I had an x-boyfriend when my daughter was 2 mths. He helped me raise her. Now several years later they met and now they are talking. My grandma raised me and he never saw my mother. I told her that we had a good relationship and she's acting like she doesn't care. I have so much anger inside cause now he's living with her. Helpp! what should I so????
2006-11-28 10:08:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would honestly tell her how I feel. avoiding her will only make things worse. And in this day in time our kids need to know there peoples. So just suck it in. Forgive and try to forget how bad of a guy he is and that God will send you twice as better!!!
2006-11-28 23:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cinnamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mother has serious problems. Let her be and have nothing to do with her. If this is how she disrespects you, her love for you is false. Deal with that for starters, that truth is way bigger than the ex boyfriend issue. Seek some professional support and in the mean time have absolutely nothing to do with your Mother. She lacks a nurturing, maternal, caring component and if you stay involved with her she will only continue to hurt you and continue taking you for granted. Wise up. Do not think you can teach her, change her, fix her, or beg for her to change. Meaning when you ask what you should do. Nothing in regards to her. All you can do is take care of you. If she does not have emotional maturity now, she never will. Don't waste your emotional energy on her, she is not worth it.
Power with out love is reckless and abusive,
Love without power is sentimental and anemic.
Martin Luther King
2006-11-28 10:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Buckey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on his age and how lengthy they were jointly. If it replaced into your pal's mom's ex-boyfriend, for some reason i'm getting the feeling the ex-bf replaced into youthful, say round your age? if it really is the case then possibly...yet now it relies upon on even if you're on the verge of give way of your pal's mom and how lengthy she replaced into with the ex-bf. It makes an excellent type of distinction in the adventure that they were jointly say 10 years as against 2 months or something.
2016-10-16 10:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by beaudin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is obviously trying to make you jealous, and your mother is obviously trying to be young again. Both are flatering but it would be in your best interist to sit back and let your ex disappoint your mother the same way he did you. After all is said and done your mother will share an experience with you and it will show her how wrong it was to dabble in your personal life, that in turn will bring you two together.
2006-11-28 10:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow is all i can say to that. What the hell is she thinking? Obviously shes only thinking about herself and could care less about her daughter. Dam shame to have such a heartless mom like that. **** who needs enemies when you got her. Im sorry you are dealing with something like this. I cant even imagine,,,i think i would have to kick my moms ***. But you are a bigger person than she is....let them be and go on with your life. You dont need either one of them.
2006-11-28 10:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would feel the same way, I would just try to ignore them, I know that it is hard when you had a relationship with him. Your mother sounds like a B****.Just don't think about it.
2006-11-28 10:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but your mother is a monster. Sometime you have to forget about people like your mother. You have to start a new life and forget your mother. She does not care about you. You are on your own and you can make it!!!
2006-11-28 10:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from both of them. Or, go on Jerry Springer. Just kidding about the Springer part.
2006-11-28 11:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do. Was this guy your age or hers? This is just wrong of you mother. I don't know what to do since I would be angry too if I was in your position.
2006-11-28 10:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that tough the only thing i can tell you is to stay strong for you and your daughter and to forget about that loser as for you mom that your mom but whatever goes around comes around
2006-11-28 10:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋