Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

23 yrs old. dating for two years. living together for one. Says he wants to and is ready.
Why no ring?

2006-11-29 13:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by Rigger 01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 13:48:28 · 7 answers · asked by Adam B 1 in Singles & Dating

A) ive been dating this guy for almost 12 weeks and well now a b unch of my friends are all he is going to reak up with you but he dont act like it.... how can you tell?

B) how can you tell i guy is only in i for some action? i mean my friend said that with what he says he is only in it for that... how can you tell?

2006-11-29 13:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it weird for a guy to tell a girl that he likes her and three months later he starts ignoring her. After six months he received a card from the girl contacts her. He tells her that he still likes her. Is he lying?

2006-11-29 13:47:48 · 7 answers · asked by dumdumgr1 2 in Singles & Dating

you?The only reason that my husband and I live there is because we are both disabled and he is waiting for his social security to start. I don't know how long this will take. In the meantime, I need some sensible advice. She says things to hurt me on purpose. I do my part as much as I can.

2006-11-29 13:47:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He called me the day before the wedding told me he needed the last 30 to pay off his tux, so i called the tux place, and he said he was on his way to get his tux, 2 hours later he called me and said he wasn't coming because i didn't call him enough before the wedding, he didn't even show up for the rehearsal dinner the day before and never mind i bought his girlfriends 200 dollar dress for the wedding, they should give back the money for the dress and the tux right?

2006-11-29 13:46:41 · 12 answers · asked by nellie 1 in Weddings

."the man i love the most in this entire world, dumped me yesterday, it broke my heart but it was my fault because I had been just casually talking to another man (nothing else) and he took it the wrong way and thinks i cheated on him. I cant be without him, he is the one, and i cant let that go. How do I get him to love me, and want to be with me again?"

2006-11-29 13:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by hcp_canadian 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like her a lot but i also love partying and hanging out at the bars where she can't because shes too young. all my friends say i need a girlfriend 21 or older.

2006-11-29 13:46:17 · 20 answers · asked by i am game 2 in Singles & Dating

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

2006-11-29 13:45:16 · 11 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is really picky but she won't tell you to your face that she doesn't like your present but usally you can tell.She doesn't like eletronic so don't telll me to get her somthing in that catagory

2006-11-29 13:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by autumn h 1 in Family

i planned a huge partyy for xmas, where everyone is invited. it's a joint partyy with a good friend. One problem. i have spent the last few days with this friend, planning it. i dont think its a problem. She's really close and ive always hung around her. but my best friend is a problem. She is always trying to start a fight with me and talking about to my other friends. She says the partyy is a scam to become popular. but i'm already really good friends with the popular girls. Ive known most of them before middle school. and ive always been invited to their parties and get togethers. so i dont need to use this party. and i wouldnt want to. is my bestfriend just jealous or am i doing something wrong?

please nothing mean i just really want to know.

2006-11-29 13:44:47 · 7 answers · asked by Blondii 1 in Friends

my friend tells me she likes "bros" what does that mean i hear a bunch of girls talk about them and i am clueless . Help Please!?

2006-11-29 13:44:41 · 8 answers · asked by Chick 1 in Friends

ok me and my bf are standing in the hall way im leaning up against the wall and he was hugging me and when ever the other one will say something cute we say awe and kiss them on the cheek, well this guy walked past and started stuff with us, you know the whole geet a room thing, he got md and yelled stuff back well from 4-6 bell he is really mad at the guys that said this and he wont talk or look at me all he will do is hold my hand, well after 6 he was all if they wanna fight lets fight ill meet them after school and ram his head in the ground, and said he dont care if he gets expelled, well im worried how to control this because if he gets like this over a guy saying get a room then whats he going to do if i mess up, im scared he might hit me.... what would you do?

2006-11-29 13:44:02 · 2 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Singles & Dating

come on! evrybody is saying it's important whats inside than the outside.but do you really think this is true ? like people are just judging for the appearance of a person.. i want to hear youre opinions please....

2006-11-29 13:43:23 · 18 answers · asked by chinita 2 in Friends

Recently, my best friend starting hanging around with a couple jerks in my class and has turned into one. He's been being an asshole to me lately because of it. Is it me? or is it him that has the problem?

2006-11-29 13:43:02 · 5 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

do you believe that there is one person out there for everyone? like one person that you're meant to be with? and if so, how likely do you think it is that you'll wind up with the right person? just wondering what everyone's thoughts are on it. thanks!!

2006-11-29 13:42:56 · 3 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Singles & Dating

...because if you are, You Are Not the Only One. Let us talk about it and see if we can help each other out =)

2006-11-29 13:42:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been trying to talk more to people in my school but everytime I try I don't know what to say and I'm afraid if I say something it may not come out right. Last year I had help because my friend I hanged with was always the one talking but now he's gone and I'm stuck can someone help?

2006-11-29 13:42:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am always going threw my guys stuff ,i have found things in the past that i think are no-no's.but he says that if i would stay out of his stuff i wouldnt see it ,therefor would't get mad .whos wrong ?

2006-11-29 13:42:22 · 26 answers · asked by tiffanyh2323 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 13:41:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my boyfiriend have been going out for almost 2 weeks! (hes my FIRST boyfriend EVER im 15)everything is goin great! theses just one thing that i dont kno what to do about...when he puts his arm around me am i suppoesed to put mine around him? is it fine if i dont? HELP! i dont wana look liek i totaly dont kno what im doing even tho i really dont lol

2006-11-29 13:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by bre bre 2 in Singles & Dating

Help me persuade my mom in letting me get a boyfriend, plz! I am 12 years old I am very responsible I attend Howard University Middle School, and I make straight A's. Personally I think I'm mature enough for a boyfriend. I am very trust worthy as well. How do I get my mom to see all of this even though she knows all of this. She thinks I should focus on school 100%, but I focus on school 110% already, I always do extra credit! She lets me talk on the phone with all types of boys, but just not date them. Can you help me!!!

2006-11-29 13:40:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know, i am not a jealous person anymore (o try not to be)

We are 25 and we have been dating for a year and a half and i KNEW before we dated that he was good friends with his ex who is REALLY REALLY nice. She is engaged to be married and TOTALLY not interested in him and I am sure he isnt interested back, they are totally just friends.

Is it ok that i would just rather not hang out with her? On one hand, i think that i am taking his friends away from him, but on the other hand, what girlfriend wants to hang out with their boyfriends ex? I dont know, and i dont mind seeing her and her fience sometimes, but id always rather do something else besides hang out with the ex. Also, her group of friends are his friends too and they always complain to him (jokingly) that he never hangs out with them and that makes me feel bad. Actually, i dont even mind if he hangs out with them, i would just rather not. Is this normal and is it ok that i just plain old not want to hang with the ex?

2006-11-29 13:39:57 · 3 answers · asked by stephasoris 4 in Singles & Dating

Last year i had a friend. A best friend, i could tell him anything. I had a slight crush on him too. He was in a lot of my classes and we were really close. This year i haven't said one word to him and i thought he had completly forgotten about me. But as close as we were i started to think and you just can't forget that. I'm too shy to talk to him, but i wish that he would have talked to me. Why are we completly out of each others lives this year, i hate it and i can't show it. Hes mom just recently got cancer too. So this morning he was on my bus because they moved to a hotel. He passed me and didn't say a word, but he talked to my other friends. Did I do something. I beleive that if you can't get someone out of your head, then maybe there supposed to be there. But why is he in my head. I don't like him anymore. Well i donn't have a crush on him anymore. But i really wish we could have stayed friends. This whole thing is so confusing and i really need someones help or oppinion. HELP!

2006-11-29 13:39:31 · 22 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Friends

This happens all the time, supposedly. Guys pick up girls in bars five minutes after they meet them...right?

But whenever I ask a girl out who I've only known for five minutes, she reacts to me like I'm a complete sociopath, like I have no right whatsoever to even approach her in the first place.

Yes, unlike a lot of guys I have the cajones to approach and ask out women in bars or wherever. It just seems like I have to deal with a lot more rejection than other guys do. And the way they reject me has been pretty harsh to say the least.

2006-11-29 13:39:27 · 15 answers · asked by Student 3 in Singles & Dating

Well theres this guy I REALLY like. He's my dream guy. Nice, funny, and hot. The perfect package! But I don't really know him, and he likes this other girl I know. And big problem. HE'S PROBABLY GOING HOME SCHOOLING NEXT YEAR! My worst fear. That would be my nightmare. Im kinda new to this school, so I don't know what to do. Help!

2006-11-29 13:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it would for me. if a city or town has more than like 20% negroids or beaners, I won't move there. I don't want them living next door to me! not only wouldn't i feel safe, but they would drive my property values down too! i'm sure some of you have taken these things into consideration, right?

2006-11-29 13:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Only one...which one describes you best?

2006-11-29 13:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i was in a serious relationship for almost 2 years and we broke up about 3 and a half months ago. i have met a few men since the break up.i have been hanging out with a particular one and we talk everyday on the phone, he is nice and he makes me laugh but everytime the mood is right for us to get close i'm always running away. i mean he is a nice guy and everything and he wants us to be in a relationship and i want that too but i just don't know why im running. i still love my ex boyfriend.. do u think that that is the reason why im behaving this way?

2006-11-29 13:36:02 · 13 answers · asked by cutensexy 1 in Singles & Dating

We love the same things?

2006-11-29 13:35:56 · 8 answers · asked by Marty R 2 in Marriage & Divorce