actually we were living in different location happily. they created disturbance in my office made me to left the job.when i enterd my native place they balmed for unemployment stated pushing me into anti social prestige scenario by insulting in major functionsof relatives. when i thought living lonely would solve problems . they create troubles legally financially to my money famil;y relations. now they r creating feelig oriented attacks by phone politically legally threatening indirectly uselessly. now3 i am deeply into emotionally trapped sothat i dont raise my voice against with them . please guide me . cosider me like your s sincerely
2006-11-30 04:55:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u keep showing them the ways to hurt u - like dont let them know how they can hurt u -lesson 1. lesson-2 is offensive is the best form of defense. by keeping away or mum, will only embolden them to hurt u even more. hit back at them proactively. there is no family which does not have something to hide - as soon as u spot someone who could hurt u - start talking about their blackspot in a loud voice but in a friendly tone - like u are sympathesing. this will keep everyone away from u. lesson 3 - jobs are always available for asking - or for that matter you can always earn rs 100 a day - ui better start concentrating on ur livelihood and become self supporting. the fear of insult should keep ur relatives off ur back. meanwhile, there must be something u must have done to earn their anger - if u know the source of your trouble, try to solve the problem by apologising, giving it away if u dont need it......i dont think people have time to hunt out an innocent person that u make urself to be.
2006-11-30 07:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by krishna i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you face them you need a plan of action to deal with the things they are putting you through. You need to confront what they are saying and doing head on- if they are telling lies about you, show people the truth. Remember, your relatives may be nasty, but they are not all powerful. You have a voice of your own- use it. Then get as far away from their sphere of influence as you possibly can. If you must be in their presence, face them with your head held high and let them see that though they may waste their lives trying to ruin yours, you'll come out on top anyway, and you are not afraid of them anymore.
2006-11-30 05:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mention the reason for the problem. without reason you cannot get proper solution. if it might be that there is no mistake on your side what they did is will be spoiling you. then i can help you,
go and speak to them boldly, if you have good friends go with them and ask straight questions. if they insult or discriminate you in public again font let them walk out easily, you too insult them. show them that you are a man. finally if the still do that just go and kick on their faces. sitting and worrying never helps you if you want freedom you must fight fro it.
good luck
2006-11-30 21:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 13:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure I don't understand the details of your question because your English is terrible. But do you know what motivates them to do this? If you do, maybe you can offer to help them reach their goals some other way instead of causing you to suffer.
2006-11-30 05:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by zilmag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st logde complaint with police. Better leave the place and go far away distant place. get employment and start living better. once u r again confident, financially well, you can deal these kind of people.
Out of sight...would sure become out of mind. but donot committ suisite. be couragious.
2006-11-30 14:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be a rug on the floor, if you lay down and let them walk all over you. They have succeeded to make your life miserable, What have you done to stop them, because what you have done so far has NOT WORKED
2006-11-30 05:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS CLEAR FROM THE STORY THAT YOU ARE RUNNING FROM THEM. WHY AND HOW THEY ARE IN A POSITION TO HURT YOU. IF LEGALLY THE PROPERTY/MONEY IS YOURS YOU CAN GO TO COURT AND CAN FIGHT UPTO RASHTRAPATI LEVEL. BUT YOU SEEMS TO BE MORALLY DEFEATED BY THEM. NOBODY IS IN A POSITION TO SPREAD WRONG THING ABOUT ANYONE WHO HAS NOT DONE ANYTHING. FACE THEM IF YOU ARE RIGHT OR ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKE IF YOUR ARE ON THE WRONGE SIDE.
2006-11-30 21:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-30 13:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by Kashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them pimples of your face.
They will try to avoid you.
gOOd Luck !
2006-11-30 04:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋