i feel like im pushing him away.when ive ask him about it he says nothings wrong,trust me,i know tension when i feel it.whats strange is he can get on her and answer all kinds of qusetions,why not mine.also i have 2 kids and he has 1.to put it nicely my kids fight alot and get on his nerves.please help
2006-11-30 05:42:55 · 7 answers · asked by starr67 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I get the feeling from what you are saying that you are both from previous marriages. What I sense here is a little insecurity from your side. You love your man and feel scared you will lose him. He has had rejection and so have you. The more you turn to him, the more he rejects you, right? I know from personal experience that its a mistake to be in his face all the time. Become a bit more mysterious. Firstly give him some space. Busy yourself with things you are interested in, for a while only, let him seek you and when he does, respond amicably. You will be amased at how that works. YOu need to read the books "Captivating" and "Wild at heart" by John Eldredge and his wife Stasi. They are amazing. You cannot put them down. And no i dont know these people either. I just found their books and read them and it began to solve my problems. Give him "Wild at heart" because thats for the men and the other for the ladies. I promise you, you will begin to see things differently and so will he.
My husband is like yours and since he read the books, he now does things differently and we have a wonderful relationship.
I hope this helps you a bit. God bless you!
2006-11-30 05:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there IS such thing as "too much time" - how much is "too much" depends entirely on the people involved. If you feel that you're being too pushy - try to back off. Most people need their space, and at least *some* time alone.
2006-11-30 13:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anything as too much time together? Yes...if my husband didn't go out in the field every now and again I'd go crazy.I need a break from him at times.
2006-11-30 13:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you speak more logically than you type .... I'm not surprised there seems to be no reasonable lines of communication.
2006-11-30 13:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with bored exactly what are you trying to ask?
2006-11-30 13:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can get on who? re-write the question and type how you would talk..
2006-11-30 13:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please re-type legibly.
(we cannot understand what your are trying to get across)
2006-11-30 13:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋