i have a friend that is really cute but overweight he doesnt look at flubbery hes a big strong guy.he treats me like gold and i think h likes me even though we dont talk about it.i have a bf that treats me bad and he thinks i deserve better what should i do?
2006-11-28 10:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
friends? yeah.
really good friends? no way.
the cases where a guy and girl are really good friends that succeed with absolutely zero attraction or sexual tension between them is very rare. of course, every "couple" THINKS they can do it. ive heard many many times "no, me and him are different...we have a special friendship." and what happens? 2 years later the guy confesses his love for the girl or vice versa.
anyways, if youre smart, you go for your friend. girls dont usually go for friends. they are initially "attracted" to them. you dont get that rush, those feelings of meeting someone new. the idea that some random good looking stranger will sweep you off your feet and treat you like a princess. the problem is, if hes that attractive....he'll know it. same with a girl. in the end, dating the good looking person with the worse personality gets really old.
dump that bf if hes a jerk. then maybe give your friend a shot....you might like it.
2006-11-29 08:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by wizexel22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like him more than a friend to me. Do you really care if he is a bit overweight? You should only care about the inside and how a man treats you. If your b/f treats you bad now it will never get any better. Get out before you get hurt.
2006-11-28 10:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by cramcram62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be just friends with a guy, that's very possible. However, in your situation it sounds like you do have a crush on your friend and vice versa. If you believe you are not getting treated right by your current boyfriend then you should take a chance with this other guy. If it doesn't work, the two of you can be friends.
2006-11-28 10:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm this is intresting on your right there is this friend who you know likes you he is the angel,then on your left there is you bf who treats you bad he is the devil.
My dear girl isnt it clear to you that when your bf treats you bad it means you are nothing to him
Deserves better you do but before you do get it you have to know whats right & wrong or should I say who is right or wrong.
Think of the present & the future do you want to have someone who care about you love you etc or the opposite.
I believe you know what you want
2006-11-28 10:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by syed422004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if u are attracted to your male friend and want to take it to the next level...maybe your guy friend is proof and setting an example that u deserve better..as for ur bf...break up with him, it's no use being in a bad relationship any longer than u have to..the longer u wait, the harder it will be to break up with him
2006-11-28 10:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you should do with any guy who treats you bad is say goodbye, so dump your EX and move on.
2006-11-28 10:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no feelings in volved they can but if they have already had a relationship and separted it depends on if they are mature
enogh
2006-11-28 10:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by peggy1purple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, have you seen movies or not!!!!!!!!
Everybody needs a friend!!!!!
2006-11-28 10:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by meatarmydog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can.. only if one is not attracted to the other.
2006-11-28 10:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by smizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋