Should you still ask them out?
what would you do???
advice is helpful!
thanks!!!!!!!!!!
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2006-11-30 04:46:29 · 12 answers · asked by bosstastic<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to love & to be loved, are two different things...the problem is that everyone wants their beloved to be the most b'ful...i cant imagine how i wud feel if sum1 wil dislike me bcoz of my appearence... but still,since i hav tremendous faith in god,i'l go his way...first i'l make him/her my good friend...i'll stand by him/her on his every walk of life...i'll show him/her dat i'm d one whom he/she can trust upon...u can win any1's heart by ur caring nature...dont give up coz of his/her feelings 4 u, coz sooner or later a day wil *** wen he/she wil realize abt ur feelings...so go ahead n get close to him/her...all the best!!
2006-11-30 05:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Amar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that he doesn't like you already just based on your appearance why would you be attracted to someone like that? I think asking him out will lead to worst self-esteem issues for you. I know you can't help liking who you like but I would just give up on that one. Sorry.. In this case though It is fair to say that there are A LOT of other fish in the sea. Swim after one of them! Good Luck!
2006-11-30 04:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Songbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there....um well u can just go for it.... and if he says no try to accept it... not all guys u like will like u the same way.... A lot of guys only like wuts on the outside...b/c their jerks... so do u really want to go for a jerk anyways? YOu could also try workin out......make ur self look real good...and then when he wants u he will com to u.....but most of the times....it doesn't work that way.... but if he has feelings for u ... he will let u know....trust me.
2006-11-30 04:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by shannyshanny79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is a real men it should't matter what you look like all that matter or should matter is whats on the inside not the out if he doesn't want to be with you so be it keep your head up keep pushing on and one day you will find the one. e-mail me so w3e can really talk about this hopekeosha07@yahoo.com
2006-11-30 04:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make friendship with him. When it becomes stronger the person will love you for hundreds of reasons other than appearance. and looks wont matter at all.
looks only help in attracting and getting introduced but dont help in making the person love you.
source: my personal experience
2006-11-30 05:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by friends m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.try to find out what attracks them the most.
2.not able please them ,then ignore them for a while maintaining you selfesteem.
3.and if they think you are empty headed ,then show them by doing something special which others should tell them is a great service done by you to the society,children,underprivilaged or any body
2006-11-30 05:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by aluminiumengineers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, do you really want to go out with someone if they put so much importance on physical beauty. I think you may be infatuated with their looks. You must be true to yourself.
2006-11-30 05:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they know that you like them, give yourslef a mini makeover and start ignoring them for a few days, just not totally, just act allnonchalant with them.
2006-11-30 04:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ipsa sola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i will express my self in front of him,it is his problem weather to accept or reject.we cannot except the same form him,i think it as my bad luck and keep on waiting for him
2006-11-30 04:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by mane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey change your apperance...
2006-11-30 08:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋