Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

2006-11-28 10:46:11 · 3 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really sad because I thought the relationship was going great. He says he has feelings for me but that they are not enough for what he wants with me. It really hurt.
I decided to move on because this is not the first time it happens; he always keeps comming back and I don't know why?!

2006-11-28 10:46:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anabella B 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend that is really cute but overweight he doesnt look at flubbery hes a big strong guy.he treats me like gold and i think h likes me even though we dont talk about it.i have a bf that treats me bad and he thinks i deserve better what should i do?

2006-11-28 10:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you ever let yourself be hypnotized in a hypnosis show by anyone? Why or why not?

2006-11-28 10:43:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to divorce my husband because he pays my daughter (3 yrs. old) and I only negative attention, doesn't help with house work or childcare, and lies about money. He is also a recovering alcoholic who promised he'd stay in counseling, and that didn't happen. He is never affectionate, does not parent, runs away from it, and is just plain irresponsible, leaving me to work my full time job, clean house, take care of our daughter, do all financial tasks, etc., everything but wipe his butt.He has burnt bridges with my family who had offered him work doing carpentry at $40/hr. under the table, blew them off and never called people back after making promises and he's burnt my inlaws by borrowing a ton of cash.My credit is crap now, and has been mentally abusive.My daughter is displaying angry behavior at school like that at home when her father is home.Her teachers and I are working hard to help her through her feelings safely and responsibly.Our mortgage is jumping from $2000 to $2300/mo

2006-11-28 10:42:47 · 11 answers · asked by chapinitegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I couldn't help but notice that in all of the dating advice books I have read, it sounds as though when you are dating a woman; you are walking on pins and needles while you are with her. They make it sound like all women are terrified of sex, even with someone they are dating; and all of these books give you exact instructions to follow to have sex with a woman and they warn you if you don't do everything exactly right, you will scare her to death! I understand women are afraid of being hurt, but this stuff sounds a little extreme. Are women really this scared of getting intimate? Don't any of them actually want to sleep with a man without having to play all these weird mind games mentioned in these dating books?

2006-11-28 10:42:35 · 21 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 10:41:38 · 22 answers · asked by peggy1purple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex best friend and i were inseprable. soon a new girl came into our class and my friend started to ignore me. before that she told everyone in the school that i liked this cute boy named jake. i got so mad but i forgived her. ever since that i felt acward in this friendship. i talked to her about being ignored. she nodded and said sorry but she keeps on ignoring me. i really feel uncomfratble in this friendship and i have told her that. is this the right thing to do?

2006-11-28 10:40:53 · 8 answers · asked by Carol 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is the proper way to go about asking a church to use their sanctuary and reception hall? Both my fiance's church and my church I attend are too small to accomodate our guest list. We are both Baptists. Is there any religious restrictions?

2006-11-28 10:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by stephaniebm01 2 in Weddings

I am going to a wedding in Sicily in July, it will be around 40 C and everyone tends to wear black. It's my boyfriends bro (he's Italian and the best man and he's wearing black suit) wedding and I'll be the only british person there. I want to look good and I think it will be really dressy, I dunno if I need a hat or anything, I don't want to be outdone by the Italian chicks! I'm a size 10/12 and I've got red hair....suggestions! Cheers x

2006-11-28 10:39:47 · 13 answers · asked by Gail T 1 in Weddings

I'm currently single and would like to know if I have a revocable living trust established when I'm single (where all my property is transferred into the trust) and I later get married and I do not add my wife into the estate, will she have any rights to the home we live in, trust bank accounts, or the rest of my estate if I never add her in the trust and we later get divorced? Does she gain more rights after a certain amount of time after being married (i.e. more than 10 years, etc.). Curious to know this information.

2006-11-28 10:39:19 · 10 answers · asked by p b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like lies all the time and cheats off your homework when i say no

2006-11-28 10:38:20 · 11 answers · asked by Kat222 2 in Friends

2006-11-28 10:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by nee-nee 1 in Family

Ok. I've put up tons of Q's here about the sit. w/ me and this girl. Things were pretty hairy there for a while, but I think they're calming back down again. But, now I am just wondering if I am in danger of regressing to just a friend. It's just sorta a backwards situation. We had all the chemistry, attraction right from the get go, but I think we both tried to ride it too long. Now it's like we're scrambling to be better friends with each other, too. But like I said, I don't want to be relegated to just that (I mean she's a great girl and all, but...) So, any advice here? Any signs it's headed that direction? It's not like I suspect it is, but I just want to make sure. And please don't suggest talking to her. Not that we won't talk, but we had been doing too much of that lately and we just need to enjoy ourselves for a while w/out examining our relationship.

2006-11-28 10:38:11 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I think it was Colorado who passed the law saying you could get married at 12 or 13 with parental permission. I would never get married at this age. What do you think about it?

2006-11-28 10:38:04 · 12 answers · asked by fruit salad 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i remember picking petals off flowers whilst saying 'he loves me he loves me not'...

how many of you can admit now that you picked an extra petal off to make it land on 'he loves me'....i know i did...still do...lol

come on be honest...;0)

2006-11-28 10:37:38 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 10:36:53 · 25 answers · asked by Elvis. 1 in Singles & Dating

Please? I am getting married tomorrow and we still have not composed our vows. He is Muslim and I am just spiritual (no religion)..but we are keeping religion out of our vows anyway so we really just want something nice. Any suggestions? No jokes, please.

2006-11-28 10:35:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ive been dating my girl for about 4 years,we have a daughter togeather and she is a good mom,but ive always been raised to take care of my self,ive had a drug problem in the past,and i drank alot,these last 3 months ive gotten back into the same thing.she has put up with alot from me,i take off for days and she still takes me backi know it hurts her but i cant help it when i drink i dont want to go home because im afraid she will think im dumb,she dont drink she is pretty straite,i like to hang out with my friends and she has no problem with it if i go out on saterdays as long as i come home sunday.she said she is feeling alone i try to spend time with her i dont take her places because im always tied.but i do sit home with her and watch tv she said thats not spending time,i think it is.she said she needs to feel loved i tell her i do love her what more can i do.i know im selfish and i dont show her attention but how can i when alll she does is complain that im selfish???

2006-11-28 10:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a neat interesting person, and every girl that i thought has liked me says no when i ask them and i am getting frusterated. and people at my school are starting to think that i am gay because i have never had a girlfriend. what can i do to get a girlfriend?

2006-11-28 10:33:57 · 10 answers · asked by Poser, Scene, Emo Kid 2 in Singles & Dating

I go to a catholic school and I only go by 2 names. My full name in a stupid voice, and the holy kid. Nobody else is treated this way in my class and the teachers know about it yet they do nothing. I can't transfer because my school doesn't have that type of program. My parents won't let me leave the school, and my only friend doesn't help. I'm not even holy. I just study for religion hard to get good grades. To top it all off, my parents do nothing. Help!!! What do I do?

2006-11-28 10:33:24 · 12 answers · asked by hi_i'm_Lilly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. I met him when I was just 17 years old and he was 20. I moved in with him when I was 18 and being living together since. We were blessed with one child together thats 16 months old. I would like to know how long do you think is too long to wait for marriage?? I really want to get married .. he doesn't :P

He has hard very hard time with women while growing up .. His mother left him and his father when he was just 6 years old for drugs .. His dad then got a bitchy girlfriend that put her kids first and alway left him out .. and then he (my bf) got his first g/f in high school that left him one year after dating

Basically I sticked around this long b/c I love him and I want to change his mind about women .. but honestly I'm getting sick of waiting around for a proposal .. I know the women in his past really twisted his thoughts .. and his mother takes all the blame .. but he said it has nothing to do with them ... HELP :)

2006-11-28 10:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by 05&08 Mommy 3 in Singles & Dating

I am not the most popular kid in school but i am know by everyone. Anyways, I do talk to her, not that much but i talk to her. How can i get her to like me. Yes, this is my second time asking.

2006-11-28 10:32:02 · 7 answers · asked by Peter 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm the wrestling manager for my school westling team. The guy I really really like quit the team. We play music during our practices and the guys usually bring CD's for me to play for them. Well the guy I like forgot a CD he brought when he quit the team. The coach told me to get it back to him so anyways I thought this would be the perfect time to show that I'm interested in him but without being obvious so I thought I would write him a note something like " hey herd you quit " and " you forgot your CD so I thought I'd give it back sorry you had to quit " heart Nikki and then I want to put P.S. " If you get bored ( my cell # ) call me " at the bottom. If you have a better note or a better suggestion/idea let me know please I'm so in need of ideas!!!!!!! Oh and I was gonna put the CD and the note on his car after school!!!!! ; ) Thanks

2006-11-28 10:30:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i picked up my son yesterday at his after school program. my son was complaining about his teacher almost choke him. my son admit to me that he wasnt listening to the teacher and suddenly my son teacher grabbed my son on his tshirt and this make him choke. today i came to his school and file a police report. so they need to investigate the incident. actually some of his schoolmate saw it also...so now the police told me to wait for the police report cuz it will take sometime...now i want to put some restraining order against this teacher plus hire a lawyer...to make him pay...

now my question is should i do it????

2006-11-28 10:30:44 · 15 answers · asked by tyrha69 1 in Family

There is this guy i like alot.. And i know he like me 2.. I had always been attracted to him.. but never told me.. I know he is attracted to me as well. I know him for the 2 years now. and its just been the last 6 months i actually went out him. Before this we were both playing the chasing game. Now when ever we meet or talk on the phone.. one mintue we are fighting and the next thing you know we are making up..With all the chemistry between us this is driving me mad... i think we both share the love hate relationship.. What do guys think?

2006-11-28 10:29:53 · 4 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

if i wanted to say it and it was against the law nobody not nobody could take it out of my mind maybe i cant say it but you cant stop me from thinking it..in fact im thinking it now ..im thinking it about a lot of people right now

2006-11-28 10:29:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's something i'm wondering, i mean i'd never consider it but seriously my parents never shut up with the shouting and the vase throwing... yet for some reason they seem content with it all.

I can forge both parents signitures... could i not send off for the Divorce papers, fill them in myself and send 'em off again? I am so not intending to do this but it's a though isn't it? Can anyone tell me whether this has ever been done, or if this could ever work?!?!

2006-11-28 10:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by Aramiak 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boy friend love each other very much but we always fight wat ever the subjuct is we some how find a way to fight about it .we have been going out for 10 month know .

2006-11-28 10:29:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i met a guy at a club that goes to college in my area about a year ago, when i met him i was just getting out of a horrible relationship, so unfortunetly nothing happened between us because i was stuck on an idiot. i ran into him to again about a month ago, but found out a girl i know (not exactly a FRIEND, more of an associate) fools around with him, and likes him..now that im cleared up and over my ex, we have been talking on the phone, and we get along sooo well. is it wrong for me to keep talking to him, being that i know someone else who has feelings for him????

2006-11-28 10:29:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating