You know, i am not a jealous person anymore (o try not to be)
We are 25 and we have been dating for a year and a half and i KNEW before we dated that he was good friends with his ex who is REALLY REALLY nice. She is engaged to be married and TOTALLY not interested in him and I am sure he isnt interested back, they are totally just friends.
Is it ok that i would just rather not hang out with her? On one hand, i think that i am taking his friends away from him, but on the other hand, what girlfriend wants to hang out with their boyfriends ex? I dont know, and i dont mind seeing her and her fience sometimes, but id always rather do something else besides hang out with the ex. Also, her group of friends are his friends too and they always complain to him (jokingly) that he never hangs out with them and that makes me feel bad. Actually, i dont even mind if he hangs out with them, i would just rather not. Is this normal and is it ok that i just plain old not want to hang with the ex?
2006-11-29 13:39:57 · 3 answers · asked by stephasoris 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know where you're coming from. My husband is good friends with his ex girlfriend, and she calls him all the time. It's hard to keep that green eyed monster at bay, but I swallow my pride and keep my mouth shut. It's all you can do, really.
You should explain to him that you're just not really in to hanging out with his ex, and that it makes you feel uncomfortable. Tell him that it's perfectly okay if he wants to do it, but you just can't come along all the time. After that, the ball is in his court and he can choose to either leave you behind or hang out with you. Don't be hurt though if he wants to see her from time to time.
You have to remember that she was there first.
2006-11-29 13:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by MsLongBeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might want to assert that they are sorting out the waters with one yet another. i do not advise to sound detrimental yet he's a guy and they do imagine with a diverse area of the anatomy. Why do not you commence impressive out with an ex-boyfriend to teach him how effective it feels at the same time as your the only leaving to loaf round which include your "chum". purely teach him that 2 can play that sport because if he truly cares for you, he will end impressive out which include his ex once he's conscious what your feeling first hand.
2016-10-07 23:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do trust them, so you really don't have to hang out with them...then don't
2006-11-29 13:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋