i have a girlfriend that i love very much and we both love each other so much that we want to spend the rest of our lives together.
but heres the problem...
she has a planned marriage... religiously
we need to find a way to either make the guy she has to marry leave or find a way to have her run away from home. i dont know wat to do plz help!!!!!
2006-11-29 14:02:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
WEll i would hate to be going through that.ummm.... Have you tried talking to the guy and ask what he sees in the girl? You ask her who she chooses and dont be shy. This is your whole future. Now me personally i would just talk to her parents about it and ask them to talk to the guy with you so if he tries to do something you'll have protection and wittneses just incase he tries anything. I dont really know what else to tell you. But i'm sorry about what your going through. I hope everything works out for you. If no one answers it ask God. He answers all my problems. Just ask him to fogive you for all of your sins and ask him to help. God is good remember that. Pray every night before you go to sleep with your girl friend and God Bless You. Ill even pray for you.
2006-11-29 14:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by victoe5780 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the deal. You tell this girl that she has to grow a set, tell her parents and this poor guy that the arranged marriage is not happening and she is marrying you. It's OK if she asks you to be with her during this. If she does it, she is truly in love with you and is willing to do anything for you. She is a keeper. If she doesn't do it you most likely do not have the right girl. The only way to do it is this way. Short and direct. Good Luck!
2006-11-29 14:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by AirDevil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not giving anymore information it's hard to give you an answer.
You can't be in America.
The only religion that is remotely associated with arranged marriages is the Unification Church.
I suggest you talk to someone you trust in the legal profession for help
2006-11-29 15:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously trying to talk to the family won't change anything but maybe if you both speak to them and don't give them an option maybe you can be together!! If the other guy is in it for not wanting to get married then you should try that first before you start talking to the family!!
2006-11-29 14:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are the two of you? This sounds like the both of you are very young..running away or making the guy leave?? If you're adult enough to think you're ready for marriage then you need to be adult enough to talk to her parents and be honest with them.
2006-11-29 14:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't religion repressively wonderful to women? If it were me I'd just get married and to heck with the planned marriage.
2006-11-29 14:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u met her parents before??myb u should try,myb they will change their mind.u know her family is kindda religious so to run away from home is not a good idea.her family will hate u for that.myb u and your gf can talk to the guy she has to marry about this.i believe he don't love your gf.so,myb he can help u guys on this.i wish u a very good luck.
2006-11-29 14:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by i^am^me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to just get with the day and age that it is and tell the guy shes not going to marry him becuz shes in love with someone else.. why run away!!!
2006-11-29 15:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by maureen a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult and face her parents...if she doesn't want an arranged marriage then she needs to tell them that. Even if it means that they will disown her, she should be happy.
2006-11-30 03:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to bash religion, but i have never understood that!
God gave each of you your own life, you each have a choice or should have a choice as how you want to live it.
i'd run away if i were her........man, i feel sorry for you two. Do it!
2006-11-29 14:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋