well yesterday I talked to my boyfriends x who just moved back to flordia, she asked me if I was going out with him, I said yes, she got really mad and stormed off, later I found out from my boyfriend that she had called and asked him to go back out with her he said no!!!! ( thats why shes mad) well it turns out he still has mixed emothions about his x and would probably go back out with her!!!! I dont want to get hert even wores! I dont know if I can trust him not to mess around with her!!! what should I do?
2006-11-30 04:26:01 · 14 answers · asked by beproud_playloud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Angel is right, if you don't have trust for the man then there no salvageable relationship. Give him space, let him go to make his own decision. If he comes back to you then it's meant to be. But just make sure he's not going back and forth between the two of you.
2006-11-30 04:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he tell you that he would go back to her himself or you going off i what someone else said if so then it depends.
dont lose trust in a relationship because you have this in the back of your mind because that can cause a relationship to really fall. but if you feel there is no love anymore and things are changing then its time to make a change to better your ownself but like i said it depends on what really happend when you found out he may leave you. hey heres a thought why do you just ask him yourself and then go from there.
2006-11-30 12:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by K S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is having mixed emotions. then u have no relationship. have u ever heard of a 3-way love affair. don't get caught in the middle. get out while u still have your respect.
2006-11-30 12:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by travis b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to trust him. relationships are not just based on love they are also based off of trust and dependability. you need to trust him with everything if u dont want to get hurt and just sit down and talk with him.
Good luck!~!
2006-11-30 12:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by mylovexoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let HIM make his choice.
If he choses you you know you have something.
If not, God has something better in store for you and you deserve better.
I'll bet that IF he choses her he will someday come running back to you. Be strong...
2006-11-30 12:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser if you can't trust him!
Don't waste your time on people who cause you pain, life is way too short!
2006-11-30 12:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have a relationship, if you cant trust someone. Trust is everything.
2006-11-30 12:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't do anything. Only time will tell if he will stick with you. If he does, then he values you more. If he doesn't, well, it's better to know sooner than later, right?
2006-11-30 12:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by mrs P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
putting yourself out there is what a relationship is about you have to trust him without trust you don't have a relationship
2006-11-30 12:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by erk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Protect yourself get out of it while you can its the best decision you can make
2006-11-30 13:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋