2006-11-28 09:49:58 · 17 answers · asked by Farmwife 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When my husband is gone away overnight for courses and things like that. I go crazy, don't eat like I usually do, don't sleep well, all around not myself. I worry about him.
2006-11-28 09:56:56 · update #1
Not if you feel that its right for you. Theres never enough love!
2006-11-28 09:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could be a real problem if you love someone so much and they do not feel the same way about you. If it is all one-sided and you become totally obsessed and that can cause a disaster. I loved someone too much and found out too late that the person used it to his advantage and used me. Thankfully I was pretty much a stable person who believes what Paul said in the bible, "Do not repay anyone evil for evil" because that kind of hurt can really mess with a person's mind!
2006-11-28 18:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you can't love someone too much. But, you can act out on your love too much and that will cause the person to feel smothered.
edit - response to extra info you gave.
Okay, now you are being obsessive and co-dependent. You should be able to function for normal when your husband is away. It's fine to miss him and hope for his safety, but not to the detriment to your health or well being.
2006-11-28 17:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love that becomes "too much" is often expression more of a need in the lover than in the beloved. For the beloved, such love becomes stultifying and manipulative.
2006-11-28 17:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can love someone too much..... especially when you stop loving yourself and start falling apart trying to "please" the other person or try to make them happy. That kind of love though, becomes more of an obsession, which isnt healthy
2006-11-28 20:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by catchernkeeper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that you love, it is how you love. If your love is suffocating to the other person, then it is too much. Also, your love may come out in a hostile or oppressive way which is isn't good.
2006-11-28 17:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if it becomes a negative in your life.Such as totally losing your true self for someone else to please them or excusing bad behavior and making excuses for it. Love is a wonderful thing, and true love will make you feel good about yourself and your life.
2006-11-28 17:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way at least i don't think so but their is a difference between obsession and love
2006-11-28 17:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope! no such thing as too much love. There is such a thing as crazy, there is a fine line between the two. Please try to control yourself so you don't go crazy.
2006-11-28 17:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal, but you should also think about you, you can get like that all the time, its not healthy, think about it like if its a little time alone or a vacation for you,
2006-11-28 18:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by aaaime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋