Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

i am 13 and i am in 8th grade.... my boyfriend and i have been going out 3 months and we barely ever do anything with eachother..... i want to get closer to him like my friends do to their boys but he doesnt have a cell phone i can text him at or anything....also any tips on what i could get him for christmas hes into basketball and ohio state! thanks!!

2006-11-28 09:07:50 · 4 answers · asked by rockstaa LAUREN 2 in Singles & Dating

i went out with him in the 5th grade for 3months...how long do u think a relationship like this should last?? i hope 4ever but idnno....i love him so mcuh but he never asks me to go anywhere with him and when i ask him to he says no!How can i get him to understand how much it hurts me when he doesnt ask me to do stuff or he wont come over?!

2006-11-28 09:07:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at school who always flirts with me and makes me laugh and always talks to me during class.does he like me or is he just a friend?

2006-11-28 09:06:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together almost 11 months. hes got a dodge neon srt-4 with turbo so hes into fast cars, he likes poker but i got him chips already i just dont know what else to get him. he likes sports im just not sure exactly what teams

2006-11-28 09:06:01 · 7 answers · asked by Lindsey M 1 in Singles & Dating

ok if you read my previous questions you may read that I ended a 2 yr and 1/2 relationship (im 20 hes 21).

Well although i said the magic words it still hurts, i changed my mind the next day like i did twice while i was with him.But he didnt want to take me back. Well a wk & 1/2 ago we talked and he said he needs time for thinking couple of wks.

I told him i respected that and that ill give him his space. So i thought ill hear from him untill he thought things through but things are the same as when we were together i see him talk to him and even get intimate with him.

But when i ask him why not get together he says oh im still thinking

If he really honestly loves me why "think" why not get back with me thats what i thought would happen after the break up but NO

Or if he doesnt love me why give me hope kowing how much i love him.Im still giving him space but i dont want to get hurt but i love him hes my first love im so sad dont know what to do dont want to lose him

2006-11-28 09:04:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok he said some stuff that he did to me some of it was true most
of it was not!!he was braging!! my friends r telling me to break up with him and also some of his friends! my heart saying no no don't break up! but my head saying yes yes should i?

2006-11-28 09:04:41 · 7 answers · asked by xeashuff 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 09:04:31 · 73 answers · asked by miss_ninety_ukuk 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 09:04:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like two guys .one is sooo shy... he has never talked to me before except when we had to be partners in gym class. He constantly stares at me in lunch. another guy i like is more open with me. he is soooo wild/hyper/troublemaker on the bus. he knows that i like him (i think b cause my older brother most likely told him) why wont these guys ask me out?

2006-11-28 09:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by Tara D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 09:04:06 · 8 answers · asked by adjjones 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy who I have known for a while is displaying some weird behaviour. When he's with his mates he's very flirty, gives me loads of compliments and is very sweet with lots of eye contact. His voice is very soft as well. When we are alone though he seems a bit nervous, he won't look me in the eye and his voice is different. i start to think he likes me but when he changes i get unsure. Whats going on here?

2006-11-28 09:03:38 · 24 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy im my gym class and he looks at me alot but not that much but he does look at me and one day i was asking the guys if im annoying everyone said yes and then i asked him he said yes and then after class he came to me and said no he was just kidding so does he like me

2006-11-28 09:03:31 · 11 answers · asked by :) 1 in Singles & Dating

What place do u think is the best to go with someone on a date? Do u think a hockey game is a good place to go with someone u like?

2006-11-28 09:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Light in the Dark 2 in Singles & Dating

how many time can u fall in love?

2006-11-28 09:03:01 · 14 answers · asked by pepita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is 7 years old and is one of the most wonderful things in the world to me. She was born from extinuating circumstances; however, not a day goes by that I don't thank God for her presense in my life. Her biological father is in prison for murder, etc. I do not really know any of his family. She has a mixed ethnic background, one of which I know nothing about. She is asking questions now, and I am not sure how best to answer her questions. She deserves to know the truth, but the truth will hurt her in the long run, I'm afraid. Is there any way to handle this situation without hurting her any more? Please let me know what advice you have.

2006-11-28 09:01:51 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer R 1 in Family

I AM...
-8th grade
-13 years old
-5'0
-long brown hair

anyways, i like this girl. i dont think shes ever had a boyfriend in middle school

i don't want answers like "ask her to a movie". people in middle school refer to going out as, 'boyfriend and girlfriend', not going out on a date.

also how to get her interested?

2006-11-28 09:01:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

could it be that our values are wrong?

could it be that we do not look before we leap into marriages?

could it be that we marry with wrong expectations?

2006-11-28 09:01:19 · 28 answers · asked by Vicko 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my mother critisises everything and everyone but herself. all she does is moan and groan all day. i knw she not well but she acts invalid. i knw she can do stuff if she justs put her mind to it. every little thing we are demanded to do. i feel like its getting very out of hand now. before she'd wash her own plate. now she wont even stand up to even take her plate into the kitchen never mind wash it. me and my dad are demanded to do things and they have to be done at an instance, like a master and his dog. i feel there isnt any respect left of me and i'm treated like shite. i feel sorry for my dad. its like abuse, emotional abuse for both of us. i just feel like dying now. can't take it :'( life is meant to be fun, not like this. my freinds are all so happy. i wish my mum was like theirs.

2006-11-28 09:00:15 · 10 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family

My bf live together with my daughter. its her play next week and we both have the chance to go.(it would be the first time we would be going together and its her 1st one at her new school)

however when i mentioned it he just kept asking how long it was on for (hardly going to be hours when they are 6!!) and that he might go.....

i have to say i was not impressed by this as we have been going through a rough patch lately the result of which was that he said he was going to make more effort for us to be a family.........

this is his first main chance ie to go and see her in her xmas play with me as a couple and to see his step daughter in her play.... and he gets all arsey with me as he wants to go and practice some sport.

shouldnt her play take priority or am i being unfair?

serious answers only please

2006-11-28 09:00:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well there's a girl i like at work, but how do i go about asking her out? i know people who know her but i'm too shy even to ask them if shes single or not.

any advice?

2006-11-28 08:59:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone that knows about this guy insists he likes me, and if it weren't for how he acts on occasion, I'd be pretty sure he does as well. Buuut...


There'll be times where I don't know if he's avoiding me, but he wont talk to me as much. He's a really shy guy, and I may be the only girl he talks to at work besides the managers, but I'm positive I've broken through his 'shy' barrier because he usually talks to me normally, and enthusiastically. He doesn't seem quiet around me...Until he gets in a weird mood.


Then, suddenly, he's just not talking as much. If I approach him he'll talk, and be just as friendly, but he wont approach me for days at a time. And he wont speak as much as he usually does. There were a few days where he only said hello and goodbye to me. Maybe he was just in a bad mood, though, I don't know...


We're talking a lot now, a lot more than usual, but he might do this again. It's like a cycle. Does it mean anything?

2006-11-28 08:59:54 · 11 answers · asked by Eri 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 08:59:52 · 21 answers · asked by TalonsMomma 2 in Family

so i have this friend..he and i are good friends....when he doesnt pick fights with me for no reason. i try to be a good friend to him, but hes never happy. im getting sick of this cycle we have..one minute were friends..then good friends..then it all comes crashing down when he tells me that im doing something that bothers him..and i hear him out, and i try not to do whatever i do thats bothering him, but he just never is happy. he kinda compares me to one of his other friends..no lie, we were on the phone and hes like "man times like these i wish (other friends name) was here". that makes me feel like crap. im trying to be a good friend, but hes trying to change me..and it may be for the better, but it makes me uncomfortable..its like ya know..i have friends that are happy with me the way that i am. it feels like no matter what i do, ill never be good enough. i didnt even know i had to live up to standards with a friend..its like im his student or something..i always have to improve.

2006-11-28 08:59:34 · 4 answers · asked by shady lane * 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 08:59:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have read that women always seem to prefer I well endowed guy. I have read though medically it doesn't make much difference because a woman can only feel a certain amount when I man enters her. Usually the entrance and close to that area the g zone, other areas deeper are no nerves to sense or feel the penis. The average size for a guy being 5-6 inches when erect and I think it is what he does with it that makes the difference.

2006-11-28 08:59:00 · 29 answers · asked by iceblue_purple 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 08:58:01 · 2 answers · asked by sunflor75 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so I like this guy, and everyone knows it. He liked me back, but now I can't tell. Should I just go head and ask him, or should I just quit my worring and just let life flow? I really need to know!!! He's so hot!!!

2006-11-28 08:57:57 · 20 answers · asked by Kathleen 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 08:57:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My oldest sister has a boyfrined, they've been 2gether for about 5 yrs. and have a 4 yr. old son!! The smelly Bastardd name is Joey, he's 27 and works at Mcdonalds, as a cleaner person, and lives w/ me and my family, buys little games, and toys, waste money on the stupidest things like plastic, wont take a bath he smells like shitt,piss,and arm -pit, he has some type of foot fungiis, which smellls like puke. He wont buy his son clothes or food, he only buys for him!! wht should I do?

2006-11-28 08:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've known this guy since i was 3 or 4and we've been bff's since. he gave me my 1st kiss. i've liked him since august. i really really like him, its almost luv i think.he keeps giving me signs like he likes me but then he gives me signs like he doesn't. he's been doin this for about 3 weeks now. i can't ask him if he likes me or not cuz he is grounded(he is really grounded for bad grades). wat r some signs that he likes me?wat r some signs that he doesn't like me?i want to know if he likes me so i can ask him out. i need help ASAP. thx for the help.we don't go to the sme school.

2006-11-28 08:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating