Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

2006-11-28 09:54:26 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

What activities do you do on your own? There are some people who never do anything alone, but I think its fine to go to the movies by yourself. Are they any other brave people out there who do things on their own? What are those things?

2006-11-28 09:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by R_H_P 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I know will ask me out through e-mail only, never will talk on phone and then when I accept I don't hear from him. Is this just a way of a guy playing games or is he just messed up in the head.

2006-11-28 09:53:49 · 21 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont understand it

2006-11-28 09:53:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have you heard of infidelity among black marriages back in the day when the wife would get out of the bed that she and her husband shares so that his girlfriend could spend time with him?

This was supposed to have been an acceptable type of behavior among the black community during the time when a lot of black men were off at war.

If you have any supporting information regarding your answer, please include it.

Thanks!

2006-11-28 09:53:39 · 3 answers · asked by The Truth 1 in Weddings

When me and my ex were together he cheated on me with one of my friends!!! We broke up and he went out with her!!! Another guy asked me out and i said yes!! Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months!!! I care about him a lot!!! But I'm still crazy bout my ex after all he has put me through!!!! Help!!!

2006-11-28 09:53:00 · 3 answers · asked by Jasmine T 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you heard of infidelity among black marriages back in the day when the wife would get out of the bed that she and her husband shares so that his girlfriend could spend time with him?

This was supposed to have been an acceptable type of behavior among the black community during the time when a lot of black men were off at war.

If you have any supporting information regarding your answer, please include it.

Thanks!

2006-11-28 09:51:59 · 4 answers · asked by The Truth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please share your experiences discipling your woman with a hurting friend. Examples help.

2006-11-28 09:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Two different men came up to me at work today, smiled and one said, "Nice pants" while the other said, "I like your pants." They seemed to be very friendly and the compliment made me feel good. I just wonder if I should consider it flirting or just being nice. Guys, can you give me some insight as to how much, if any, you notice what a woman is wearing and would you go out of your way to compliment it if you weren't attracted to her? Thanks!

2006-11-28 09:51:31 · 23 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Singles & Dating

How many women really do have a "rape" Fantasy of one kind or another? If you have ever played one out, was the experience what you expected?

2006-11-28 09:51:29 · 14 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

in my school there is a hole bunch of bf and gf do you think it is cool because my frinds and i are only one of the few that dont have a bf?

2006-11-28 09:51:23 · 10 answers · asked by ~*baby girl*~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my dad is a big dude and doesnt really want me to date, my mom feels the same way. but i dont care so i have a boyfriend. i love him a ton. i dont really know what to do. i could do two things which one should i do? 1. not care about my boyfriends saftey and tell my parents. most likely getting grounded but maybe ill be able to go out with him once they get used to it (even though i doubt it)
2. not tell my parents, stay safe but not be able to go out to the movies or anything and risk it getting back to them. what should i do please help!

2006-11-28 09:50:02 · 25 answers · asked by lambchops 3 in Family

2006-11-28 09:49:58 · 17 answers · asked by Farmwife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have always considered him as my brother and he always thinks of me as his sister but lately weve been like becoming closer and i think he likes me but im afraid to bring up the subject because i dont want to ruin our friendship, and i dont know if he would be interested in me because im a year older than him and i dont know if he would like me for me n for not being a skinny/hott girl which im deffenetly not so i dont know what to do and how to approach it

2006-11-28 09:49:55 · 4 answers · asked by fattychiky 1 in Singles & Dating

see i have a friend that is going out with a guy named tim so tim has cheeted at all the girlfriends he had in the past but my friend marghi dose not know that but he already cheeted on her and marghi if we tell her that it is are foult because when it is up to guys she thinks of every thing the other way so pelz help i will vot you best answer to who ever answer nicly thank you!

2006-11-28 09:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets just say that i like /opne else!

2006-11-28 09:49:08 · 31 answers · asked by sam! 4 in Singles & Dating

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or
spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends" A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He
didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would
he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has
more education or a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

2006-11-28 09:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by Dr. Kat 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a guy that is into country music and surfing and has a dog and a truck and likes sports and likes to travel and is 28. I don't know what to get him for christmas. What do guys like. Please don't say some sort of video game, he's not into that. What do you buy grown men that don't need anything? also, i'm thinking around $40. i'm cheap i know.

2006-11-28 09:47:01 · 12 answers · asked by TimeWillTell 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met a guy who's lovely. He lives in the USA and I live in the UK. Is ther any chance of it going further?

2006-11-28 09:46:42 · 15 answers · asked by MsCurious 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this one guy, he's 2 years older than me (i'm in 9th) he's been my neighbor, FOREVER!!!! And i've always kinda liked him and he's always kinda liked me but nothing BIG, not even a crush or anything!!! just a small little thing i have for him, we always flirt with each other and i know he would date me, but i'm not sure if i should.....i dont date alot and right now i'm heart-broken so maybe thats why i'm thinkin about givin him a chance.....
also, we act like we're dating all the time, this one girl that rides my bus asked us if we were datin 2day and he always says "yea we are, gotta prob with it??!!" but i think he's just jokin around but idk...


i'm shy around most guys i like but i'm DEFINETLY not shy around him, i would tell him to his face i like him, (i do it all the time) but the problem is i think he thinks i'm just joking around and i'm like seriousily he just smiles,

and he's not much of dater, ALOT of ppl like him but he never dates them

2006-11-28 09:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SOOO CONFUSED,,,have tried so many things,,have tried talking,,EVERYTHING!!,,feel so empty,,SOOO UNDESIRED,,feel like a piece of useless sh*t,,its been over 10 yrs since I felt his touch,,or any mans touch,,have never stepped out of the marriage,,but think about it ALL the time now,,miss satisfying a man,,miss the touch of a man,,,know its wrong to do anything out of the marriage though,,im 42,,should I have to be so empty just because he dosnt want my touch,,or want to touch me???Really cant imagine feeling this hollow for much longer,,, hurts,,,,?!?!

2006-11-28 09:46:04 · 21 answers · asked by sHyGaL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and me now ex-broke up recently. No bad things happen, just want to focus on school and work right now. He wants us to still be friend, (we were friends for 3 years b4 we actually dated) and I was cool with that. But how do you do that if you are still in love with the person? It's not like you can throw away all the things you shared and go back to "hey buddy ole pal". Help.

2006-11-28 09:45:56 · 9 answers · asked by bridget c 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a guy and just an hour ago realized that I follow that man law now, because I used to no to. But would you really take your friends over a girl as your first priority.

2006-11-28 09:45:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My roomate and I admitted our attraction for each other a few weeks ago, and have gotten on each other twice. It seemed like he actually may have liked me but now he's mean to me sometimes. There wil be times when we are home alone and we get real close to each other on the couch and watch tv, or look at our fantasy football teams, but sometimes he's a jerk. It's not like he's this way before or after we get done cuddling..and I know it's just an innocent little fun random hook up, but still...What does this mean?

2006-11-28 09:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1 in Singles & Dating

look my phone was broke for like a month and my boyfriend had got locked up so when he got out he said he need some you no what anyway he went to have sex with some who he say is a hoe and now she's pregnant so i call the and she said she's not what should i do we went through so much but look i'm not going lie i also most did it but i stop my self please please help me i'm hurt he told me but i think the only reason he said something is because i said something when i did it

2006-11-28 09:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was younger I had a huge crush on this guy who then started talking to my sister, he seemed in love with her, but she didn't really like him... so she's been leading him on for like 4yrs. then recently he's backed off. We went out to dinner the other day and had a really good time but my sister got really upset and said that I hurt her by trying to date him especially because they have a past of 4ys together. They were never officially boyfriend/ girlfriend b/c she said she didn’t like him, like that, so they spoke on the phone and occasionally dated for 4yrs, and always as a double date with me and a guy friend of ours but I never stopped loving him.And now he realized that he was chasing the wrong sister and he wants to be with me. I don't want to lose my sister over a guy but I love this guy and I did like him first, should I just abandon this chance to be happy, or should I go out with him regardless of how my sister feels because she didn't care about how I felt 4yrs ago

2006-11-28 09:44:47 · 17 answers · asked by moks 4 in Family

i think he's flirted wiht me a few times but then sometimes he will just plain out stare at me and other times it will be like he doesn't notice me at all but we do make alot of eye contact sometimes but we don't really talk that much

2006-11-28 09:44:20 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie P 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think if a guy say he loves both of you...do you think hes confused???

2006-11-28 09:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by chubey 1 in Singles & Dating

and who or what makes your soul cry with pain???

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2006-11-28 09:43:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its a gay community web site manly for teens but ther is no age limmet i ant got much if ne money for ppc and stuff like it

2006-11-28 09:43:30 · 3 answers · asked by boy18.co.uk 1 in Singles & Dating