I found out that he likes me not her, and he wants me to go out with him but my friend likes him too and wants to go out with him what schould I do!? help!
2006-11-29 13:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by Kaylaluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your friend is fickle and will get over this guy easily, then I wouldn't worry too much about her reaction. If, however, this is her Romeo, I would surrender the romance for the sake of the friend.
Still, I have to wonder how much of a friend she is if you're considering dating the guy.
2006-11-29 13:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friend that this guy likes you and ask her if it would be ok to go out with him. Now when you tell her this watch her reactions very closely she might just sit there and say ok it is ok go for it but watch her body language that says more then what words could ever say. Look at her eyes and watch to see if she has hurt in them, watch to see if she looks down alot or away from you or acts a little pissed off. You dont want to lose a bestfriend over a guy. Your bestfriends will be around longer then a boyfriend in some cases. Whatever you do, dont go out with him behind your friends back. That will in the long run hurt your friend very much...I've been the friend that go hurt...dont give that person that hurt...it is unbareable unbearable especially if you are inlove with them and would have done anything for them to make them happy
2006-11-29 21:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your friend need to talk about this boy and be honest with one another cause if he likes you then she should understand that and every guy you met you'll need to have rules and go by them and just cause she like him ! so what he made his choice and if she stop talking to you cause of this she never was your friend good luck
2006-11-29 22:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exept a menage a trois ,that means a three some.
or forget about him
or eliminate your friend
3 choices
which do you like best??
2006-11-29 21:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well would you know your friend longer or would you know the boy longer. remember there are plenty of boys for every one! smile, and take a risk or just play it safe.
2006-11-29 22:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by JACEY GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friend before someone gets hurt. It can be alittle tricky!
2006-11-29 21:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by PandGbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither of you go out with him... friends will be there for you longer then boyfriends/girlfriends.
2006-11-29 21:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by soccerwarrior00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Menage a trois...
2006-11-29 21:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o0h... must be tough for you. i understand your situation...... but honey, you have to choose..... your friend or a guy?
2006-11-29 21:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Blondii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋