Plz no smart remarks i am just wondering weather i should of wait to have sex. i was just so caught up in the moment i didnt think about it.
i have been dating this guy for a little more then 3 months and been talking to him for a little over four. i stay at his house on weekends. We get a long great and i love him a lot. It almost feels like we knew each other for ever.
2006-11-28 10:16:16 · 14 answers · asked by dream21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, whatever happened is now history. You can't change it. I just hope you used protection.
2006-11-28 10:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like every one who asks questions of this nature always forget or don't want to reveal their age or age bracket ,,,, It makes it allot harder to consider the questions ,,,,, So if you are 12 or 13 then yes it was too early ,,,, if your 14 or 15 ,,,, still too early ,,,,In fact if you aren't old enough to support yourself then it's too early then too ,,,, Indulging in sex requires a certain amount of responsibility ,,,, When you are engaging in sex there's always the possibility of the third party ,,,, Children don't ask to be born but if they are conceived then they have every right to live ,,,, They don't have a choice as to who their parents are either but they have every right to expect parents that will be responsible enough to care for them properly ,,,, Having children is a privilege but also involves obligations ,,,, People should think about how much they love their children before they have them ,,,,, If you aren't responsible enough and are not able to meet the obligations that go along with parent hood then think before you engage in an activity that would cause pregnancy ,,,, Once you've conceived then it's too late unless you are ready to commit murder and have an abortion ,,,, But abortion is a whole different topic though,,,,
2006-11-28 20:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm curiuos to know how old you are. If you're a teen I believe you think you're in love but it's just plain ol' lust. If your're older, I say go with what's in your heart. I just hope you know his past as far as sex, like how many partners he's had, when was the last time he had sex, has he ever been tested for AIDS, and that kind of thing. If you don't know any of this, and you continue to have sex with him, please use protection. But I have to tell you, that feeling you have now, about getting along great and all that; that will wear off in time. You just feel like that now because it's new to you. So don't make any rash decisions.
2006-11-28 18:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by November 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I'm not one to judge whether it was "too soon" or not, so I can't answer that question. But, seriously, 3 months is not enough time to say that you "love" somebody. And although you may "feel" like you've known each other forever, the fact is that you haven't and you may not know as much about him as you may think. But, I may be wrong because I don't know the whole situation. Three months for me may be too soon, but I'm not the one to judge. But, my only advice is not to say that you "love" him until you truly get to know him. If you know him as well as you think possible, and you truly do, deep down love him and are in love with him, then I say it was not too soon.
2006-11-28 18:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait a little bit, even if you love him and everything. Not long, but just maybe a few weeks. I dont know why, thats just what I think.
2006-11-28 18:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly*Ann 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are doubting whether or not you made the right decision, it might have been too soon. If you dont regret it, then no one can say you did the wrong thing. Only you can say it was wrong.
2006-11-28 18:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by camm300 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless your relationship is out of wack, I wouldn't worry about it to much. If it felt like the right moment, thats all there is to it.
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2006-11-28 18:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 months man i wouldnt of waited anymore then 3 weeks ....lol jk jk . hey if u were feeling it then he did his job of making u feel like it was time. RIGHT??
2006-11-28 18:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by bigizz75 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's really up for you to decide whether or not it was too soon. Listen to your body and your heart, they will tell you the truth.
2006-11-28 18:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Renee W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well its fornication if you do but if you not into God then have a nice evening together and finish the night with love
2006-11-28 18:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by jaysurfer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋