Which is Better To Get Something Off Your Chest?

Question

I have something important to say to my Girl.I usually prefer to talk in person than over the phone.Either way,sometimes I look back and wished that I said things better than I did.I feel that I put my words together better when I write so Im thinking of giving her a letter.Its pretty sad and I dont want her to get the wrong message from the look on my face.I just want her to take in my words.Im not breaking up with her or anything,its just that we have been arguing a lot and I dont want to anymore.Were both tired of it.SO for now I thought this would be a good Idea to get some things off my chest without fighting or being cut off because that only makes things worse.What do you think?

Answer 1

i think writing would be good. just in case, at the end, write something that lets her know she can talk to you anytime about what she just read and be ready to hear her out. otherwise the letter may seem rude or something

Answer 2

I think that if you are going to write a letter than u should put some of what u just wrote in it






I hope everything works out.

Answer 3

i think you should talk in person it helps the girl think more of you and she will think not of you as a coward but a man for facing up to her which can get pretty hard somtimes

Answer 4

you need to find a smarter girl who has the sense to fully think things through before getting emotional

Answer 5

You should just tell her how you feel face to face, that way you'll know if she really likes you or not and you'll feel much better after you tell her verbally.

Answer 6

if you express yourself better in aletter, ok. do that. But it would be better to be present when she reads it, so you can talk after wards.