angry boyfriends?

Question

ok me and my bf are standing in the hall way im leaning up against the wall and he was hugging me and when ever the other one will say something cute we say awe and kiss them on the cheek, well this guy walked past and started stuff with us, you know the whole geet a room thing, he got md and yelled stuff back well from 4-6 bell he is really mad at the guys that said this and he wont talk or look at me all he will do is hold my hand, well after 6 he was all if they wanna fight lets fight ill meet them after school and ram his head in the ground, and said he dont care if he gets expelled, well im worried how to control this because if he gets like this over a guy saying get a room then whats he going to do if i mess up, im scared he might hit me.... what would you do?

Answer 1

talk to your friends. get help. do whatever you can, but if you feel threatened by him, YOU NEED TO LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP ASAP.

tell your parents about it. but try to avoid making him angry. or, if you want, you can talk to HIM about it. tell him how scared you get. let him know that he's really scaring you. be kind, but be cautious.

God bless you.

Answer 2

Looks like he's angry easily. You should be careful. Tell him nicely that you DON'T LIKE him when he's angry. He got to understand this from start. Tell him you don't like people yelling, fighting, hot headed especially over small things like that, that you need a guy who could protect you but not scare you while doing it. Tell him to somehow learn to control his anger. He probably couldn't control it, but somehow he thinks he's a man when he could beat up a guy. Tell him up front that if he couldn't control himself he'll loose you (so he get it that if one day you leave him, it's because of him not because of you or another guy). You're young, learn now that you don't have to except this kind of behaviour, and you should always be with a person that makes you comfortable. No matter how angry he is, he should never hit you. Let him know you won't accept it.