My roomate and I admitted our attraction for each other a few weeks ago, and have gotten on each other twice. It seemed like he actually may have liked me but now he's mean to me sometimes. There wil be times when we are home alone and we get real close to each other on the couch and watch tv, or look at our fantasy football teams, but sometimes he's a jerk. It's not like he's this way before or after we get done cuddling..and I know it's just an innocent little fun random hook up, but still...What does this mean?
2006-11-28 09:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys r jerks thats y
2006-11-28 09:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by girlwithq's 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly sweetie, sounds like you like him a little more than he likes you. As a roommate you are bound by rules, whether you like it or not. As a roommate he might have been attracted to you because you seemed like the "cool guy girl" he can bring his friends around you and vice versa. Then when the two of you got together it did change some things. now he probably feels like he is in a relationship and no longer in the guy girl roomie stage, which from the sound of it is what he truly wanted. Sometimes, you just have to let go of something that was never meant to be, cut your losses and move on. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-28 17:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, guilt, maybe? Random hook up at home?
Maybe it's a territory thing. How the heck will he bring home any real girlfriend with that history?
and oh, geez, now that there's this thing between you, how will he feel if you get a real man?
Did he pee on you yet, metaphorically? I think he feels like he did.
And there's always the possibility that your non-chalant attitude is offending him. Could even hurt.
Maybe... but then there's all those other possibilities, too.
2006-11-28 17:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he feels like it was a mistake to take it to the next level. You can't really ever go back to the way things were.
Maybe he wanted it to mean more than "a innocent little random hookup" and now he feels used, or stupid for having feelings for yu.
You do need to talk about it with him, see how he feels, or you just might lose a really good friend, and a paying roommate.
good luck, hope it works out.
2006-11-28 17:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It just might mean he is grumpy. Some people are grumpier than others.
Like me, I am pretty happy all the time but, my husband gets upset really easily. It use to be that we felt tension because of it but, now I just dismiss it and let it slide.
Unless he is calling you horrible names or trying to hit you I would dismiss it as being a Mr. Grumpy Pants.
2006-11-28 17:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by cristy l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well lets put it like this, guys tend to get bored of girls after they have gone as far as they wanted with one specific girl... thats probably what's going on, your best choice is to do what you were doing before that worked so well on him and put some spice to it but never giving him everything. If he responds to the challenge you are in luck, if he doesn't I guess is time to try something else or move on.
2006-11-28 17:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by et3rn4l_j0k3r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he thinks less of you because he now knows you call sex an "innocent little fun random hook-up".
2006-11-28 17:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's either moody, a jerk or both. you should probably work on severing any kind of feelings you have for him and start looking for a new place.
2006-11-28 17:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess he doesn't "REALLY" like/love you. My guess is that he was horny and just wanted you for sex. Sorry. He sounds like a typical guy.
2006-11-28 17:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it tricky, he is a jerk! Don't extend your lease!
2006-11-28 17:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋