Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

i have a girlfriend that i love very much and we both love each other so much that we want to spend the rest of our lives together.
but heres the problem...

she has a planned marriage... religiously

we need to find a way to either make the guy she has to marry leave or find a way to have her run away from home. i dont know wat to do plz help!!!!!

2006-11-29 14:02:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he already asked me several times but i always say no..I'm a bit 50/50 on that. I want to try it but there are many things that bothering me. I'm also afraid of loosing my virginity at this age. i'm just 16. and I'm afraid that after that he'l leave me. what do i do?

2006-11-29 14:01:21 · 20 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 14:01:11 · 30 answers · asked by Straight but not narrow 1 in Singles & Dating

I know others ask this69, so sorry. My boyfriend and I have been together almost four years. Gifts I have given him in the past include a paintball gun, subwoofers, skateboard, promise ring, and other random things. He is into mechanics, but he doesnt want anything. He doesn't need any tools. I don't know what to get him that will show that I care. The problem is I feel bad when I get him something crappy becuase he always has the best gifts for me. I have about $100. Thanx.

2006-11-29 14:00:54 · 3 answers · asked by kyla m 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband always tell me if I take care his needs (more so sexually ) I can get anything I want well I've done those things times and times before and in return I'm let down So in response I decided to withdraw back a little is that such a good ideal?

2006-11-29 13:59:28 · 18 answers · asked by tiny tott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just lost my children's father. He was murdred. I can't stop thinking about him. Every since I found out I've been crying eveyday. We broke up but he started coming around from time to time. I told him I couldn't be with him because I refused to have my heart broken again. But I wanted us to be friends for the kids sake. I really don't get along with his mom or sister. Since he have a new baby with another girl, they show favortism to his 5 month old son and his 7 year old daughter, not our twin sons that are 5 years old. It really hurts my feelings because his mom and sister really get along with his new baby momma. Knowing that he's dead hurts so bad. He was my frist love. How can I cope with this and how many of you have a similar story?

2006-11-29 13:59:28 · 8 answers · asked by B.A.P.S 1 in Family

Any Ideas? This Topic Is For Girls And Boys.

2006-11-29 13:58:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Yes he works 40+ a week, but so do I...plus I do everything in the house..all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping. I'm so sick of bitching about it, and even more sick about all the half *** projects that he starts and never finishes! We have talked about it, and I hear the samething over and over.."tomorrow I will work on that!" I think that I'm going to scream! I have even tried to motavate him with rewards (I know it soulds like I'm treating him like a kid)...what can I do?? Is this just part of being married?

2006-11-29 13:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think a boy might like me. I am a boy as well, so any feelings he has would be hidden, which makes it all the harder to tell. I really like him, so I can't judge if he likes me very well. He doesn't really talk to me, as we are in only two of the same classes, and he isn't my friend.
However, I have noticed him staring at me, and he always pays attention when I speak to him, and I get full eye contact (even when I but into a conversation). This is MUCH more attention than last year. He used to ignore me. Also, in art class, he moved where he sat, from across the table to right next to me, and whenever our legs or arms touched, He NEVER moved away from me.
Finally, he also seems to poke fun at me a lot, but not in a mean-spirited way. Is this his desperate attempt to get my attention, or is he just annoying me for the fun of it? Am I looking too deeply into this? Am I crazy? Help! Please.

2006-11-29 13:57:59 · 10 answers · asked by not_telling_you_that 1 in Singles & Dating

it seems to me that black people have no sense of patriotism, true?

2006-11-29 13:57:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some good truth questions for truth or dare? I'm 13 If that helps...

2006-11-29 13:56:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you please define the word SEXY. for YOU what is sexy>? is being skinny and tall sexy? or being outgoing and fun to be with is sexy?

2006-11-29 13:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by chinita 2 in Singles & Dating

A place where I can print cheap programmes and rent really nice tux...Thank you! Thank you!

2006-11-29 13:56:43 · 4 answers · asked by Joni 2 in Weddings

Ok, this may seen weird but....I have a major crush on my neighbor. We have known eachother since we were 2-3 years old. I really like him, but I don't know if he really likes me. Should I tell him how I feel? Do I ask him how he feels about me? I need to know! Give me answers!

2006-11-29 13:56:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so there was this guy in my town and we wernt exactly 'friends' but we hung out a bit with my x friend (this happened over the summer) and I gave him my skateboard: I think we could have made good friends, however, he got kicked out of his house (again, differnt house) for getting in trouble, I feel like if I would have been there I could have stoped my x-friend from getting him into trouble...also, I lied to all my friends about something and none of them new...I know God forgave me but I still feel so guilty, why do I feel this way?
also, Im absolutly baffled as to why any one would want to kick him out of his house, if I had a son like that he would make me happy...any advice?

2006-11-29 13:56:15 · 2 answers · asked by StarWarsFanatic 3 in Friends

I was around a group of "friends" and i felt invisible. Anything I said got ignored since they were so into their conversation. I wasn't even included in the conversation even when I try to be. They always do this to me so i stop hanging with them. Now they tell me that I'm don't care about them b/c I don't hang with them....i wonder why? Anyone ever feel like this?

2006-11-29 13:56:01 · 11 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Friends

2006-11-29 13:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by M c K e n z y e 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 13:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Batman 1067 1 in Family

I'm 30 and my man is 22. Do you think this relationship can work? What are your thoughts?

2006-11-29 13:54:12 · 20 answers · asked by Pookah 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out that he likes me not her, and he wants me to go out with him but my friend likes him too and wants to go out with him what schould I do!? help!

2006-11-29 13:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by Kaylaluv 1 in Friends

Has anyone ever actually met someone that have been chatting with for a long time? how was it and do you recommend it?

2006-11-29 13:51:29 · 4 answers · asked by forbiddenfruit9 2 in Singles & Dating

to hint that I want to kiss with tongues... not ask her, but hint at it while we are kissing, so she won't get freaked out if she doesn't want to... If we end up doing it, what do you do when you are french kissing?

2006-11-29 13:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 13:51:14 · 5 answers · asked by KANNAN 1 in Friends

I had a handsome stranger in a nightclub lure me into making out with him, i didnt even know his name! what a crazy night

2006-11-29 13:50:14 · 4 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

he loves football and gets a new girlfriend every week almost.

2006-11-29 13:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by Novelist 1 in Friends

There is this guy Sam at my high school and I really like him ALOT. I've had the biggest crush on him since the beginning of the year and I made my move this month, asking him out. he turned me down because he didn't know s**t about me, but we've been hanging out alot in Band, Chiors, and Theatre. Not to mention we always talk in the computer lab after school or we run our track or somthing together. When we first became friends, he always gave me quick, awkward hugs, but now he hoolds me closer and longer than any other of his friend-girls and i think yesterday he kissed the top of my head (because he's like a whole head taller than me!). I really don't know what to think. Do you think he will go in for the kill soon? Do you think he will ask me out before the whole holiday season? Do you think he likes me back? I have given you all the information I have, and there is nothing else I can say!! He's not a player (no band geek is) and he treats girls right. DOES HE LIKE ME?!?!?!?! HELP!

2006-11-29 13:50:04 · 8 answers · asked by Becca! At The Disco 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm Spanish-Irish and I married a Mexican. It wasn't anything big. She was still Catholic and the Spanish and Irish have a lot in common with the Mexican culture. It was no problem for our family.

The wedding reception was a blast. Everyone got drunk and starting sing old Spanish songs and my Irish uncles started up with their Irish drinking songs. They even tried dancing the Mexican Hat dance and danced it well. It was a lot like river dancing.

Did you marry someone totally different?
What did your family think?
What was your wedding like?

2006-11-29 13:49:59 · 10 answers · asked by S. Corleone 2 in Weddings

Do you feel women have castrated men in the process of getting ahead in the work force. When women knew their place the divorce rate was low, now 60% of the marriages fail. June Cleaver was a great role model, but that's history.

2006-11-29 13:49:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband was married before we got together,his first marrige didnt work out for very long(more bad then good in it)..we have been married for 5 going on 6 years now...he hasnt spoken to her in about 6/7 yrs...but a few days ago he was thinking of her and knew that she lived or at least her family lived in new orlens.he was wondering if they were ok from the hurrican hitting so he went looking them up to see if he could find them which he did,her mother and she put him in contact with his first wife.i didnt have a problem with him looking for her even though he didnt tell me he did until after....she is fine and so is her family,thats what he said he wanted to find out,if everyone was ok...so he knows that they are...but now they are staying in contact with one another and doesnt tell me when they talk until a few days later when he remebers he didnt tell me.he has told me before she was his first love and he still loves her...but knows it would be all wrong..but im in his life and

2006-11-29 13:49:22 · 10 answers · asked by lovedove662000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandpa found out I am dating a woman of filipino descent and went into a rage about Pearl Harbor (he is old and associates all Asians with those whom he fought is WWII). He is not the only one--many of my friends mock me and ask what her sideways ******** is like. In reality, it is superb. She is a lovely woman who serves me well and I wouldn't dream of leaving her simply because her skin color makes her a lesser person. How should I confront my friends and family?

2006-11-29 13:49:08 · 20 answers · asked by kingfishmac 2 in Singles & Dating