Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

and got away with it too?

2006-11-28 11:11:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I used to have this boyfreind who was sooo nice and sweet..but you know how he brakes up with me??he passes me a note....and he has done this to me TWICE....WHY???And i know FORSURE he is NOT shy...he's sooo out going...please help..he asked me out agein but i said idk..do you think i should go out with him after he has done this to me TWICE???

2006-11-28 11:11:14 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 2 years now enjoys going to a local bar that consists of 90 percent men with her girlfreinds and I ask her about it and she says its mainly for attention. Should I be worried?? Also when does it cross the line?? She chose this weekend to go to the bar (telling me that she'd like it if i wasnt there) and I went home, when i was just hanging at her house. Thanks for any help.

2006-11-28 11:11:05 · 14 answers · asked by Derek V 1 in Singles & Dating

I took care of my mother for the 3 months she was battling Pancreatic cancer. I have nightmares and break down at the drop of a hat. I have become angry, over-emotional and dream of escaping my life by running away or committing suicide. Is this normal?

2006-11-28 11:10:31 · 6 answers · asked by smwenz1973 1 in Family

my husbands grandpa is dying so im trying to be nice to my in-laws till this all passes.we dont get along to well but im trying to be civil. anyways, we were at the hospital (me,my husband,his mom, his sister,her hubby and their 3 kids.). i was sitting in the waiting room breastfeeding my 3 month old daughter. i was fully covered. my shirt was covering everything but my babys eyes and nose. well my sister and mother in law come barging in and my sister in law starts bitching at me! she said that i need to put a blanket over what i was doing! i said my shirt was covering everything up! she said that it didnt matter i needed to cover more she had children so i needed to do a better job of hideing it! i said whatever and ignored her. this really pissed me off. SO WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS AND BREASTFEEDING?? i told my hubby and he said ok to her no longer being aloud around me and my child or allowing her in our home. :)

2006-11-28 11:10:25 · 4 answers · asked by Dungonecrazy11 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am having problems seeing my son because my ex boyfriend is so messed up in his head from drugs, i am on the birth certificate he is not because he didn't want to. He didn't even what my son when i was pregnant with him, he wanted me to abort my son i said no, Know that i have separated , i had had my son till he asked me if he could take him to see his mother who was in a coma in another state, i said yes, that was stupid. He didn't even take him his new girlfriend ,he has only be with for three day , was taking care of him. I didn't know where my son was or anything about her to find him, and they have had my son and they only let me see him 2 times and it was for about half an hour and know he dosn't want me having any thing to do with my son. i fixing to call the police i am giving him the chance to let me have fare visitation, i don't want to take him away from his father i just want my time with my son ,the same way he dose.

2006-11-28 11:09:32 · 11 answers · asked by peggy1purple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last time an answer by someone named cristy got voted out and I really wanted to read what it said so I hope I can catch it here again. Other details about the question are that I have been reading a lot lately that people who sleep around who are not trying to hurt people do because they are confident and confortable with their sexuality. It's like a sub group within society that call themselves players and practice having sex on each other to simply be good at it and feel sexy.

Also maybe I can get some new responses by more people.

2006-11-28 11:09:23 · 7 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

Recentely, we were in the gym locker room. My friend, we'll call him Tom, had his cell phone. My other friend, we'll say Jeff, picked it up and started playing with it. We're not little fags, so Tom didn't freak out or anything. (we're all 13 btw.) Jeff takes a picture of a kid; fully clothed. The kid than begins to freak out saying things like "What the **** did you just do? What the ****????!!" And trys to hit Jeff, but is so puny and weak it does nothing. The kid, also 13 years, begins hysterically crying and asking "Why did you take a picture of me!!?" and just totally freaking out. He tells the gym teachers, and they bring Jeff into their office. I don't know what happened in the office, but Jeff gets a 3-day out of school suspension. Can anyone tell me any possible objection the teachers could've found to punish him so harshley?

Thanks.

2006-11-28 11:09:09 · 3 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Friends

2006-11-28 11:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 11:08:50 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

why do guys that say they love u break ur heart??? and the worst thing is we werent even dating he told my friend he was gonna ask me out and then he ended up getting a gf two days later. wats with that??? i really loved him

2006-11-28 11:08:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 11:07:39 · 6 answers · asked by Time 2 in Singles & Dating

We are forced into an ultimatum and have to have a 2nd wedding reception a month later for an entire wing of the family (rolling eyes). I need to know how many of my possessions to sell ;-) For a decent luncheon at a hotel, what's the approx overall cost?

2006-11-28 11:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by nothingbetter2do_39 2 in Weddings

theres this guy that i really like but the only problem is my bestfriend is dating him and im not one of those people who just up and front says i really like someone i dont why but what sould i do?

2006-11-28 11:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by °~°sØccer_GÏrl°~° 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my old boyfriend of 1 year moved away this summer. Over thanksgiving break we were on the phone and he was talking weird. I was in my room at my house, not thinking annythig of it. Conidering that we were in a long relationship I figured he was having problems with his girlfriend because we were both hurt with his move 4 states away. Neway we were talking and all of a sudden i lost connection. Not even 2 secconds later he was standing at my front door ringing my doorbell. I was so shocked i gave him a huge hug.....sadly knowing that he was attached to another woman. Was this my chance to have my fairytale ending? Was i stupid not to take it because i knew that he was involved?

2006-11-28 11:06:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 11:06:54 · 16 answers · asked by xeashuff 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfiend derrick and i have been together for about 6 months and we love eachother.. he thinks i yell n cuss at him to much.. i do sometimes cuz he can be annoyin and i tell him that! He goes to the ymca almost everyday. He told me he dated and had sex with this girl Beth who goes there.. on the 5th month of our relationship he told me he was a virgin n he was scared to tell me... so i wanted him to stay home today cuz i just got a job at target and i wanted to tell him all bout it.. he wanted to go to the ymca instead.. i told him no and if he does im goin to the ymca with my friend kimmy.. he said no or else!! i said whatever so i stayed home... he left and b4 he left i broke up with him.. was that right?? Was that the right thing to do .. should i take him back..?? He tells me what to wear and everything ... what do i do!!!! ?? B4 all this happened he even said he wanted a little break!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2006-11-28 11:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by Kellie N 1 in Singles & Dating

This past year of my life mostly revolved around being in love with this guy.We never did anything about our feelings however,and my bf doesnt know about them.I've been dating my bf for ages now,but he has become friends with this guy and has become quite interested in becoming mates with him coz they will be playing together in their bands at a concert.He did something really embarrassing the other day,something said which mortified me and the boy,and my bf keeps chatting to me about him,making me feel uncomfortable.what can i do?

2006-11-28 11:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf & I dated almost 3 years. I don't talk to him at all & he's done some things that he shouldn't have done, it involves with another girl but nothing really bad atleast that's what he's told me. Anyways it's been 7 months since we broke up. When he and our friends and i get together or whenever he sees me he says hi, but i totally ignore him, pretend like i didn't hear anything or see him at all. However, for the last few weeks we had our friends "get together thing" again he didn't show up or he would leave right away. Why d'ya think he did that? well i know one thing for sure is that he tries to avoid me but why when he doesn't love me anymore (that's what i think anyway)? when he's confessed to me about the things he's lied to me about, i clearedly have told him that when i see him i'd pretend he's not there at all. it still hurts me a lot cuz i know that i still love him but i try to fight my feelings. shouldn't it be easier for him to see me anyways & not get hurt?

2006-11-28 11:04:54 · 6 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Singles & Dating

This is for those who are happily married and would NEVER cheat. You have NO DESIRE to cheat at all and you won't, but there is an infatuation you unexpectedly get from this person that you don't even want to feel. They're attractive both inside and out, and in many ways, they're another version of your spouse. And like the good person you are, you do nothing to lead the person on, and make sure your nothing but friends at the most.

Thought this was an interesting question to ask. Thoughts??

By the way, I think we sometimes meet people like this throughout our lives, but because your already taken by the one for you, you 're not going to ever cheat. I think you have an incredibly strong and real bond with the one you love if you can confidentally be yourself around these kinds of people and never cross lines. I think a real love no matter what the conditions, means you will never cheat.

This question is just to read some of your experiences on this.

2006-11-28 11:03:54 · 15 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

hi my name is ecoli and i posted something earlier so and ran outa room so read tht b4 answering please like during track she runs long distance and thts a few miles so maybe the reason she wasnt tlking was bec she was tired or maybe time of the month idk, but today i saw her once and she yeld out my name b4 she went into her class and then in track she didnt tlk much either b4 or after but i didnt c her much and after track me n my friends were standin out side tlkin and she was inside waitin fer her ride and i kept looking at here through the glass but then her ride came and i turned my head to watch her leave and when she was leaving she looked at me smiled and waved and i did the same. i want to ask her to catilion but i dont want to lose her and become one of her regrets like i said ive helped her w/ alot of probs w/ other guys plus i no she wont say anything cause shes jus like tht and i no if i ask her friends they will tell (good?)gr

2006-11-28 11:03:45 · 1 answers · asked by ecoli 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 9 ys this coming Jan. I love my husband but it seem that we are falling apart he never wants to spend time with me and has even gotten to the point that he acts like it kills him to even come home sometimes to me and on top of that hes wanting to bring anotherwoman into our marriage what should i do stay like i have been or count my losses and go on with my life because i cant handle being second in his life??

2006-11-28 11:02:53 · 20 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a choice between a nice place to live or the new friends I made over the past year... I really really like my friends they all have colourful personalities... I'm finally fitting in somewhere and my parents want me to leave its typical! It happened at my old school aswell I hate it so much! But this times its my decision and my parents are giving me a choice!

2006-11-28 11:02:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how about quit smoking?

2006-11-28 11:02:05 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

im in the process of getting over my x...its been 5 months since iv last seen him or talk to him...i still think about him and would do anything for him...is it possible to not EVER get over someone? hes everything i want his looks, personality, EVERYTHING and i try dating around but i cant move on or find any other guy that interests me because its not HIM!

2006-11-28 11:01:47 · 9 answers · asked by laughalot 1 in Singles & Dating

wat do u think love is? define it as sweetly as possible. you can be poetic if u want to. let's see what different ppl in this world think about love. good luck!

2006-11-28 11:01:29 · 19 answers · asked by lincolngomes301 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello folks.
All of my questions on this website have been regarding the same issue...me and the woman I'm in love with. I feel like we are at the end of the road. It is a relationship between persons of two different races. Things were really good for a while but now her parents and other relatives have done a number on her and she is saying strage things i.e. you'll meet someone else, why are you so attached to me, why do you love me so much, and worst of all she said "I'll find you a good girl". I have been consumed and burnt out by this relationship. I have given it my all...more than my own. I just don't understand. I love her alot, and she is my best and sweetest friend, but when family influences her she treats me like a stranger. She has been so stressed for the passed few weeks that she see's a break-up as the best solution instead of fighting. Now she has asked for a break (not see each other for a few days). I don't understand what I've done wrong.

2006-11-28 11:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by TheT 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to buy my ex a gift. The kids are more difficult. They've taken advantage of their Mom and I to the max. I let one know that X-mas and B-day cash will be halved and the other half will pay back (clear and acknowledged) loans. The other, who was most responsible as a kid and supportive during the divorce doesn't "owe" me a dime (the $ to her were always a couple $100 or less and not described as loans) but won't contact me, let me know her phone or address (Mom obviously won't help and I think she's trying to contaminate our relationship) or let me (since I don't know how to contact them) see my grandkids (her kids). With no contact for 1.5+ years, I can't see giving her lots of money. What do people think about this whole sad, sorry situation? Talking with my ex is not an option - she hates me and would like her kids to have nothing to do with me.

2006-11-28 11:01:02 · 8 answers · asked by catniplles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Was he respectful? Loyal? A cheater?

2006-11-28 11:00:48 · 4 answers · asked by Cas 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok. So the boy I like (yes, he likes me too. no we are not going out. don't ask why. I don't know.) is perfect. He plays trumpet, piano, violin, and accordian. He sings beautifully. He's a wonderful actor. He fences. He gets straight A's. He's funny. He can draw. He's hot. And he speaks fluent Lithuanian. How do I compete?

2006-11-28 11:00:12 · 18 answers · asked by broadwaybaby 2 in Singles & Dating