Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

if i keep telling my boyfriend that i love him alot, and i mean it everytime, i'm not saying it to let him know, i say it because i want to. i'm doing everything i can to make him happy, i don't do anything to upset him, i try as much as i can not to be so jealous, not making up troubles you know. i want to spice things up a little, not to let him get bored

2006-11-28 09:31:31 · 22 answers · asked by Twinky 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this really shy gal and i hang out wit her and her friends during lunch. On friday, two of my friends started making fun of her, and she was only 4 feet away from us. This pissed me off so bad that i threw my sandwich at them and i also threatened not to do the group grad photo wit them. Now, all of my friends are thinking that im obssesd bout a girl that doesnt like me bac and im ditching my friends for her. Am i obssesed?

2006-11-28 09:31:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think of people who cheat on their spouses? People who justify their actions by saying their needs were not being met or they were simply not happy? Is there any justification? Is wanting out of your marriage a valid reason for cheating? And what about tho "other" people? The ones who knowingly have affairs with people they know are married. What is your opinion of them?

2006-11-28 09:31:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 09:31:19 · 23 answers · asked by adf a 1 in Singles & Dating

Im just wondering because I will be getting married in February. What do couples do in honeymoon and im still a virgin

2006-11-28 09:31:05 · 9 answers · asked by tennisgurl 2 in Weddings

i was moving to LA 8 hours away from where i live he was going crazy saying he was going to drown himself and hes going to wait outside my house and mess up my car...so i wont leave..i feel like killing him to get ride of him..restraining orders dont work on him

2006-11-28 09:30:15 · 19 answers · asked by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 09:28:53 · 18 answers · asked by Judith 2 in Singles & Dating

Before we started dating, we agreed to be friends if we ever decided to break up. I figured he would be over it by now because we have been best friends for a long time. He will say a few words to me but only like once in 2 weeks. Does that also mean that he cant make up his mind about what he wants? He also intends to stare at me more than usual everytime I turn around.

2006-11-28 09:28:25 · 11 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

when you have something you dont know what you have got till its gone and then when its gone you want it back. why?

2006-11-28 09:28:23 · 26 answers · asked by shygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I bought my bf a 24" flat screen Toshiba television. It's a combo with VCR and DVD....is 24" big enough? It's for his bedroom but it's quite big. I hope it's big enough!

2006-11-28 09:27:44 · 4 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 09:27:43 · 9 answers · asked by Judith 2 in Singles & Dating

Always half truth..Is this man confused??
This is what he wrote to me..
"Liking anyone involves an element of physical appeal...and I thought our first kiss was magical....but you oscillate in your choices, depending upon your mood - from liking at one end to disliking at the other..........so I never can figure out...what is it exactly....besides I think that first kiss was a fluke"
Is this man confused or he is trying to confuse

2006-11-28 09:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this one guy, he's 2 years older than me (i'm in 9th) he's been my neighbor, FOREVER!!!! And i've always kinda liked him and he's always kinda liked me but nothing BIG, not even a crush or anything!!! just a small little thing i have for him, we always flirt with each other and i know he would date me, but i'm not sure if i should.....i dont date alot and right now i'm heart-broken so maybe thats why i'm thinkin about givin him a chance.....
also, we act like we're dating all the time, everyone asks us if we are and he always says "yea we are, gotta prob with it??!!" but i think he's just jokin around but idk...


-what should i do

2006-11-28 09:26:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone ever have a crush on you and you hate them but you are kind of flattered that they have a crush on you but you won't admit it?

2006-11-28 09:26:37 · 13 answers · asked by Cody Baptist 1 in Singles & Dating

that i have a very big camel toe!!!What does that mean??He looked at me all weird and his top lip started quivering...,a little like he was about to burst into "viva las vegas"and then said he needed to cool off for a while but hes now been stood in the refrigerator for the past half hour.What is wrong with him?

2006-11-28 09:26:06 · 21 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Singles & Dating

It's a LONG story but to make a long story short i knew this guy for 6 years and we loved eachother sooooooo much it was crazy. Well stuff happened and one day he decided that he didn't want to like me or be with me. I went thru a lot of heartache. I went thru a really bitter time... i was angry at him...and still am to some point. The thing that ceases to amaze me is how nomatter what that guy has done to me...no matter how many times he's broken my heart, i never get over him, i never stop liking him, i'm still attracted to him even after several years of crap. I mean the day i met him...i looked at him and said to myself..i'm gonna marry this guy. This is probably been one of the most painful things for me to go thru...but i'm still sitting here wondering what it's all about. I mean it's amazing that i still have feelings for him after all that time. But why? Does this mean something?

2006-11-28 09:25:57 · 14 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Singles & Dating

OK. this is going to sound really small and petty but its really bothering me. I have a facebook profile (its just another myspace site) and I think I want to shut it down. I was sort of pressured to go on it and also I wanted to but the whole thing is driving me insane and making me depressed. I'm the kind of person, who I like everybody and everybody has to like me. So if I have a friend on there I feel like I have to be friends with their friends, and their boyfriends and girlfriends or they'll think I'm a ahole, but then again I don't always know these friends of friends and I worry that I'll get rejected, and I fear that so much. It always bothers me and makes me depressed. Especially sicne one person accepted my friend request one night and then removed me a few hours later and that really bothered me. I've been depressed ever since, paranoid that everybody just hates me. I also worry that people think I'm arrogant because I added so many people in so little time, people i don't think they knew that I knew that well. especially since I'm not really popular, sort of liked I'd say, but not really popular, and I'm friends with some of the people the more popular kids are friends with, like seniors that graduated last year. I've just been paranoid about that, and I'm depressed, and I don't really think taking it down would make me feel any better but I just think then I'd be out of this whole thing. But I mean everybody has one now, and people added me as a friend just yesterday and invited me to be in an internet group and I don't want to be rude and take it down the day after. And a few people seemed happy that i got it just a few days ago. SO what do you think I should do? The main question is should I get rid of it.?

2006-11-28 09:25:49 · 11 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

I really fancy someone I work with. We are good friends but I want to be more than that. She is married so I know nothing can ever happen.

What is the best way to deal with the situation? Do I just repress my feeling and be thankful to just be friends? Or would it be better to try and distance myself from them?

Its really getting me down cause I cant think of anyone else but her.

Has anyone been in this position? How did you deal with it.

2006-11-28 09:25:21 · 14 answers · asked by John F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

during a prostate exam?

2006-11-28 09:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by roxyrooy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a pretty girl, but I am fat. I just don't get why guys won't date me. I have been asked out before, but at college I feel judged and not accepted. Help.

2006-11-28 09:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy that I was seeing for over a year, just moved for a job (Sept 10) I called him like the 18th. Then I emailed him (Oct12)telling him how I felt about our situation, even inviting to go on vacation with my family next spring. Basically cleared up some things he asked before he left. He emailed me back 2 days later, telling me it was nice to hear from me, and that he'd like to go with us(my parents & I)sometime when we go. I emailed him again (Oct31) a fun email. But the next one I sent (Nov20) I talked about a problem I had w/ an addiction to diet pills but overcame it (he has an addiction to tobacco chew) but he's always wanted to stop, and I thought I would tell him about my situation so he could trust me. Was it too soon for me to let him know, since he left (Sept10) almost 3 months ago? I'm going to step back for awhile though, before I contact him again. But was that ok (timeline wise)?

2006-11-28 09:21:28 · 8 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy in my church and like every time i saw him he said hi cause i first met him at a camp with my church but any way i thought ok well i want to be friends with him so i wanted his email and so i decided to ask him for it by saying i have pics of you when you were babtized do you have an email and he looked at me and said you have pics of me like in a confusing way and that whole day he looked at me and now he never talks to me anymore so did he freak out

2006-11-28 09:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by :) 1 in Singles & Dating

girls think i am a retard i have add and they think i am ugly i think looks dont matter i am a music lover and they make fun of me and spit on me what do i do i will never get a girl i havent had a girl freind for 9 months

2006-11-28 09:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by kyle l 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls, i really need your help on this one guys let the girls handle this one.

2006-11-28 09:20:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well i met this guy at a dance and we started talking. All he was really interested in is if I was a cheerleader. I told him yes but then we didn't talk anymore. He is kindof cocky and into himself. Should I stay away or go for it?

2006-11-28 09:20:18 · 60 answers · asked by jEN 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know about you but this is really starting to drive me mad! Why is it that so many people keep asking what they should get their BF or GF for Christmas? At first I thought it was sweet but now it is just plain irritating to see the same question over and over

2006-11-28 09:19:06 · 34 answers · asked by Peachy Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

well theres a boy at school that i like named nickie and theres anouther girl that likes him to and today iwas gonna ask him out but should a girl ask a boy out?and what if she gets him first?i havent seen her yet but my friend said she was pretty but if he likes her should i let him go out with her and let him be happy...im fine as long as i know hes happy.

2006-11-28 09:18:57 · 5 answers · asked by Roxy! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 09:18:39 · 1 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

ok if you read my previous questions you may read that I ended a 2 yr and 1/2 relationship (im 20 hes 21).

Well although i said the magic words it still hurts, i changed my mind the next day like i did twice while i was with him.But he didnt want to take me back. Well a wk & 1/2 ago we talked and he said he needs time for thinking couple of wks.

I told him i respected that and that ill give him his space. So i thought ill hear from him untill he thought things through but things are the same as when we were together i see him talk to him and even get intimate with him.

But when i ask him why not get together he says oh im still thinking

If he really honestly loves me why "think" why not get back with me thats what i thought would happen after the break up but NO

Or if he doesnt love me why give me hope kowing how much i love him.Im still giving him space but i dont want to get hurt but i love him hes my first love im so sad dont know what to do dont want to lose him

2006-11-28 09:18:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday i got into an argument with my dad because of my 13yrs old sister? My sister is mischievious and she tells lies too often for no reason at all. What did she do- you guest it- she told my dad alot of lies about things i did not say and he believed her.

He did not even ask me if i had said any of these things, instead
he started to quarrel yet he knows my sisters reputation, in fact he contributed greatly to her personality.

I walked away while he was trying to create a scene.

I am 19yrs old as stated in a previous question. I share a room with my sister and i am now considering to hand over my set of keys to my dad and get out of his house.I am currently finishing up my own house, in fact i am only waiting on the yard to be fenced and the furnitures to move.

Should i move out immediately into a rented apt untill my house is finished or should i just stay there for thefew months nd then move into my own house? (Note: It is not the first time) Advice Needed!!!!

2006-11-28 09:17:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family