How do you ask out a girl in middle school?

Question

I AM...
-8th grade
-13 years old
-5'0
-long brown hair

anyways, i like this girl. i dont think shes ever had a boyfriend in middle school

i don't want answers like "ask her to a movie". people in middle school refer to going out as, 'boyfriend and girlfriend', not going out on a date.

also how to get her interested?

Answer 1

well i have brown hair blonde high lights in middle shcool adn 4'11 also 13
ive had the same problem...

i had a crush on this boy before and he did not ever have a girl friend in his life! (no point in liking him.) well the best thing is to ask her like say "do you want to be my girl friend" or "would you be my girl friend".

dont be mad if it does not work thats ok....because she might not be ready to go out yet.....(like the boy i liked) im giving you advice from my own experience. hope its for the best....im in 7th grade (suppose to be in 8th though....stupid schools..just because ived live in californi they have to hold me back in texas!! anyways...hope it works out for the best......


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Answer 2

Really and truthfully u r too young to date or have a bf, you may not realize it now but you will in a few years true me. But you should listen to your heart. Think it completly through. Trust me i did make a lot of mistakes in middle school. Who cares if people talk about you. I've asked guys out before. Who cares what other people say. Don't try to fit in try to stand out. Who know if you ask this guy out and he says yes then go for it. Just be friends for and see if he flirts with you or anything like that. Trust me on this subject.....wait a few years it will be worth it. talking to your mom is good too. It may seem hard but it is all worth it in the end.

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Answer 5

I had to ask my friend this, just wanted to let you know.

The best way is to be classy! Classic makes a heart melt. My friends idea, walk up to her in a suit, holding a ring pop or a gummy worm ring or something cute like that and get down on one knee. Ask her to be your girlfriend, you don t have to kiss but hugging would be appropriate.

Other things to give her:
Roses/Flowers
Chocolate(this is a must)
Books(if she likes that)
Snacks

And if you want to jump ahead and know she would be ok with it, maybe a small peck on the cheek. NOTICE ABOVE⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

Answer 6

im in 8th grade too...i know exactly what you're talkin about. Be really nice to her, find out things you have in common, give her hints that you like her. she might start to like you too...or she might already like you. when you think the time is right, start a conversation with her and then look in her eyes and just say, "will you go out with me?" or something like that. good luck!

Answer 7

How do you ask her out?

It's simple. Just ask her out!

Don't make it a "date." Stop by Starbucks after school or something. Keep things light but flirtatious and fun. Tell her something like, "Hey, I'm going to Starbucks after school. It would be cool if you came along."

DON'T ask her if she'd like to be your girlfriend, especially if you don't know if she feels the same way.

Answer 8

hey im the same age and in the same grade as you......i like boys coming up to me directly and asking me rather than having a friend ask them for me.....also if your too shy to do this you could try calling her on the phone and asking her....my boyfriend came up to me directly and ask me and i think thats the best way to ask a girl out! good luck!!

Answer 9

Just ask her, there's really no trick about it. Id start hanging out with her more and get closer to her and then when she is calling you every night, ask her. Good Luck!

Answer 10

well, first of all does she know you? if she doesn't know you well, get to know her first. if she does you can just ask her out by saying, "do you want to go out with me?" and make sure you sound serious. becuase well some girsl might take it as a joke.