ok..heres the situation...we started talkin 2 weeks ago...everything was going amazing..we connected and i fell head over heels for her. I asked her out on Friday and she said yes. Yesterday her Ex that i didnt know about added me to MSN n msgd me sayin that he still loves her but he lost her. They went out for a little over a year and broke up in September after he cheated on her. So now after he found out that i asked her out i guess hes trying now to get her to go bak to him. She tells me that she thinks hes a jackass and wants nothing to do with him. Is it wrong that im feeling reallly insecure about this whole thing? She acts like she really cares about me at skool cuz we cuddle n stuff, but once again, i guess im insecure about this now that i know. I dont want to be no rebound guy and I like her SOOOOOOOOOOO much...
2006-11-28 11:33:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your not a rebound guy just because she likes u know and dont worry go out with her and have fun u have nothing to worry bout
2006-11-28 11:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow with her dude. It's not her fault that her ex is a psycho and got in touch with you to tell you he still loves her. Obviously, if they broke up a while ago, she doesn't wanna be with him. And obviously if she agreed to go out with you, she likes you!! I wouldn't worry yourself about how her ex is handling the situation. It sucks that he cheated on her, but losing the girl of his dreams is the punishment for that. If she's dumb, she'll go back to him. But if she's committed to the idea of not being with him any longer, than she is ready for new better relationships! Show her that you're better than that guy and that you would never make the same mistake that the ex did. Don't be insecure. She's going out with you now. Not him.
2006-11-28 11:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by aslgirl143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... Im not sure how old you are but I am going to assume you are in high school... If she says he's a jerk then so be it, she obviously doesn't have any feelings for him anymore. I would wonder how this guy got your SN on msn if anything. But dont feel insecure about it, besides if she left you for this 'jackass' who already cheated on her then its her lost and your gain. You would be better off without her anyway... But don't sweat it, sounds like a guy who doesn't want someone else to have what he can't! :-)
2006-11-28 11:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by mzagge06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal, tell her what you feel. Make her understand that you don't wanna be the rebound guy. If she starts to stammer, uh oh. Back off fast, and if she stares at you and says she don't know what you're talking about, Don't call her for two days and if she smiles and assures you everything is fine. You are on a roll guy
2006-11-28 11:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by jamie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about he is just jelous....I am a girl and that has never happened 2 me me and my bf has been goin out 4 a little over a year and we love each other....Don't worry about it just take her out,buy her things,and don't let her and her bf get bak tgh......If u love her alot and she loves u alot...He will 4get all about it as long as u and ur BF go out 4 a long time and ya'll will make a perfect couple email me if u have anymore problems at==Sparklebaby240@yahoo.com
2006-11-28 11:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by →KiRSTi3 ♥z YU← 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too serious! Give her some time. If you don't back up a little to get a better perspective on things-you WILL BE the rebound.
2006-11-28 11:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Fluff C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she thinks he is a jackass im sure there is no problem its fine you be protective but dont be TOO much just love her and do everything the same way and everything should be fine, if anything happens between them then its time to talk to her other than that just be happy
2006-11-28 11:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is obvious that she wants to be with you and not him, if she wanted to be with him she would be.. so I think that you should just forget about this dude and if he im's u again tell him "your loss my gain" .. typical he cheated and now he wants her back.. I don't think so.. and good for her that she isn't .. that really just shows what a strong, confident woman you have. I really don't think u have anything to worry about!
Good luck to the both of you!
2006-11-28 11:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really like her appearantly but I think it would be wise for you to not hold your breath on this one. Girls can lie very well sometimes. As far as what you should do, nothing different than what you've been doing. If she's really over him than nothing he does will matter.
2006-11-28 11:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be stronge and keep her happy. No one like to leave a place where they get love and happines. the guy is just trying to scare you, just tell her the truth what he is doing. its better to keep things clear. if possible she should tell him infront of you that your her love now not him. he wont have anything to talk about after that.
2006-11-28 11:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋