me and my boy friend love each other very much but we always fight wat ever the subjuct is we some how find a way to fight about it .we have been going out for 10 month know .
2006-11-28 10:29:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This shows basic incompatibility. You may love him but you can't get along with him. Love is NOT enough in a relationship.
2006-11-28 10:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I don't mean to rain on your parade by any means, but arguing all the time is definatley a sign of a very negative and struggling relationship. I just broke up w/ my boyfriend and I know it was for the best even though I loved/love him soo much I had to say enough was enough! Throughout the relationship we'd have our disagreements here and there we both screwed up before but we accepted that, but whenever we would start to argue I would give in to his side just so we wouldn't argue! Well when I found out I was pregnant EVERYTHING changed! My hormones were going crazy, therefore I was not a/b to take anymore of his crap! This point in our lives should've been him caring and doing things for me, but he still wanted me to clean the house all the time, run errands for him, get the groceries, basically everything I had done before. So I put my foot down and I swear we argued at least twice everyday! Because finally I wasn't going to let him let it all be a/b him anymore! Needless to say I broke it off w/ him (which was the hardest thing I have done in a long time) It was for the best though and I couldn't be happier! SO maybe your relationship isn't very healthy afterall and if ya'll do want to work it out then you may need to seek relationship counseling! I wish you the best in which ever path you decide to take!
2006-11-28 10:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are growing apart. Also, it takes two to fight. If you decide you aren't going to fight then just don't react to him. Maybe he wants to make you mad to have you break up with him . Maybe you are togethre because it is easier than breaking up and starting over and that isn't a good reason. There is a problem and you have to figure out why and if it's worth it? Good luck. Comfort isn't always the best thing and fighting isn't a sport.
2006-11-28 10:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a relationship to last, there must be three things: love, respect and spiritualtiy. When you always fight, respect is lacking. Love alone is not sufficient. If you can't infuse spirituality and respect in your bond, then end it. It's just my own opinion.
2006-11-28 10:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by Precy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y'know it is possible to love someone that you may not be destined to date. That's the reality of the situation. If you guys just have bad chemistry, then perhaps you guys should just be friends. Until someone matures a little and the fighting stops.
Not trying to be negative. But surrounding yourself with negativity is bad for the relationship. :(
2006-11-28 10:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by equinebeing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run, before you do something stupid like marry this guy. How can you think you are in "love" with someone you can't get along with? 10 months is a long time to dedicate to a "hateful" relationship....Find someone you can get along with.
2006-11-28 10:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by shannonscreativechaos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to address the root of your arguments. Communicate. Actually talk to each other about WHY you are not getting along. Be honest and open and respectful toward each other -- that is, if you want to stay together.
2006-11-28 10:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Shibi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont worry to much im married 20 years and still fighting near enought each and everyother day but the best bit is makeing up
2006-11-28 10:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by marie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy end it. you guys dont love each other anymore you who u all fell in love with is long gone you both have matured differently in ur relationship and the only reason u both stay together is cuz ur used to each other and u both are looking for the people u first fell in love with...
2006-11-28 10:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by colodge_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love each other so much, try talking it out. Or time out from it until you 2 can control yourselves....Some people that's how they get along is that way maybe your one of those couples...lol...sucks but true!
2006-11-28 10:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋