i met a guy at a club that goes to college in my area about a year ago, when i met him i was just getting out of a horrible relationship, so unfortunetly nothing happened between us because i was stuck on an idiot. i ran into him to again about a month ago, but found out a girl i know (not exactly a FRIEND, more of an associate) fools around with him, and likes him..now that im cleared up and over my ex, we have been talking on the phone, and we get along sooo well. is it wrong for me to keep talking to him, being that i know someone else who has feelings for him????
2006-11-28 10:29:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. If he tells you he's single he probably is. But be careful that he's not committed and cheating. Those guys are bad news.
2006-11-28 10:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
B real with Ur feelings & answer the? how would U feel knowing it was happening 2 U. It is nothing wrong talking but don't try & make it n2 something more when U know the deal. If he carries on with U then it will surely happen 2 U when it is another female. Learn from Ur mistakes & B a positive 4ce N Ur relationships that U want 2 last & grow n a healthy manner.
2006-11-28 18:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by TL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Vthoki25, if the guy is dating an associate that you know of, chances are the guys is a player and is not the type to go steady with; unless you are also looking for some quick nookie.
I would just stay as a friend to this guy and see where it goes from there; that would also give you time to see if that other girl has something going on with him.
I wouldn't take chances with this guy, though. Giving you a heads up.
2006-11-28 18:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Tiff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you're talking to him as a friend or if you're trying to develop a relationship.Talking to him as a friend is fine,but trying to have a relationship with him while he is currently involved with some one no matter how vaguely you know the person or not is wrong.
2006-11-28 18:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, is this guy dating or just hooking up with. Either way he sounds like a player. Don't think that he is interested in a relationship. As for is it o.k to hook up with him. Sure if you don't mind that he might be hooking up with this other girl. As for actually dating. If you want to take that chance. Go ahead. Just giving you a warning though.
2006-11-28 18:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well hun, this associate of yours should have checked his history before she decided to fool around with him. she should have known that you used to like him and that you might still have a thing for him. so just go for it. dont be afraid to take a risk. and dont worry..because you dont know if they realy have a thing or not. so just go with it. and i wish you the best of luck. do what is right. luvs <3
2006-11-28 18:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. Just don't fool around with him until you know he is single. Stay his friend and see what develops, but keep your eyes open for new adventure at the same time.
2006-11-28 18:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to talk to a guy after that...it is wrong to step in while your friend tries to make a move on him. Besides being friends is fine...a guy could always use more friends to talk to.
-hope this helps and good luck.
2006-11-28 18:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Hideo Okino 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would you want to happen if you were the other person? I think Mr. sooo well needs to show the character to release the other girl or hang up on you.
2006-11-28 18:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone… you don’t mess with another girl’s guy… unless you want trouble…. If he’s just fooling around with some girl he’s probably playing her and probably just trying to play you too... He’s too short anyway…
2006-12-01 10:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by string1dm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋