i've known this guy since i was 3 or 4and we've been bff's since. he gave me my 1st kiss. i've liked him since august. i really really like him, its almost luv i think.he keeps giving me signs like he likes me but then he gives me signs like he doesn't. he's been doin this for about 3 weeks now. i can't ask him if he likes me or not cuz he is grounded(he is really grounded for bad grades). wat r some signs that he likes me?wat r some signs that he doesn't like me?i want to know if he likes me so i can ask him out. i need help ASAP. thx for the help.we don't go to the sme school.
2006-11-28 08:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Still asking the same question, over and over I see. You keep picking best answers, saying what they said makes sense, was well thought out, etc. Yet, you never seem to take their advice, you just keep begging for answers, on the same question. Now, take a look at some of your answers to other peoples questions. Your own advice to others who have asked similar questions is good advice. You have no problem helping people with their problems, and your answers are very good. Mainly you have told them to just ask them out, and things like that. In these cases, you are very decisive. You should take some of that confidence and turn it on yourself. Quit worrying about this boy. Step up to the plate, and ask him. Period. You have received many great answers, you have agreed that many of them are good, now take their advice and talk to him, straight out. If your as wishy-washy around him as you have been on here, you are risking losing him. Grab the bull by the horns and do it.
p.s. why the name change?
Long Live Jambi
2006-11-28 09:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting yourself thru this grief? Since you've known this person for a long time, you should have no problems talking to him. Be yourself and ask him out. The worst he can do is say no thanks, but at least then you will know exactly where you stand. Some guys are meant to be just friends and this can be a real good thing; especially when he has other "cute" friends around him that he could introduce to you. Have you ever heard of the old saying; "Nothing ventured....nothing gained?" Make the attempt and take it slow.
2006-11-28 09:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by riverrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have nothing to lose at this stage, sounds like your really confused, so just ask him out. If he treats it like a joke or doesn't take you seriously, well then just say something like, oh it's just to celebrate your grounding being overwith. If he really likes you you'll know, when he acts like he doesn't like you is it because he is around his own friends. Guys can be afraid to show their real feelings so women have to be tough and do it for them sometimes. Remember if he really seems surprised, pretend it just a common everyday thing and to celebrate him being off grounding (oh yaeh) offer to help to help with his school work. Good luck
2006-11-28 09:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Pearl N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a boy likes a girl, and its not stupid puppy love, then he will try and find ways to hang out with her and be around her more than normal. Good luck
2006-11-28 08:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you need to learn that the only way you are going to know for sure is to ask him. You can't just go by signs. Hopefully he tells you the true.
2006-11-28 10:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Signs he likes you: calls a lot, teasing, wants to hang out a lot
Signs he does not: you always feel like you're calling, making plans, initiating conversation
2006-11-28 08:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please if you do not mind saying, how old are you? It's hard to give the same advice to a pre-teen compared to an adult. I mean this whole thing began when you were 3 or 4.
Please don't be offended.
2006-11-28 09:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by P&B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he flirts with you more than normal, then he likes you. Ask him out when he is no longer grounded.
2006-11-28 09:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if ya only think he likes you, if you like him, ask him out , on a date, not a marriage, just a date
this is 2006, girls can ask too
2006-11-28 09:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he flirts with you he probably likes you...if he doesn't than he would probably rather remain friends
2006-11-28 08:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋