I am attracted to guys who are tall, mysterious, adventurous, just a tiny bit moody, and slightly shy yet fun to be around… something about the way they keep me guessing and the thrill of getting them to slowly open up to me is exciting…
However, I don’t think this type of man would be my ideal husband. My ideal husband would be a "nice guy", open, friendly, emotionally stable, honest, loyal, etc. He would make me feel secure that I am and will always be his one and only. But that's just so... boring...
So what's a girl supposed to do...? I'm afraid that if I marry a "nice guy", I'll be bored... but if I marry a mysterious man, I might be disappointed/heartbroken someday...
2006-11-28 10:06:53 · 11 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't marry :)
2006-11-28 10:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by som3a_13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's about finding someone that will complete you.
Not just someone that will fulfill everything that YOU want.
Most women put a set of "standards" of what they want from their ideal guy without really looking at the whole.
Same goes with guys except they go more for the physical attributes, blond, brunette, short, tall... etc...
Also, if the "perfect" mate came already all configured (I love this, I hate that), there wouldn't be any fun in the relationship. It's all about discovering each other and growing with eachother.
There isn't someone that comes out of a package that just right for you, you gotta custom build your partner through life. It takes time. It takes mistakes. It takes luck.
If finding true love was as easy as typing a question on Yahoo Answer, they wouldn't call it love....
2006-11-28 10:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by GigGLeS! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, women do like nice guys---I'm a nice girl wanting a nice guy, but it seems as though the nice guys want either some hoodrat who can corrupt him, or they just want the nice girl to be their friend. I don't really know, it seems like maybe everyone is running around in a confused mess, not knowing who to look for or what to look for...okay you want a HOT girl---do you approach girls like this? Be bold and eventually you will get the kind of woman you want---if you know what that is, besides her being HOT lol
2016-05-22 23:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you marry a "nice guy" if you aren't even attracted to them in the first place?? have you dated a "nice guy"?? you should date them before you say if they are boring. and about the mysterious guys....not all are the type to hurt you in the end. i am attracted to both types and i have dated both. i see myself as both a nice lady and mysterious (i'm engaged to a mysterious type). so...don't just think that mysterious guys are all the kind to disappoint you and leave your hurting...and not all nice guys are boring.
2006-11-28 10:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you know you're a psycho; most women won't even admit it. So you're attracted to bad-boys but you know they're no good for you, but a good guy is boring and unattractive. You need to find a guy who understands this and is willing to play your BS games and act like a bad-boy until "you've got him hooked". Then after you're ready to settle down he can finally be himself and be the loving security blanket you need for the long haul.
2006-11-28 10:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Agent69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice guys arent boring! i kno cuz im 1 of them and if girls are afraid of a guy that would treat her right as apposed 2 a guy that would like never talk 2 her then ive officially given up hope that there are any girls out there that are smarter than a hunk of cheese! GOD! srry but that just pisses me off!
2006-11-28 10:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be a nice girl to get a nice guy. And not all nice guys are boring, everyone likes to have fun.
2006-11-28 10:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Johnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest to go and see a shrink. You area divorce waiting to happen and its good that u arent attracted to nice guys because thats one less headache they would have to worry about.
2006-12-01 07:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet the person you like. A "nice guy" can also be adventurous and outgoing.
2006-11-28 10:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Hun ,, I'm with you on this one ,, LOL
2006-11-28 10:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by 05&08 Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋