you back" you run to another guy,, you are gonna be running your whole life. everytime a guys gets use to you they don't show the same affection. Talk to him and if he won;t change then maybe you should make a change to a new dude. But give a chance to change, because there is no telling how that other guy will act in 7 months.
2006-11-30 04:41:02
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answered by :Dazed and Confused: 2
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What I think that u should do is have a heart to heart talk with the man in your life. He could be just going thru a phase. Other things could be affecting him, like work, family, child support, and he just didn't wanna stress you with HIS problems. A lot of people get comfortable when the relationship has been going for a while, and don't realize that the work is NEVER done. He could need some SPACE, could even be evaluating the relationship also, and might be thinking about popping the BIG question soon. Talking never hurts, and it seems like you are down with communication. Let the new guy know what's going on, you don't want any surprises on any part. And trust that, at the end of the day, there will be closure to it all. Wish you all the best, whether it be reconciling or a new honey.
2006-11-30 06:26:53
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answered by garfieldgordon69 1
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First off, if your current boyfriend is not showing you needed affection then you should begin by talking to him about it. If he doesn't seem interested then it's time to let him go. As for the other guy it's never a good idea to jump from relationship to relationship. You should just be friends for now and give yourself some time. If you do jump into another relationship without a little alone time it's likely it will turn out a lot like the last one!
2006-11-30 04:43:26
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answered by xalia331 2
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you are being treated bad and you do not deserve this. he had way too many chances and he does not deserve another one. you seem like a very nice person and you deserve a lot better than what you are getting. you said yourself that he seems like he does not want to be in this relationship so end it..move on and go out with this guy. he will make you happier for sure.
good luck
2006-11-30 05:00:04
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answered by Anonymous
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before u break up wth him ask him if he still luvs u and if he says yes try 2 improve ur relationship and if he says no then u can dump him and go 2 the other guy. P.S: if u still love him u can try 2 change some things wth him.
2006-11-30 04:45:16
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answered by Anonymous
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It sounds like this relationship is already on the outs anyway. If you want to see another guy you owe it to your present boyfriend to break things off with him before moving on.
2006-11-30 04:40:15
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answered by Pamela V 7
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leave him... if u do love your boyfriend talk to him about how hes acting and stuff. if u dont care for him u should probably leave him.. this other guy sounds like he would be a better boyfriend and sounds like u actually want him.. he will probably treat you better. think about who would make u happier
2006-11-30 04:39:29
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answered by Anonymous
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girl guys will say anything you what to hear not the truth but your boyfriend loves this other guy might only want to have sex and then break it off with you when he is finish with you
2006-11-30 04:39:13
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answered by Theresa M 1
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If your boyfriend isn't treating you the way you want to be treated then tell him. If you have and nothing changes then talk to the other guy you don't have to settle for less.
2006-11-30 04:37:50
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answered by atldutchess 2
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i woudl tell the person your with that you love them but you cna't stay in the realtionship if this how is going to be and move on if he don't change
2006-11-30 04:42:59
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answered by redneck282006 1
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