Hello folks.
All of my questions on this website have been regarding the same issue...me and the woman I'm in love with. I feel like we are at the end of the road. It is a relationship between persons of two different races. Things were really good for a while but now her parents and other relatives have done a number on her and she is saying strage things i.e. you'll meet someone else, why are you so attached to me, why do you love me so much, and worst of all she said "I'll find you a good girl". I have been consumed and burnt out by this relationship. I have given it my all...more than my own. I just don't understand. I love her alot, and she is my best and sweetest friend, but when family influences her she treats me like a stranger. She has been so stressed for the passed few weeks that she see's a break-up as the best solution instead of fighting. Now she has asked for a break (not see each other for a few days). I don't understand what I've done wrong.
2006-11-28 11:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by TheT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well my friend I say let her go. I know it may feel like an impossibility but trust me, you do not want to spend the rest of your life on thin ice scared that she will eventually walk out on you for reasons beyond your control. I hate it when people let outsiders dictate how they conduct their relationships. Let her go and find a relationship that is less stressful. Love NEVER hurts...
2006-11-28 11:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Making Them Listen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have done nothing wrong. The sad fact of the matter is blood is thicker than water, and if you decide to marry, you marry into a family not just an individual.
2006-11-28 19:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by fall guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... first find out why her family and relatives don't like you. If its because your a dead beat who can't find a job and drinks beer all day then they have a good point but if your not and you have your head straight... I don't know why they are discriminating against your guy's relationship. It also seems like she cannot make a decision for herself. How old r u two, anway? She should make her own decision.
2006-11-28 19:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by bettyboop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think her family has alot to do with you being unhappy.they as it seems have been talking alot to her. she seems to go along with them. i would have a heart to heart talk with her and ask her if she wants you and if she really loves you. if she wants it to be over , then let her go. she may see that the pastures are not as green on the other side like she thought. you have tasted of her family and if you were to marry her then you would have to deal with those buzzard inlaws.go on and find a new life and look for someone whose famliy wouldnt stand in your way of happiness.
2006-11-28 19:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is, you cannot do anything.
It's not your fault she is acting like this... and although she may say stuff like that, I bet she doesn't mean it. She just doesn't want to take the harsh things her family has to say.
Accept that things are like this and try to move on. Continue to be her friend. I'm sorry this had to happen to you. I wish you happiness.
2006-11-28 19:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by small one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to work on figuring out how to deal with relationships yourself...and not feeling the need to put every question you have to an online "committee".
2006-11-28 19:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ur fault. its her loss. you did nothing wrong. you to may just not be ment for eachother
2006-11-28 19:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋