There is this guy Sam at my high school and I really like him ALOT. I've had the biggest crush on him since the beginning of the year and I made my move this month, asking him out. he turned me down because he didn't know s**t about me, but we've been hanging out alot in Band, Chiors, and Theatre. Not to mention we always talk in the computer lab after school or we run our track or somthing together. When we first became friends, he always gave me quick, awkward hugs, but now he hoolds me closer and longer than any other of his friend-girls and i think yesterday he kissed the top of my head (because he's like a whole head taller than me!). I really don't know what to think. Do you think he will go in for the kill soon? Do you think he will ask me out before the whole holiday season? Do you think he likes me back? I have given you all the information I have, and there is nothing else I can say!! He's not a player (no band geek is) and he treats girls right. DOES HE LIKE ME?!?!?!?! HELP!
2006-11-29 13:50:04 · 8 answers · asked by Becca! At The Disco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he does like you but it is to soon to ask him out again ask him out just before xmas time good luck :)
2006-11-29 13:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by cluess356101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like he likes u, but he thinks that he is not ready 4 a relationship like that, he cares about u, but is just not ready. u need to "go with the flow" and hope that he asks u out sometime, maybe, if he likes u enough, he will stop waiting around and ask u. all u need is time, just wait, but if u wait too long, u might not get him, so if u do wait too long, try asking him again, but dont ask him too many times, or he may never go out with u. so be patient!!! and tell all of ur friends about my advice so they can ask 4 advice as well, have a nice day! p.s. if he kissed u on the head, that may be a big sign that he does like u.
2006-11-29 15:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by boyscoutbob_32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing the right thing. He asked for time to know you, and you gave it to him. Keep giving it- talk to him and let him know the real you. If he likes what he sees (and it sounds like he does) he should be making his move pretty soon.
I am Xcited 4 U!!
2006-11-29 13:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by apinkjacket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he certainly seems to like you! Have you been giving him signs that you are still interested?
Try asking him to hang outside of school...go for a coffee or something
:)
2006-11-29 13:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by shy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful don't redo your first mistake twice. Act cool and first just ask him to hang out with you just as a friend and see were it goes...if it turns out well then ask him out on a date if he doesn't ask you first... good luck!!! Hope it works!!!!
2006-11-29 14:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Me, Myself and I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him, as in become his friend. Then he'll know more about you. If he sees you a lot and thinks your wonderful, no question that he'll ask you out.
2006-11-29 13:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does like you. Maybe you should ask him out.
2006-11-29 13:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spounds like a respectable guy and yeah might be time to ask him to reconsider
2006-11-29 13:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋