I'm looking in the wrong places for love any advice.?

Question

Girls, i really need your help on this one guys let the girls handle this one.

Answer 1

Love is like water: the more you try to grip it tight in your hand, the more it slips away. Love is a flowing sort of thing, and like a few of the others have said, it will find you when the time is right.

If you relax and just do things you like to do your real self will shine through. Someone will see that and fall for it faster.

Don't stop looking, just stop trying so hard and enjoy life along the way!

Answer 2

Ninety-five percent of the time the bars is not a good place, as so many times you will meet married men there, cheating boyfriends, alcoholics, guys and men who have problems, i.e., emotional, financial, marital, work-related, etc.

Often you meet your Mr. Right through other family members, friends or acquaintances! I did!

You need to put yourself in positions to meet other guys. Go to parties and let others introduce you or fix you up with other guys. Often the workplace is the place where you will meet Mr. Right. Go to single dances, although be wary there too, because there will be some cheats there as well. Go to the pool; start playing tennis; go jogging; join a club; SIMPLY PUT YOURSELF in as many positions as you possibly can in order to meet other guys.

Do not think that anywhere you go won't be a place where you could meet someone, as anyplace could be the right place. You could meet Mr. Right when you are actually on another date. You could meet him in a grocery store or at a movie.

My advice to you is: Don't be shy! If you see a guy without a lady close by, and if you like what you see, don't be shy! Say hi, smile, and be a bit flirty! Give him that eye contact! If he is single and has the least bit of interest, then especially since you made the first move, he will make the 2nd move!

Best of luck to you, and remember, often it is true that you will meet Mr. Right when it is least likely, and when you aren't even thinking about it!

Answer 3

Stop looking! Learn to love yourself first. Have faith.
No one wants to have to handle the tough things all the time. Learn what makes you tick. What do you want for your life? Where do you want to go? People will come in and out of your life so quickly that your head will spin.
For now, educate yourself, become confident in you abilities. Gain some self experience, help others as you grow. Leave behind no regrets and take on all adventures ahead. If you are as young as I think you are, then don't buy into the "need to have a boy/girlfriend to be someone" thing!
Love can and will find you, don't you want to be ready for it? For now, become who you are meant to be. Become the person you want your love to be. And I don't mean physically!

Answer 4

I had a very nice guy strike up a conversation with me in a laundromat. Later he helped me carry it to the car and asked me out for coffee. We dated until it comfortably drifted apart. Try a few pleasant words while checking out at the grocery store. Don't come on too strong, or you might get maced in this day and age, but just be nice and speak to people in public. You'd be surprised.

Answer 5

You need to get involved in things that you like to do. Join groups or take a class. Just getting out there and meeting different people can lead to meeting your dream girl. The added benefit is that you'll meet her doing something you both like to do and therefore have a common interest to start your relationship.

Answer 6

I found my prince in a really skanky dating site. He had just stumbled on it and so had I. It has worked. In other words, if it is meant to be, it will be!

Answer 7

When you stop looking love you will find it.
It's when you least expect it to happen it happens.