im 12 years old and i love my boyfriend so much! we been goin out for bout a month now...?

Question

i went out with him in the 5th grade for 3months...how long do u think a relationship like this should last?? i hope 4ever but idnno....i love him so mcuh but he never asks me to go anywhere with him and when i ask him to he says no!How can i get him to understand how much it hurts me when he doesnt ask me to do stuff or he wont come over?!

Answer 1

You have no idea what love is. Noone does. Especialy is you are only 12. Everyone thinks they are in love when they are 12 but I'm sorry to say that it won't last. You should move on. Sorry.

Answer 2

You are 12 years old, you still have a world ahead of you. I am 21 and just started seeing a guy after being out of a relaitonship for four years. If he is treating you this way, maybe you should talk to him and ask him why he's doing this. But you are both still very young. Give yourselves some time; I was in your shoes once, and all he needed was some space. Just ask him why he's doing this and maybe you can work things out. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Now u being ridiculous wat your age babygirl, you still have your mother's milk.....i find totally unappropriate that a young child will be talking about in love with boyfriend at a age when your thoughts should be far away from being in a relationship of this sense.....

Don't get be wrong there's nothing wrong with liking someone or having feeling for someone but what do u know about love when u state that he don't want u around him and he hurts you but u still love him THAT'S NOT LOVE.....AND HE'S NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU.....YOU THINK YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH HIM BECAUSE HE MUST BE LOOKS GOOD TO THE EYE BUT FACE REALITY HE DON'T TREAT YOU RIGHT...STUDY YOUR SCHOOL WORK FOR NOW AND AT A OLDER AGE YOU CAN GET A BF BUT NOT NOW ......

WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS ANDTHERE RESPOND TOWARDS THIS?

Answer 4

you know at that age, your feelings get confused, meaning that you dont know what love is, u think u love him and thats just not possible. and guys around you age, are just looking for fun, they just want to play, they aren't looking for anything serious, if i was you, i'll dump that guy, you r way to young to have a boyfriend, there is a lifetime. so think about it, this guy doesnt even care about you, 'cause never ask you out, or anything like that

Answer 5

hes probably not ready for a serious relationship talk to him about it or dump him. i know what that feels like but trust me there will be much more guys and you wont really know how true love feels unless you date a variety of people.

-i hope that this helped. please answer my question, im forgottendream49

Answer 6

when ur as young as 12 years old, its harder to undertsand the meaning of tru love, and the meaning of "moving on". he mite not like u as muc has u like him. confront him with this, and if hes still doesnt change, u shud let him go. sry :(

Answer 7

get over it your 12 you will love many more boys in your life

Answer 8

well since you guys are so young, unfortunatly your boyfriend hasnt matured yet, even if you were to tell him i dont think it would do to much, you have so many more years of love and worries ahead of you, dont start to early!

Answer 9

you need to tell him maybe he has a reason. when you are that sort of age, relationship dont last long especially if he acting so.

Answer 10

you should move on you are to young to be this serious over anyone and it is very clear that he doesn't feel the same way about you. sorry to have to break it to you good luck and GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!