ok my boyfiend derrick and i have been together for about 6 months and we love eachother.. he thinks i yell n cuss at him to much.. i do sometimes cuz he can be annoyin and i tell him that! He goes to the ymca almost everyday. He told me he dated and had sex with this girl Beth who goes there.. on the 5th month of our relationship he told me he was a virgin n he was scared to tell me... so i wanted him to stay home today cuz i just got a job at target and i wanted to tell him all bout it.. he wanted to go to the ymca instead.. i told him no and if he does im goin to the ymca with my friend kimmy.. he said no or else!! i said whatever so i stayed home... he left and b4 he left i broke up with him.. was that right?? Was that the right thing to do .. should i take him back..?? He tells me what to wear and everything ... what do i do!!!! ?? B4 all this happened he even said he wanted a little break!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2006-11-28 11:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by Kellie N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG could you be more dramatic. Anyway...he sounds controlling and you need to dump him.
2006-11-28 11:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to drop this guy like a hot potato. He is a player and he will try to control you and what you think, do, say, wear, talk to, friends, family and everything about you. Why would you stay home because of him? I may not go where he is but, II'd go where I wanted to go and not tell him or call him or have a thing to do with him. He is in training to become a big control freak and that usually turns into abuse. Thank your stars and get on with your school, job and friends and find someone that does something besides go to the Y. You are intelligent and you know the answer to your question. We teach people how to treat us and you have to cut the strings and be free from this one. He's not playing fair and he never will. Ok? Sorry. Love is coming your way from me not him. Good luck.
2006-11-28 19:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you and wants to be serious with you, there should not be anywhere where you can't go that he hangs out at. Sounds to me like he is hiding something. What reason should you not go to the YMCA where he and this Beth girl is unless he is trying to keep you two apart. A good relationship is one without secrets. If you can't be honest and open with your companion you are not to serious with them.
2006-11-28 19:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by jenifer519 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong. Give him a break. As a matter fact--give yourself a break and go have some fun on your own.
2006-11-28 19:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a loser to me...get rid of him...he lies
2006-11-28 19:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋