Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

my best friend used to go to school with me. and i used to like him. alot. he started going to public school and got desperate for acceptace. now he's bisexual/gay and he's told my other friend who told me, but he won't tell me personally. why is this and how can i get him to tell me? also how can i convince him that this is all just a phase and that he really isn't bisexual? this is really hurting me. i have to watch my best friend's life fall apart and he won't even tell me what's going on. if i don't help him now, who knows what's gonna happen later. this sounds weird, but how do i make him like just girls again???

please no answers contradicting where i stand on this issue. thanks.

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Kelly

2006-11-28 10:16:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Plz no smart remarks i am just wondering weather i should of wait to have sex. i was just so caught up in the moment i didnt think about it.
i have been dating this guy for a little more then 3 months and been talking to him for a little over four. i stay at his house on weekends. We get a long great and i love him a lot. It almost feels like we knew each other for ever.

2006-11-28 10:16:16 · 14 answers · asked by dream21 2 in Singles & Dating

O.K. She goes to bed with hubby and he takes a shower only once a week. He wears the same clothes he wore during the day, and then goes to bed with them again, and same thing next day. She yells at him and he won't listen. What's up and what to do?

2006-11-28 10:15:44 · 10 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been knowing each other for 3 months and dating for 1 month. My family keeps saying I'm "stupid", that it's too soon. Why should we wait? The way I feel isn't going to change. I leave for the Army in 2 weeks and she leaves a month after me. Besides the "It's too soon" argument, is there any reason why we shouldn't?

2006-11-28 10:15:31 · 16 answers · asked by Willie P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering when can I expect some sex? After the 3rd date? After 1 month? Is it based on time (ie 1 or 2 months) or is it based on the number of dates you have been on? I know it is different with everyone but I was just curious to when one would expect sex. I personally think sex after the 3rd date or 1 months of dating is normal.

2006-11-28 10:14:13 · 11 answers · asked by romeo 4 in Singles & Dating

what do u do when ur best friend goes out with someone u don't like but ur friend thinks u like them but u don't? I keep telling my friend i don't like who they r going out with but they don't belive me what do i do?????

2006-11-28 10:13:52 · 4 answers · asked by mad dog 3 in Friends

with reference to my previous question - Girl @ Gym. If i like a girl but don't know if she's single or likes me - will she be flattered anyway if she's not interested?. She is happy to talk to me when i make the effort and always smiles when i look at her. When I next see her, I'm gonna make the effort to talk to her more! but i just need to know if she'd be flattered if it turns out she's not interested?

2006-11-28 10:13:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got home. Very angry. Me and my boyfriend had arranged to meet tonight at 8 together with another firend of mine to check out some different pubs for a party. He told me at ten to 8 that he'd meet us later - around 8.30 because he was having drinks with some company. I was slightly annoyed because we'd planned this for weeks, but anyway... I met my friend - but after an hour he had to go back to work, so I was left on my own trailing the streets for a decent place for the party... - and no word from my boyfriend. In the end I go home - I phone him - at 11!!! and he's like - oh hei - what's up? I'm (obviously) quite angry inside, but I never seem to really get angry at him - just grumpy. All i can hear on the other end of the phone is girls giggling, which further pisses me off (obviously!)
It is not the first time he just completely 'forgets' to tell me if his plans have changed - I don't want to be a crontrolling ***** - but I just think it is SO inconsiderate! what to do???

2006-11-28 10:13:28 · 8 answers · asked by heldigfis 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl. Today a guy friend of mine kicked me on the shin! He's 15, I'm 14. Just to get my attention because I was talking to another one of my girlfriends. He didn't do it hard, but when I was like, "What the hell was that?" He says, "I can kick anything I want to."
What the heck is wrong with him?? Aren't guys not supposed to hit girls?

2006-11-28 10:12:51 · 4 answers · asked by cinemaluvr 1 in Friends

what do you like in a girl? what do they have to do to keep you?....tell all!

2006-11-28 10:12:26 · 3 answers · asked by ososweet92 2 in Singles & Dating

she doesnt show me any affection. she doesnt even hold my hand. i have been dating her fo about a month and a half. she acts like my girlfriend on the phone but not at school. why. and how do i get her to hold my hand? ps i am 18 and she is 17. and she is very religious if that has anything to do with it

2006-11-28 10:12:15 · 21 answers · asked by Sub_Zero 2 in Singles & Dating

well...he just broke up with my bff and i like him and he likes me and he just asked me out should i go out with him?

2006-11-28 10:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy that I like. what kinds of fun things are there to do? as in have him over to watch a movie or what. my mom wont let me watch a movie with him up in our attic just because she says I cant so the only place is in our living room but last time he came over to watch a movie my little brother watched with us and my mom was sitting in the room on the computer so things were a little aqkward. we're really good friends by the way and I go to a really small school so I see him all the time and we talk and stuff. but what are other things to do with him since I don't want my mom, dad, and brother around when hes over? oh and I havent asked him out yet cause I want to get to know him better and hang out with him first to see if he likes me back

2006-11-28 10:11:28 · 6 answers · asked by sportzchic09 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this a positive sign or negative sign or neutural.
what's your opinion.

2006-11-28 10:11:17 · 18 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Singles & Dating

i wanted to know how do guys fell about girls having trust issue?

2006-11-28 10:10:50 · 4 answers · asked by GUESS 1 in Singles & Dating

Looking to hook up and catch up with old buddie..If you can prove your YOU Scott, please answer: What happened with You, Me and Terry? Where did you live in the 80's and who is Kristen? Hope to hear from you dude!
C.Clever

2006-11-28 10:10:39 · 4 answers · asked by Chris Clever 1 in Friends

I've tried informative, imaginative, witty, saucy, naughty, sublime, intellectual, crude, surreal, concise and verbose but still nothing, nada, zip!

Please people, don't make me beg.

2006-11-28 10:10:33 · 29 answers · asked by Joseph Manners 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 10:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its kinda long but read it (: i LOVE it! it describes me ohh so well. <3



"I suck at the whole relationship thing i'm tired of chasing love around. I'm tired of waiting for it as well. I guess i'm not really ready for it. I have yet to find a guy who is willing to chase me the entire way. who won't give up when it gets rocky i'm sick of guys who want something only physical. being in relationships are alright. being single is okay but i'm willing to wait for Mr. Right cause i really don't want Mr. All That's Left. I want someone who i can see fireworks with when we kiss."

2006-11-28 10:09:16 · 21 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

have a crush on this girl that is 2 years older then me. I really enjoy the time I spend with her and I have a crush on her. I don't want to ask her out just yet b/c I don't want to rush anything. I see her about 3 times a week.How should I show intrest with out being to obviouse?? What signs shoud I look for to determine if she is intrested?

2006-11-28 10:08:52 · 4 answers · asked by Rusty 1 in Singles & Dating

This question originally came up as a jovial comment but now we're interested in other people's opinions on the subject. What do you think?

2006-11-28 10:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by geoffhillyer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an x-boyfriend when my daughter was 2 mths. He helped me raise her. Now several years later they met and now they are talking. My grandma raised me and he never saw my mother. I told her that we had a good relationship and she's acting like she doesn't care. I have so much anger inside cause now he's living with her. Helpp! what should I so????

2006-11-28 10:08:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

AND WE NEED I DEAS TO BREAK THEM UP! BECUSE WE DONT WANT IT TO LAST LONG CAUSE WHEN EVER SHE IS ARUOND HIM SHE ACTS LIKE WE DONT EVEN EXISIT(spelling)!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS BUGGING ME LIKE CRAZY! CAN YOU GUYS HELP ME! THANK YOU!

2006-11-28 10:07:02 · 13 answers · asked by Josiee (: 2 in Singles & Dating

I am attracted to guys who are tall, mysterious, adventurous, just a tiny bit moody, and slightly shy yet fun to be around… something about the way they keep me guessing and the thrill of getting them to slowly open up to me is exciting…

However, I don’t think this type of man would be my ideal husband. My ideal husband would be a "nice guy", open, friendly, emotionally stable, honest, loyal, etc. He would make me feel secure that I am and will always be his one and only. But that's just so... boring...

So what's a girl supposed to do...? I'm afraid that if I marry a "nice guy", I'll be bored... but if I marry a mysterious man, I might be disappointed/heartbroken someday...

2006-11-28 10:06:53 · 11 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Singles & Dating

say your 13 and you didn't start to go out with boys until 13 but you get all your school work done you do focus in school and get good grades in school is this wrong for you to date boys

2006-11-28 10:06:49 · 15 answers · asked by MS.NEISHA-BOO SUCH A KUTIE!!!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy in my class who I had to work with in math! So we were sitting there and he wrote in his notebook that if he asked me out what would I say! I said I don't know and why did you ask me! He said he was just wondering! Does this mean he's going to ask me out later! Please help me!

2006-11-28 10:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I only ask as a male mate turned to me and Said, "i'm not going to tell you I have a girlfriend i wanna sl eep with you! Needless to say i'm still in shock. I't wasn't something I particularly wanted to be told!

2006-11-28 10:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by itgirl23 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been with two asian girls and none told their parents that i was their bf. I only went out with both for 3 months, but I still kind of felt insulted by that, kinda felt that i wasn't really accepted. btw i'm also half white/half asian.

2006-11-28 10:06:29 · 2 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend (we've been broken up about a year) and I still talk and we try to be friends. He goes back a forth from being really nice and friendly to being a total jerk and sometimes just completely ignoring me. About a week and a half ago we had a tiff and then talked about it and re-established that we are friends and that things are fine. Since then, he's been completely ignoring me. He won't answer my phone calls or emails. I'm totally confused because it came completely out of the blue after such a good conversation.
I feel like the only way this is going to get fixed is if we talk but I can't get through to him. What do I do? How do I let him know that I just want to talk to him and fix this?
Just for background, we are both 22 years old. We live in the same building and i've considered just going to his apartment and talking to him in person but I don't feel right about it, I feel like it's too aggressive.

2006-11-28 10:06:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Think that they can get away with cheating on a girl. I have caught every guy that has ever cheated on me, and most of the time it wasn't because they wanted to be with someone new. Do they just want to see how much they can get away with before they get dumped?

2006-11-28 10:06:22 · 4 answers · asked by Pirate 3 in Singles & Dating