I've been trying to talk more to people in my school but everytime I try I don't know what to say and I'm afraid if I say something it may not come out right. Last year I had help because my friend I hanged with was always the one talking but now he's gone and I'm stuck can someone help?
2006-11-29 13:42:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know, you should just the way I did when I was in highschool. To tell you the truth I was scared to death to walk up to people and start talking. I thought that they would just not get me or just think that I was stupid or think they hated me for just being me. One of the things that I did to make myself talk to people was join yearbook. I knew that this was a class that was going to make me talk to people that I didnt know. It helped me alot. Also another thing that I did was come up with ideas of things that I would like to talk about with people and in my head I would talk to the person and come up with ideas of what I could say and how I would say it. Just be yourself and go with it. If the person doesnt like you, who gives a rats *** because you will be able to find people who enjoy talking to you for being you!
2006-11-29 14:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach with a friendly aura and people will talk to you naturally. Don't be self conscious about it...just be free-spirited so that they feel comfortable around you. Smiling helps too, don't worry man, if you do all this, they'll approach you. Works for me ALL the time.
2006-11-29 13:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by Derfboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something I'd like to know. I suppose you'd get some kind of job where you need to socialise. It will get you more confident.
2006-11-29 13:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by gottaluvme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself WHY you want to. That should help.
2006-11-29 13:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋