."the man i love the most in this entire world, dumped me yesterday, it broke my heart but it was my fault because I had been just casually talking to another man (nothing else) and he took it the wrong way and thinks i cheated on him. I cant be without him, he is the one, and i cant let that go. How do I get him to love me, and want to be with me again?"
2006-11-29 13:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by hcp_canadian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has he been cheated on in the past or been a cheater? His insecurities arent being helped when you casually talk to another guy. Have you ever given him any lip if he casually talked to another woman? He may see black and white but you have seom gray in there. I don't know. Reassure him, tell him there was nothing and it was strictly platonic. Make sure you mean it and will comply or come to a compromise regarding casual friend or else you're beginning a pattern here. He still loves you. He is hurt and his trust is broken. It will take time and work. Thats a relationship though. Time and work.
2006-11-29 13:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by James C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God he "dumped" you......who in the world would want someone like him??? Is this your definition of Love, sweetie??? Is he that insecure that you are not allowed to even talk to another man? He did you a favor. You sound co-dependent and need help developing some self-esteem. Do something positive with your life and leave the loosers for someone else! It is not Love.....you are describing a sick dependence.
2006-11-29 13:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once trust is broken, it takes a lot of time, effort, and frustration to repair it. If you do get back together you are going to have to keep everything very open for him, ie: no passwords on email accounts, cell phones out, that way he can be confident that you are being honest and upfront with him. I am sure he just doesn't want to be hurt.
2006-11-29 13:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to him i bet he's waiting he'll never know the truth if you never tell him i lost the one i love due to an issue like this and i feel that if i would have went to talk to him we would have gotten back together so go talk to him write something
( poem,speech,etc.) if it's really love he'll look past this and trip over bigger issues!!!!!!GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
2006-11-29 13:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋