Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

ok I have this guy friend,I met him at the begining of this school year, and after about two months he told me he liked me, he has a g/f so he didn't exactly ask me out, but I told him I didn't feel the same way and we agreed to be friends and he told me he was over me, but he won't talk to me anymore, it's like he's scared to. is he over me or not?

2006-11-28 11:45:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i hooked up (made out) with a guy i like about two weeks ago. now imagine this guy: a cute, innocent, really shyyy guy that has only kissed a couple girls, really private about his personal life.

this past weekend, we got drunk together again and hooked up again (we have mutual friends, so we were at a party together).. since he was tipsy, he was a lot more outgoing, and a lot more forward. but in real life hes SHYYYY. (and hes not the kinda guy who uses girls for hooking up, hes the total opposite of a player)

thats the thing: he rarely talks to me, even though we see each other everyday at the university. this could be bc hes really shy, and would NEVER go up to a girl he likes w/o the confidence of alcohol. im shy too, so we dont talk much.

do you think i am JUST a f*ckbuddy to him, a friend w/ benefits? if he likes me, he would never approach me bc he is too shy. &since it has happened more than once, i have to suspect that he might like me.. but does he want smthng more?

2006-11-28 11:45:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Does it seem strange or unusual for two red-haired people to go out? There's this red-haired girl that I like, but I just happen to have red hair myself. The main reason why I don't think she wants to go out with me is because I think she's embrassed to date someone with the same hair color which is uncommon. Does it seem strange to others?

2006-11-28 11:44:53 · 5 answers · asked by PaulK 1 in Singles & Dating

This one girl at work is driving me nuts with her flirting. Help!

2006-11-28 11:44:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have something important to say to my Girl.I usually prefer to talk in person than over the phone.Either way,sometimes I look back and wished that I said things better than I did.I feel that I put my words together better when I write so Im thinking of giving her a letter.Its pretty sad and I dont want her to get the wrong message from the look on my face.I just want her to take in my words.Im not breaking up with her or anything,its just that we have been arguing a lot and I dont want to anymore.Were both tired of it.SO for now I thought this would be a good Idea to get some things off my chest without fighting or being cut off because that only makes things worse.What do you think?

2006-11-28 11:43:53 · 6 answers · asked by rock_roll_musicman 2 in Singles & Dating

would you go out with me if i decently good looking and funny and i was really energetic

2006-11-28 11:43:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you found out your husband had put himself on dating sites saying he wasn't married and was looking for fun in the local area. He tells me that he would never cheat on me, but he has lied about things in the past so I don't know what to think.
If it was just me and him i would probably leave but we have kids together. We had a talk about being unfaithful the other day and he said although he has had offers he loves me too much to actually do anything. To make matters worse I have met someone who knows I'm married but still wants to see me.
I'm so confused at the moment, is hubby just being really sad offering himself to get some attention.
I have told him that if either of us ever cheated on the other that would be it, but he always says he loves me.

I'm so confused...

2006-11-28 11:43:14 · 24 answers · asked by elaine.king79@btinternet.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my b/f want to slow down in our relationship physically becuz weve done evrything except for sex and we both agreed that wed slow down but since we dont do anything for like 2 weeks we want to...weve been going out since oct 1 of last year...how do we just not do stuff? how do we control ourselves?...its so hard!! help!!

2006-11-28 11:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my bf have been going out for 3 months new years it will b 4 (we started going out on sept. 1) but i dont know wat to get him for christmas! he is 16 so any ideas?! please help me

2006-11-28 11:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i told my guy that i needed a time out from our relationship i needed time to think. cause i felt like he didnt care about me as he use to. he will always leave me by myself and go play with his friends. i've told him not to do that but he wont listen so when i told him i needed a time out. he said ok and went on and played with his friends. but later in the day when it was after class. and his friends werent around he tried talking to me but i ignored him, because it gets me mad that sometimes he want to talk and sometimes he doesnt so i dont know what to do please help

2006-11-28 11:41:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what things do girls do that just makes u go wild!

2006-11-28 11:41:10 · 10 answers · asked by sweetlilme17 2 in Singles & Dating

Does the Spanish Fly drug really work? And how do you use it?

2006-11-28 11:40:35 · 12 answers · asked by deerhunter952 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They both like eachother and want to see how things would go in a relationship, but the only thing is that the guy is so used to having freedom to go out when ever he pleases, but the girlfriend can't because her mother is up tight and doesn't trust her that well.

2006-11-28 11:39:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..heres the situation...we started talkin 2 weeks ago...everything was going amazing..we connected and i fell head over heels for her. I asked her out on Friday and she said yes. Yesterday her Ex that i didnt know about added me to MSN n msgd me sayin that he still loves her but he lost her. They went out for a little over a year and broke up in September after he cheated on her. So now after he found out that i asked her out i guess hes trying now to get her to go bak to him. She tells me that she thinks hes a jackass and wants nothing to do with him. Is it wrong that im feeling reallly insecure about this whole thing? She acts like she really cares about me at skool cuz we cuddle n stuff, but once again, i guess im insecure about this now that i know. I dont want to be no rebound guy and I like her SOOOOOOOOOOO much...

2006-11-28 11:39:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was driving home from a bar with my brothers friend and out of the blue he said 'You know nothing could ever happen with us becuase your borther is still mad about you and xxxx" First he was simply driving me home and I was making fun of his music. Second I dated xxxx (who was one of my brothers friends five years ago and third WHAT?

Any ideas as to why he would say something like that out of the blue? Why would he say that when we are simply driving in a car on our way to meet my brother and our friends?

2006-11-28 11:39:00 · 6 answers · asked by fel512 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl i like is all like flirting with me one day then the next she like ignores me then the next day shes all flirty again then shes been doing that for like a month now so im wondering if she likes me now and if i should ask her out

2006-11-28 11:38:39 · 4 answers · asked by me_yes_me5 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 11:38:33 · 16 answers · asked by ariana 1 in Singles & Dating

someone said my boyfriend got jumed. and she waz really sad wat does it reallly mean? not like the kind of jump like i jumped off a building

2006-11-28 11:38:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering if I'm the only one out there with my V-card on reserve.

2006-11-28 11:37:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

should I keep it brief .what do I talk about?

2006-11-28 11:37:21 · 17 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

he is kinda the player type so i don;t want a relasonshop with him. but i want to like make out with him like friends with benifits. and he usually gives me a hug and says like he lets go to the bathroom and make babies. ( idk it is a funny thing if you are there) and then he said it;s too easy and i was like what dose that mena. and he was just like it is too easy. and then the last 2 days he has ignored me. and i want to know what he ment by that. why he isn;t talking to me and how to get him to like me like he did before without talking to him about it. just by my actions i gueses

2006-11-28 11:37:07 · 1 answers · asked by bria 2 in Singles & Dating

The most EMBARRASSING thing happened to me today. During PE, I tripped and the guy I like was behind me. I got scratched and I skinned my knees.

I've known him for two years and for the first year, we were really close. We act like we hate each other, but he always says "hi" to me and "sup" in the hallways. He talks to me a lot and I have the feeling that he likes me. BUT, he's really athletic and he really likes sports. I always try and impress him with my athletic skills (running, basketball).

Do you think I still have a chance with him given that I tripped?

2006-11-28 11:37:01 · 12 answers · asked by chaos causer 5 in Singles & Dating

I did say 'most men' not 'all men'

2006-11-28 11:36:22 · 2 answers · asked by rwcssndr 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean if your guy friend rings a girl up every day?

2006-11-28 11:36:13 · 8 answers · asked by fabstar15 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u guys think that teenagers should have curfews?Why or Why not? :)

2006-11-28 11:35:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-28 11:34:57 · 46 answers · asked by jj_babygirl8992 1 in Singles & Dating

hey if my friend guy flirts with me and then wants my friends mobile number and then flirts with her 2 and doesnt speak to me as much and talkes to her what does that mean does he have a better offer or isnt interested in me

2006-11-28 11:34:36 · 12 answers · asked by fabstar15 1 in Singles & Dating

i just found out that the girl i was going to ask to midwinter doesnt really want to go with me for fear of leading me on (found out from a mutual friend). we have been really good friends and do everything together and we talk all the time but she doesnt want anything more. shes not going with anyone else right now, but should i still ask her to go with me, even if it is just as friends?

2006-11-28 11:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..heres the situation...we started talkin 2 weeks ago...everything was going amazing..we connected and i fell head over heels for her. I asked her out on Friday and she said yes. Yesterday her Ex that i didnt know about added me to MSN n msgd me sayin that he still loves her but he lost her. They went out for a little over a year and broke up in September after he cheated on her. So now after he found out that i asked her out i guess hes trying now to get her to go bak to him. She tells me that she thinks hes a jackass and wants nothing to do with him. Is it wrong that im feeling reallly insecure about this whole thing? She acts like she really cares about me at skool cuz we cuddle n stuff, but once again, i guess im insecure about this now that i know. I dont want to be no rebound guy and I like her SOOOOOOOOOOO much...

2006-11-28 11:33:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have smoked since I was twelve, I'm now twenty and I want to quit. The problem:I just looooove smoking! I smoke two packs a day if I'm trying to be good, four if I just smoke all I want. I realize the health impacts. I have seen pictures of a lung ridden with cancer. Grossed me out but did not make me quit. I tried the patch, the gum, the inhaler, been hypnotized, tried cold turkey, DID NOT WORK! I even drove an hour to a nature preserve, hiked thirteen miles into the middle of nowhere, leaving my beloved ciggarettes behind, I hiked back that night and drove to nearest gas station to get a smoke. I need help!

2006-11-28 11:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by Lachelle 3 in Marriage & Divorce