see i have a friend that is going out with a guy named tim so tim has cheeted at all the girlfriends he had in the past but my friend marghi dose not know that but he already cheeted on her and marghi if we tell her that it is are foult because when it is up to guys she thinks of every thing the other way so pelz help i will vot you best answer to who ever answer nicly thank you!
2006-11-28 09:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her if she would want to know if he's cheating or not. If she says yes, then tell her.
2006-11-28 09:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
When you say cheating do you mean kissing and/or sex. Because flirting is not really cheating, it is sorta being too nice to some one else and can be bad but it isn't cheating. I have a tendency to think that some one else's bad relationship does not need my advice unless I am asked. If my girl cheated on me I think I would not want to know and I would continue to show her that I am the better man. People make mistakes and mature couples can forgive easier. Tim will get caught sooner or later and you will not be the one to ruin an already bad relationship. Tim might just clean up his act. It is not up to you. if you insist on butting in to her relationship then have the girl he cheated on tell your friend but to keep you out of it.
2006-11-28 09:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dhaircutta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean but you would want to know if your guy was cheating,i say put her in a position so she will find out,go somewhere where you know he might be with another girl so your friend will see them together or even if you show up somewhere with her where he is dont tell her what your doing that way she knows its not your fault,and dont leave it for to long because the longer you leave it the harder it will be on her and oh while your there start thinking of a pay back scheme at him
2006-11-28 09:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that with her you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. If you tell her that he is cheating then she will turn it around and make you out to be the bad guy, but if you don't and she finds out that he is cheating then you will be the bad guy for not saying anything. I would just, honestly, not say anything and let her find out on her own and if she asks you if you knew, lie. It will be a lesson learned to her. Unless she is having sex with him, then it gets dangerous and it's better that you tell her whats going on so she can make an informed decision.
2006-11-28 09:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is to not tell your friend but let her see for herself. If you see tim cheating get your friend to see it too. That way you are helping her see the truth without her thinking your lying.
2006-11-28 09:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are your friend and then ask her if she wants you to be honest at all times. If she says yes then tell her but don't just say right then and there. Make sure she knows that you are trying to tell you something important so she doesn't get mad when you tell her. If she says no don't tell her(I am sure that she won't!).
Best Wishes to you and Marghi♥
2006-11-28 09:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes you need to tell her!!! Yes she might be mad at you for a while but she will get over it!!! Its better for her to find out this way then for her to actually see him cheating on her!!! And if she is mad at you tell her that you couldn't stand keeping a secret like this from her and that you were looking out for her!!!! Whatever your decision hope it all goes well!!!
2006-11-28 10:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her because you care about what he is doing.
She may not respond positively to what you have to say. She might even hate you for it but, at least you know you tried to keep her from getting into deep.
2006-11-28 09:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with E B. Find out first if she would want to know. If she doesn't want to know, you might lose her as a friend.
2006-11-28 09:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you guys are really good friends i think you should tell her. But if she is one of those friends who won't believe you, (you know their indenial) then still tell her but if she doesn't believe you then just don't worry about it.At least you tryed to do the right thing to do.
2006-11-28 09:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋