My elder sister met a guy on net. He said his wife was giving him trouble and he was going to divorce her in a years time. He had an affair with my sister and he promised to marry her after seeking divorce from his wife. Now he says he can't divorce his wife because his father is bed-ridden and has to be looked after which he and his wife is doing. He said though he is married with his wife he is only name sake married and is having no marital relations with her. He wants to continue with my sister. Should my sister breakup with him or continue?
2006-11-30 04:49:33 · 22 answers · asked by Naazneen D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the guy was REALLY interested in your sister and ending his marriage, he would have done so already.
My advice to your sister is to find a SINGLE guy out there and forget about the married guy. It will only make her happier in the end and she won't be sitting around waiting for something that won't ever come to fruition.
Besides that, he cheated on his wife with her. What is to say that he won't tire of your sister and cheat on her after they are married? He is a loser and needs to be kicked to the curb.
2006-11-30 04:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by bux_martinfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear GOD break it off! A coworker of mine met this guy online a dated him for quite a while. He swore up, down, left, right and sideways that he was just really busy. Said he was divorced, has no kids, etc. Turns out he's married and his wife is pregnant.
You gotta be careful online. I met my boyfriend online and am deliriously happy, but I also met my ex online and he's an alcoholic. You have to know when to cut and run.
2006-11-30 12:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by thelittlemerriemaid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's obvious that this guy is using your sister as a mistress. Men, especially older men, will do and say anything to get a young, attractive girl in bed to satisfy their sexual urges. If your sister just wants to have sex with this guy, that's her business. But, if she's looking for something more with him, like a deep meaningful relationship, she's not gonna get it. She should just leave him anyway. Having an affair is just too much hassle.
2006-11-30 12:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by eh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's real simple. At one time he really loved his wife and now he's moved on. He will move on from your sister too, it's just a matter of time. A real man would have stuck it out with his wife and not pulled your sister into this...because now she's guilty of cheating. And there will be devestation when it comes out.
2006-11-30 13:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister should break it off because if he really loved her than there would be no excuse for him not to divorce his wife. He is a jerk and not worth the trouble.!
2006-11-30 12:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she always wants to be the other woman, to live in secret, to never be able to marry this guy and maybe even have children and she's OK with it, by all means. I hope your sister figures that out. When it's emotionally involved like this, rather than just sex, it's messy and not worth it.
2006-11-30 12:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a topic for a talkshow and the host always ends up saying..."he's never gonna leave her for you!" And all I have to say is your sister (or you) deserves this hell she or you put yourself in bc you just had to get involved with a man you knew was married. Can you really lift your head up high in the morning?
2006-11-30 13:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister should definately break up with him. after all if he is cheating on his wife with your sister, and he finally divorces his wife. who is to say that he won't do the same to your sister. there has to be someone better out there for your sister.
2006-11-30 12:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by froggz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she blind?!?!?! Can she not tell that this guy is just using her and only wants her for one thing? How many times do you hear stuff like this? THE GUY IS A LOSER and will NEVER get divorced. She needs to wake up and move on.
2006-11-30 12:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just playing with "your sister". And at the same time cheating on his wife. Definitely breakup.
2006-11-30 12:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋