this is a question for guys, about getting bored?

Question

if i keep telling my boyfriend that i love him alot, and i mean it everytime, i'm not saying it to let him know, i say it because i want to. i'm doing everything i can to make him happy, i don't do anything to upset him, i try as much as i can not to be so jealous, not making up troubles you know. i want to spice things up a little, not to let him get bored

Answer 1

how hard does he try for you. you should be enough for him. it's not about him having a good time. he should appreciate you regardless of whether you're mixing it up all the time. your should be precious to him, not what you do for him

Answer 2

Oh my god ! you are busting ur *** to make him happy! leave the man alone! If you are trying to hard to give him everything the relation will get really annoying, just be urself and let things run smoothly without trying that hard! If you think he will get bored then maybe he is not really in love with u or that u don`t know him well enough.
Hope it helps!

Answer 3

Miserable -
Your on-line name could be prophetic.

What I see here is a patten of abuse, in the early stages.
You are doing everything to keep him, aren't you?
So let me ask you this: what is he doing for you?

Okay - maybe I'm wrong about your relationship, but consider re-reading what you posted.
It is all about pleasing him.
I hope you are happy...and maybe you are...but I'm concerned that you might not be looking out for your own needs and desires.

Answer 4

Work on yourself, grow, encourage him to grow with you. Take a class at college, try dancing classes. Show him that you are a happy, successful person and fun to be with. Try role playing, like pretending to be on a first date, or he is picking up you as a stranger. Play hard to get as a joke. or play nasty. I like that one but... Remember that displaying jealousy is potentially pushing him toward the object of your displeasure. Telling him you love him and showing it are 2 different things. Actions speak louder than words

Answer 5

I feel emotionally suffocated just reading your question. Back off a little and make him pursue you a little bit. That will help keep him from getting bored.

Answer 6

" i'm doing everything i can to make him happy,"

STOP! You cannot MAKE anyone anything...your whole post sounds like someone who is needy and obsessed. You're not in a relationship, a relationship is a partnership...50/50...it's not about one person bending over backwards to do anything not to upset their parter, to do things to try to "make" them happy, etc.

You're not being yourself...that's not healthy. You are being what you think he wants. Trust me, he won't want it for long...be you...if he likes you, that's great...if he doesn't, then he's not worth wasting time on.

Answer 7

You sound like the kind of girl who just sits on the fence and agrees with everything your bf says. You need a mind of your own, like putting your own opinions forward, things are interesting that way. If you just agree with everything, u are boring. I had a gf like this, and i dumped her because I felt like i was talking to myself half the time and she always agreed with everyting i said.

Answer 8

You may be trying too hard.
Let him do some chasing after you for a change, then you'll see how bored he is, and whether he loves you.

Answer 9

Try something different with your dates, like something fun and romantic [boat rides, putt putt, theme parks, etc.] If you two are having sexual contact, change up your sex positions [search on google]. But if he loves you, I doubt he'd get bored. I'd love it if a girl told mee that she loved me everyday.

Answer 10

If he is happy with you then he will be happy until the point when you just keep bugging him about doing more stuff to amuse him.

Answer 11

What is your question? You asking about how you can spice up your relationship? Sexually?